Lap Dancing Friend

The main thing is you went, and had a good time... You don't feel like you wasted your money, maybe because of who she was, what she meant to you.

Everything turned out better than you ever expected it too.
 
Wyatt said:
She is in her mid twenties so obviously knows the score.It's the fact that I have known her for all of those twenty odd years.The opportunity to see her strip down to her smalls is too tempting.I'm just wondering whether to watch from a table or two away or pay for a dance myself..up close and personal ! And what her reaction might be? Would she dance for someone she knows?

GO FOR IT PAY FOR THE DANCE AND HOPE SHE WILL GIVE YOU SOME PRIVATE ONES TOO.
 
Wyatt said:
And yes...she did notice my obvious state of arousal and said

"Nothing new there! I've always been able to do that to you!"

It was a VERY expensive and VERY happy night:D

The last line suggests the possibility of multiple lap dances... And her response sure sounds flirty to me. It's possible that it was part of her professional persona, and you would need to respect that. However, if it was genuine, she may have been hinting at having been interested in YOU for some time, not uncommon being the best friend's older brother.

Since you've already got a friendship established, it gets you passed her initial rebuff. If you really are interested in DATING her, not just fucking her, then ask her out. Boldly. Tell her it's great to see her and you'd like to do so again. Start with coffe or something.

One tip I heard for dating dancers is to offer them foot rubs, especially if you arrange a date for when she gets off work.

Good luck! Can't wait to hear how it goes!
 
I phoned her today.I was kind of hoping to see her around and wasn't looking forward to the awkwardness of the situation but when I phoned I jumped right in and asked if I could take her out for a date one night.She replied by asking why I hadn't before...and if seeing her lapdance had changed my opinion of her.I guess she was asking in a roundabout way if just because she was a dancer I thought she was "Easy".

I said no,that I had always found her VERY attractive but that it had taken me several years to get up the courage and that I was worried about the fact that she was my sister's friend and ten years younger than me.

Apparently we are going to try and work around these things starting Monday which is her first night off(Damn! I wish I'd gotten up the courage to phone her before!She doesn't work Monday,Tuesday or Wednesday!).

So far I've had a peck on the cheek:(

But from little acorns:D
 
Mission accomplished if I was shallow:D Talked her into giving me my own private lapdance but she went all the way.The boys in the club don't get to see the Holy Grail;)

Obviously showing a giant hard on so she used her mouth to please me! Boy I think I'm in heaven !

After spending the afternoon in bed with her I had to let her go to dance for other men the same night.Luckily I was able to deal with that so I think it's plain sailing from here.

Don't know if anybody was interested in the outcome but I posted this as a thank you to the people who posted on this thread and encouraged me to go for it...

CAN'T THANK YOU ALL ENOUGH

:D
 
Congrats so far.

One thing to compliment you on so far is that you seem completely okay withher dancing to strange men. Some guys aren't comfortable with it but I'm glad you are. Again, congrats!;)
 
Wyatt said:
Mission accomplished if I was shallow:D Talked her into giving me my own private lapdance but she went all the way.The boys in the club don't get to see the Holy Grail;)

Obviously showing a giant hard on so she used her mouth to please me! Boy I think I'm in heaven !

After spending the afternoon in bed with her I had to let her go to dance for other men the same night.Luckily I was able to deal with that so I think it's plain sailing from here.

Don't know if anybody was interested in the outcome but I posted this as a thank you to the people who posted on this thread and encouraged me to go for it...

CAN'T THANK YOU ALL ENOUGH

:D

Wyatt...

All I can say is, You Are The MAN!

:D :D :D :D :D :D :D

S.
 
Congrats man!! :)

Please keep us posted on anything else that happens... I love reading about it! *grins*
 
My life is great at the moment which can mean only one thing....something bad is gonna happen!

I am an army reservist and on standby for the Gulf so knowing my luck I'll probably get shot!

And if the last Gulf War is anything to go by it'll probably be by you Americans!

I mean "Friendly Fire" who the hell thought up that stupid expression.
 
Wyatt said:
My life is great at the moment which can mean only one thing....something bad is gonna happen!

I am an army reservist and on standby for the Gulf so knowing my luck I'll probably get shot!

And if the last Gulf War is anything to go by it'll probably be by you Americans!

I mean "Friendly Fire" who the hell thought up that stupid expression.

We can only hope calmer heads will prevail & no one will go to war including you. You're obviously enjoying life now & we can only hope it continues for you.
 
Wyatt said:
My life is great at the moment which can mean only one thing....something bad is gonna happen!

I am an army reservist and on standby for the Gulf so knowing my luck I'll probably get shot!

And if the last Gulf War is anything to go by it'll probably be by you Americans!

I mean "Friendly Fire" who the hell thought up that stupid expression.

You are military??????????? :)

Let me say, all this time...I've had this whole "luck" thing backward!

SHE is quite the lucky woman, Wyatt. ;)

S.
 
sheath said:
You are military??????????? :)

Let me say, all this time...I've had this whole "luck" thing backward!

SHE is quite the lucky woman, Wyatt. ;)

S.

To be honest I'm ex-military.I served ten years with the British army but am on the reserve list for the Gulf.apparently I wasn't in the first batch to be drafted back but I'm on standby as I haven't been a civilian that long.One thing the army did for me was broaden my horizons with regards women...I think over the last few days I've proved that point to my lap dancing girlfriend.

I've put her thru a few scenarios and she's shaping up nicely:D
 
Sounds like things are all working out so far.


So she went down on you? Wow, thats a big jump, lap dance to sex, how cool!
 
She's told me she's been attracted to me for a while but I was never around my home town long,mainly just the odd weekend leave.I spent time in Germany,Holland,Cyprus,Bosnia and Ireland.

It wasn't until I saw this girl again I realised that I should have made a play. I was worried because of the age gap and family friend thing but I can tell you this...when you get a gorgeous girl like Rhiannon tell you she wants you and she dances just for you it's like totally fantastic.

When I saw her naked and was about to slide into her I couldn't have cared if she had told me she was a serial killler!

Strange how all my reservations meant nothing...shallow see;)
 
Never let a little thing like an age gap stop you... not since she turned 18! She's an adult now & you've been one for awhile too. If the both of you guys are consenting adults, more power to ya!;)
 
Hey, Wyatt!

Thanks for posting the ...results? outcome?

Glad for you dude! I hope things work out for your complete satisfaction.:D

Good things should happen to good people.


Hang in there,
garvin.
 
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