Lap Dance
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Ambrosious
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It's all in the music you pick. See the thing is to pick out tunes that HE likes. It doesn't matter what you listen too or like to dance to, what matters is that he enjoys this lap dance, right? Well play the music for him and he will. When he is singing along to the music, you're halfway there.
As for the naked, bumping and grinding, sweaty closeness lap dance, I have no idea. I was a DJ for 14 years.
It's in the music.
As for the naked, bumping and grinding, sweaty closeness lap dance, I have no idea. I was a DJ for 14 years.
It's in the music.
Easy Boy
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Well, newbie14, you've got a taste of the BB here. Not many threads make it five posts without some silliness. Anyway, welcome to literotica. Hope you find something useful here.
The general idea is to get him as turned on as possible, without actually having sex. You tease, and he doesn't get to respond. He's supposed to stay in the chair, keep his pants on, and not use his hands. You can do anything you want. Take off some or all of your clothes, flaunt your breasts just in front of his face, wiggle your ass at him, play with yourself, sit down on his lap, and grind away, playfully, at his erection. You do any of the above, and he will get an erection. He may even come in his pants. And you can unbutton his shirt, play with his nipples, rub your pussy juice on his lips, whatever you feel like. He's yours to tease.
Are you planning on doing it in front of other people? It could put a damper on your enthusiasm, and maybe his. On the other hand, if it's just you and him off in a room, he may not behave. If you don't want to get jumped, you might want a chaperone or two. Maybe girlfriends of yours.
Good luck. I do hope you're report to us on how it goes.
The general idea is to get him as turned on as possible, without actually having sex. You tease, and he doesn't get to respond. He's supposed to stay in the chair, keep his pants on, and not use his hands. You can do anything you want. Take off some or all of your clothes, flaunt your breasts just in front of his face, wiggle your ass at him, play with yourself, sit down on his lap, and grind away, playfully, at his erection. You do any of the above, and he will get an erection. He may even come in his pants. And you can unbutton his shirt, play with his nipples, rub your pussy juice on his lips, whatever you feel like. He's yours to tease.
Are you planning on doing it in front of other people? It could put a damper on your enthusiasm, and maybe his. On the other hand, if it's just you and him off in a room, he may not behave. If you don't want to get jumped, you might want a chaperone or two. Maybe girlfriends of yours.
Good luck. I do hope you're report to us on how it goes.
Well Newbie take some advice from someone who use to dance and that did include lap dancing. I do have to disagree with
Ambrosious though, you have to feel the music in you. If it turns you on, you in turn will turn him on. Quick pointers here:
1. pick music you like moving to
2. wear a seductive outfit, not whorish, but erotic
3. HEELS....the bigger the better, they drawl attention to your legs.....no panty hose unless they're theigh highs
4. if you two are alone and you want him confined, sit him in a chair and tie his hands to the chair with scarves
5. request he wear a button down shirt...explain that one later
6. let him be in the room by himself, start the music then come in moving slowly. You need to build him up to the climax so to speak. You can stand behind him and run your hand down his chest or your tongue down his neck. move in front of him, straddle his legs and run your body down his, make sure to use every part of your body. Remember to take off clothing as your doing this and let him smell the clothes. If he wore a button down shirt, when he's really getting into it, grab the shirt and literally rip it off him and start running your tongue over his chest.
All you have to remember about a lap dance is this, you have to like what your doing to make a man enjoy it, part of the excitment is the fact that you can touch him anyway you want but he can only look at you. Sometimes the easiest way to do a dance is to just start dancing, pay attention to where he is looking and at what part of your body and enhance that part of your body. If it's your breast, you could lick them or wet your finger and run it around your nipples, if it's your ass, smack it, put it in his face close enough but not quit too close for him to lick. I hope some of this helps you.
Ambrosious though, you have to feel the music in you. If it turns you on, you in turn will turn him on. Quick pointers here:
1. pick music you like moving to
2. wear a seductive outfit, not whorish, but erotic
3. HEELS....the bigger the better, they drawl attention to your legs.....no panty hose unless they're theigh highs
4. if you two are alone and you want him confined, sit him in a chair and tie his hands to the chair with scarves
5. request he wear a button down shirt...explain that one later
6. let him be in the room by himself, start the music then come in moving slowly. You need to build him up to the climax so to speak. You can stand behind him and run your hand down his chest or your tongue down his neck. move in front of him, straddle his legs and run your body down his, make sure to use every part of your body. Remember to take off clothing as your doing this and let him smell the clothes. If he wore a button down shirt, when he's really getting into it, grab the shirt and literally rip it off him and start running your tongue over his chest.
All you have to remember about a lap dance is this, you have to like what your doing to make a man enjoy it, part of the excitment is the fact that you can touch him anyway you want but he can only look at you. Sometimes the easiest way to do a dance is to just start dancing, pay attention to where he is looking and at what part of your body and enhance that part of your body. If it's your breast, you could lick them or wet your finger and run it around your nipples, if it's your ass, smack it, put it in his face close enough but not quit too close for him to lick. I hope some of this helps you.
Ambrosious
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pandora said:
Did we ever work together. You sound just like 99% of all dancers I have ever worked with. "I need to FEEL the music." I'm telling you, it just doesn't work like that. Dancinvixen took my advice and increased her money flow. But then this thread wasn't about that at all. Sorry. I'll turn it back over now.
I don't think we did Ambros, that was several years ago for me. I understood what you were saying about the music and I guess it's to each his/her own. I was just saying how I felt about it, and I made enough to pay my way through college so I don't think I did so bad. Returning to our regularly scheduled program now.
