Kama Sutra
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I have always had a mixed reaction about anal sex with women.
ladies, enlighten me, do you like it??
ladies, enlighten me, do you like it??
Ladies, your opinion on Anal sex
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Kama Sutra
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....those of you ladies who have not tried it, have you thought about it??
cymbidia
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Love it.
Lots of us do.
For more info, go read here: http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=28558
http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=27740
Lots of us do.
For more info, go read here: http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=28558
http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=27740
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It took me years to work up to it but yes I love it. It is a total turn on. Of course it is not an every night thing but when you look forward to it and it is the most enjoyable feeling you will ever had.
But work your way up to it and use lots of lube. Try somethings out first too. Maybe some but plugs and stuff. So you will get used to the sensation.
But work your way up to it and use lots of lube. Try somethings out first too. Maybe some but plugs and stuff. So you will get used to the sensation.
SallyIsHere
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Yes
When I am really excited and horny, I have the most incredible orgasms from anal. Plus, it's erotic and naughty and the guys love it too.
When I am really excited and horny, I have the most incredible orgasms from anal. Plus, it's erotic and naughty and the guys love it too.
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I think it's great as long as you're prepared (ie enough lube, and time). Also, the penetrator needs to be make sure that the penetratee isn't in pain (sometimes it can take your breath away, making it hard to say anything). I've had some wonderful orgasms with anal though.
Kama Sutra
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GRREEEATT TIPS!!!
Thanks gang for all the advise!!
.....turns me on for sure.....by how do i convince my woman???
Thanks gang for all the advise!!
.....turns me on for sure.....by how do i convince my woman???
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Anal sex is wonderful! I love it (though it's been a while since I've had it now sicne I've tightened up again). Anyway, I can have better, stronger orgasms from anal sex than I can vaginal.
Anal sex is wonderful! I love it (though it's been a while since I've had it now sicne I've tightened up again). Anyway, I can have better, stronger orgasms from anal sex than I can vaginal.
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My biggest worry was mess. But it took a lot of patience, lots of lube, and a guy who was willing to take the time and be VERY gentle. I love it now, just NOT all the time.
My best advice would be to go very slow, take lots of time, and be gentle, and the more lube the better. As far as convincing her, it might take some time and LOTS assurance, but you should NEVER force her to do anything she doesn't want to. I'm sure you know that.
My best advice would be to go very slow, take lots of time, and be gentle, and the more lube the better. As far as convincing her, it might take some time and LOTS assurance, but you should NEVER force her to do anything she doesn't want to. I'm sure you know that.
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I, personally, enjoy anal sex very much. Last year I dated a gentleman who was horrified by the idea. It was a disppointment. The first time I have ever met a man who did not desire to enjoy that aspect of a woman.
But I did learn from that experience--never request it before checking to see how receptive he is to the idea first. Sheesh--how did I manage to end up with a guy who was soooooooo vanilla? (And yes, he was completely vanilla--he was very talented, but not willing to vary his routine at all--too bad. I hope he finds someone more suited to him. )
(Oh, and our breakup wasn't based on sex--his next duty station is in Maine and I am not willing to leave Texas. Among several other reasons....)
But I did learn from that experience--never request it before checking to see how receptive he is to the idea first. Sheesh--how did I manage to end up with a guy who was soooooooo vanilla? (And yes, he was completely vanilla--he was very talented, but not willing to vary his routine at all--too bad. I hope he finds someone more suited to him. )
(Oh, and our breakup wasn't based on sex--his next duty station is in Maine and I am not willing to leave Texas. Among several other reasons....)
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1. Read the other threads i gave you earlier.
2. Be absolutely certain you and she talk it over first.
3. Be absolutely certain she's comfy on her hands and knees, if that's the way you're planning to do this thing. Some women feel inhibited in that position. If she's not comfy with it, then practice having vaginal sex in that position first or choose another position for anal sex. (An aside, the other possible positions for anal sex are, IMO, more difficult for novices to get right and feel comfortable with than is the classic woman-on-her-knees-butt-up-and-cheeks-spread position.)
4. Be absolutely certain she is *very* aroused before you start pushing into her anus.
5. Use LOTS of lube. You cannot use too much lube. So the fuck what if you have to strip the bed and wash the sheets later!
6. Push gently, gently, gently on her sphincter muscle (that incredibly tight ring of muscle that lives at the opening to our anuses) with the head of your cock until your cockhead JUST pops through. Stop. Wait. Doesn't matter if your body is screaming at you to go. Let her get used to the feeling, and it's a WEIRD feeling at first. Keep the heat WAY up between you; don't let her nervousness or the little bit of discomfort she'll probably be feeling get in the way of the eroticism or it'll all be over.
