Laid back, casual bald dom male vegan here.

[Betticus]

Ok, I'm seeing lots of personals that are supposedly young, sexy ladies who are looking for a dom to "break" or "control" them. I'm also seeing a lot of quick responses although I'm not seeing much at all about what is in it for the dom.

Is it just assumed that doms are going to trip over themselves in order to service the needs of some random submissives with nothing in return? What does this reveal about the nature of the power dynamic that is in play here? It hints to me that there is a lot of topping from the bottom going on at the very least.

So let us dispense with all of that kind of stuff and instead of subbies telling me what I can do for them, you tell me what you are bringing to the table. What can you do for me that would interest me and would make it worth my time and effort to get to know you?

Now, from the title you already know a little about me and if you want to know more feel free to ask. I can thin the crowd right away by telling you that I am not abusive, I don't go in for a lot of public play, I reserve the physical control for play and anyone wishing to get to know me should understand that I do not require a doormat nor do I enjoy having to exert control all of the time. If you require constant attention look elsewhere, I have a career and it takes up quite a bit of my time. I don't drink, smoke, do drugs nor do I have diseases and like I stated I'm a vegan so if you are an animal murdering alcoholic drug using smoker you should look elsewhere.

Also, I like scary movies, am kind to animals and am a sucker for hugs.

 

[HowMayIPleaseU]

I have watched you somewhat from the shadows for a while, seeing that you are very well liked and respected on the BDSM board. In fact, I've pm'd you in the past but been ignored. Which is fine, because in fact, I know that I am not what you seek.

However, I have to say, you are very far indeed from a casual laid back dom... LOL ROFL

Good luck finding what you seek... You do seem like a good guy.

 

[Betticus]

I'll have to go back through them and see what I missed. I don't typically fail to make responses, it's quite unlike me.

 

[HowMayIPleaseU]

Smiles... hopes your search is going well...

 

[TieMeandTeaseMe]

I am not your type either, I murder animals and eat them often while still bloody. But I just had to say I love your av and I'm drooling. Please tell me that's NOT you, I can't give up meat.

 

[auslit]

haha @ tie

did u forget to mention something else mister b?

 

[Betticus]

I am not your type either, I murder animals and eat them often while still bloody. But I just had to say I love your av and I'm drooling. Please tell me that's NOT you, I can't give up meat.

My main hobby is photography and I didn't have a model that day to test a chromakey green background so I just set up a tripod and shot a pic of myself. So that's me in the avvie over there. Well, actually it's me somewhere around 40 to 50 pounds heavier than I am now but it's still a decent pic so I left it.

Tell me, do you actually commit the murder yourself or do you go to the store?

 

[Betticus]

haha @ tie

did u forget to mention something else mister b?

Hey! I'm getting older and it confuses me when you do that... forget what? That's why us guys get younger subbies.. so they can remember stuff for us like where we left our keys or what the flogger is for...

 

[auslit]

Hey! I'm getting older and it confuses me when you do that... forget what? That's why us guys get younger subbies.. so they can remember stuff for us like where we left our keys or what the flogger is for...

there a ring ?

 

[Betticus]

there a ring ?

Keyring? There is somewhere..

 

[TieMeandTeaseMe]

My main hobby is photography and I didn't have a model that day to test a chromakey green background so I just set up a tripod and shot a pic of myself. So that's me in the avvie over there. Well, actually it's me somewhere around 40 to 50 pounds heavier than I am now but it's still a decent pic so I left it.

Tell me, do you actually commit the murder yourself or do you go to the store?

I have done both actually. Though only killed an animal once on purpose, then proceeded to tear him apart and eventually ate him. I felt if I ate meat I should be able to kill it and prepare it for cooking as well. Seemed hypocritcal to eat meat but not have the stomach to kill what I eat.

I have killed a few with my car, but that was on accident. Mostly a slaughter house kills my meat.