7. After she's relaxed a bit, begin to push into her body more deeply. Go slowly. Keep your hands moving on her body, keep her head into the play. Most of the nerves are located in the very outermost parts of her anus so you pushing in deeper and deeper should not really hurt beyond an alien feeling of fullness and the still-new-and-maybe-scary-and-painful stretching of her sphincter.
8. Go and read about anal sex, both of you. Here's a good link: http://www.sexuality.org/l/incoming/aanal.html (Don't be put off by the words "advanced anal sex techniques" in the title; it includes the basis in great and good detail as well.)
Do i like anal sex? Oh yeh. It's incredibly, indelibly erotic.
2. Be absolutely certain you and she talk it over first.
3. Be absolutely certain she's comfy on her hands and knees, if that's the way you're planning to do this thing. Some women feel inhibited in that position. If she's not comfy with it, then practice having vaginal sex in that position first or choose another position for anal sex. (An aside, the other possible positions for anal sex are, IMO, more difficult for novices to get right and feel comfortable with than is the classic woman-on-her-knees-butt-up-and-cheeks-spread position.)
4. Be absolutely certain she is *very* aroused before you start pushing into her anus.
5. Use LOTS of lube. You cannot use too much lube. So the fuck what if you have to strip the bed and wash the sheets later!
6. Push gently, gently, gently on her sphincter muscle (that incredibly tight ring of muscle that lives at the opening to our anuses) with the head of your cock until your cockhead JUST pops through. Stop. Wait. Doesn't matter if your body is screaming at you to go. Let her get used to the feeling, and it's a WEIRD feeling at first. Keep the heat WAY up between you; don't let her nervousness or the little bit of discomfort she'll probably be feeling get in the way of the eroticism or it'll all be over.
7. After she's relaxed a bit, begin to push into her body more deeply. Go slowly. Keep your hands moving on her body, keep her head into the play. Most of the nerves are located in the very outermost parts of her anus so you pushing in deeper and deeper should not really hurt beyond an alien feeling of fullness and the still-new-and-maybe-scary-and-painful stretching of her sphincter.
8. Go and read about anal sex, both of you. Here's a good link: http://www.sexuality.org/l/incoming/aanal.html (Don't be put off by the words "advanced anal sex techniques" in the title; it includes the basis in great and good detail as well.)
Do i like anal sex? Oh yeh. It's incredibly, indelibly erotic.
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OH Yeah!
I heartily agree with all the good advice, but on a personal note - after the head has popped in I prefer to push back against my hubs,(maybe it`s a control thing?) but I can then adjust more easily to his size. I got to say it`s also a big turn on too, the fact that it is me who is fucking his cock! then it all goes straight to hell and we both go for it - ooops - I`m in danger of saying too much!
Good luck Kama,
CH
I heartily agree with all the good advice, but on a personal note - after the head has popped in I prefer to push back against my hubs,(maybe it`s a control thing?) but I can then adjust more easily to his size. I got to say it`s also a big turn on too, the fact that it is me who is fucking his cock! then it all goes straight to hell and we both go for it - ooops - I`m in danger of saying too much!
Good luck Kama,
CH
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Re: GRREEEATT TIPS!!!
Originally posted by Kama Sutra:
Thanks gang for all the advise!!
.....turns me on for sure.....by how do i convince my woman???
on idea for convincing her? first let her try it on you with toys... it helps her see what's happening, how it works. it helps her gain that added trust she might need about it. and having it done to you will give you a greater appreciation for what she will be feeling and will remind you to use lots of lube and go slow since you've been there.
just a thought... i've suggested that to my girlfriends who were nervous about trying it for the first time... after they played with him, they couldn't wait for it themselves.
have fun! *wink*
Originally posted by Kama Sutra:
Thanks gang for all the advise!!
.....turns me on for sure.....by how do i convince my woman???
on idea for convincing her? first let her try it on you with toys... it helps her see what's happening, how it works. it helps her gain that added trust she might need about it. and having it done to you will give you a greater appreciation for what she will be feeling and will remind you to use lots of lube and go slow since you've been there.
just a thought... i've suggested that to my girlfriends who were nervous about trying it for the first time... after they played with him, they couldn't wait for it themselves.
have fun! *wink*
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I hate anal sex. It hurts -- and not in a good way. It completely astounds me when I read these boards and see how many women love it.
the last man i was involved with, my ex fiance, had a kinda small cock for my liking, so i really loved anal sex with him, cause i knew i was being screwed. i first tried anal when i lost my virginity. i think it just depends on the woman's body type as to whether she likes it or not. at least finger her ass with some lube before hand to get her ready, slowly at first. and watch out, if the girl cums before you do, your dick might pop out and it might be hard to get it back in!