 

[Betticus]

I have done both actually. Though only killed an animal once on purpose, then proceeded to tear him apart and eventually ate him. I felt if I ate meat I should be able to kill it and prepare it for cooking as well. Seemed hypocritcal to eat meat but not have the stomach to kill what I eat.

I have killed a few with my car, but that was on accident. Mostly a slaughter house kills my meat.

How did you feel when you were killing that animal? What kind of animal was it?

 

[auslit]

How did you feel when you were killing that animal? What kind of animal was it?

this got less sexy very fast

 

[abjectsurrender]

Scary

this got less sexy very fast

I was thinking the same thing!

 

[TieMeandTeaseMe]

How did you feel when you were killing that animal? What kind of animal was it?

I thought mmmm lunch!
My body needs protein, the perfect complete protein is meat. Specifically chicken. And no it was not a chicken I shot, though that would be an interesting sight. I believe one wrings a chicken's neck...if you can catch it.

 

[TieMeandTeaseMe]

Sorry just because I have a pussy, doesnt make me one.

 

[kaycee217]

Sorry just because I have a pussy, doesnt make me one.

Whatever bakes your cookie.

 

[HowMayIPleaseU]

goodness... certainly a new form of flirting going on here... LOL

 

[plenty_of_curvs]

Very tempted by your words and picture - I will have to work on a suitable reply.

I do eat meat (though I don't kill it myself). Would that automatically disqualify me?

 

[ketalia]

Hi Betticus!

So I have a question. Or two. Or maybe more than that...

So are you looking for another total Vegan or will a vegetarian do? And are you a raw food Vegan? I poked around the BDSM forum and saw that you've had some health issues (I hope you're doing better!) and that your Vegan diet is helping. (YAY!) So now I wonder. Is your Veganosity health inspired, values inspired or religious inspired (IE most Buddist diets are Vegan, even if they're not really pointed abou it. The two philosophies kind of entwine.) I went Vegetarian for health reasons a few years ago, but raw foods would probably kill me. Or at least make me really really uncomfortable.

ETA: found your raw foods thread.

 

[TieMeandTeaseMe]

Very tempted by your words and picture - I will have to work on a suitable reply.

I do eat meat (though I don't kill it myself). Would that automatically disqualify me?

I think the killing it myself is what threw me out of the running, but maybe you will be fine Wait you aren't a smartass... are you? That won't help.

(sorry Betticus I couldnt resist, I'll take my 10 lashes now)

 

[plenty_of_curvs]

Wait you aren't a smartass... are you? That won't help.

Uh oh ...

 

[Betticus]

It would be hypocritical of me to give someone a pass for hunting since I've done it myself.. I just never liked it or found any happiness in killing. If it's for survival that's another matter. I had to go vegan for the health reasons but now that I have I just feel lots better. I got a wild streak a couple of months ago and had a double cheeseburger and fries.. it almost killed me, I thought I was going to have to go to the emergency room. Turns out that if you don't eat meat or animal products for a while then your body doesn't tolerate them well at all.

Also, it is true that going vegan totally changes the taste of your cum and there is no unpleasant body odor even when you get all sweaty and hot. I've had a couple of girls say I smell nice.

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

Only here to leave you kisses and wish you good luck!!

(As I am truly a hunter/gatherer from way back....)

 

[TieMeandTeaseMe]

It would be hypocritical of me to give someone a pass for hunting since I've done it myself.. I just never liked it or found any happiness in killing. If it's for survival that's another matter. I had to go vegan for the health reasons but now that I have I just feel lots better. I got a wild streak a couple of months ago and had a double cheeseburger and fries.. it almost killed me, I thought I was going to have to go to the emergency room. Turns out that if you don't eat meat or animal products for a while then your body doesn't tolerate them well at all.

Also, it is true that going vegan totally changes the taste of your cum and there is no unpleasant body odor even when you get all sweaty and hot. I've had a couple of girls say I smell nice.

Whoa! You didnt say ANYTHING about tasting yummy!!!!
I give up hunting. I will negotiate the red meat... after I taste