Ladies WWYD if you caught your male partner watching porn?

[Kharn6978]

Ladies, knowing you visit sites like literotica, what would you do if you caught your man masturbating to porn?

 

[Tessinwales]

I'd sit down and watch it with him. Nice bit of porn can really get things moving.

 

[Diann_Mom]

Obviously help him with it!!

 

[AnnaKahn]

My man would be as kinky as me so he would never be "caught", I would want him to feel free to watch it openly and with me next to him. In fact it should be a situation where we discuss what we're watching and choose something together. Preferably something very wild and rough.

 

[Diann_Mom]

It's kind of a sign when he's leaned back in his easy chair, pants open and stroking his wonderful cock to let me know he wants me. I hate to be interrupted from my favorite TV show but it's always well worth it!

 

[IARainman]

My man would be as kinky as me so he would never be "caught", I would want him to feel free to watch it openly and with me next to him. In fact it should be a situation where we discuss what we're watching and choose something together. Preferably something very wild and rough.

We don’t need to discuss, put something on, let’s explore it together, there’s time to talk later

 

[Filipinahotwife]

I was raised in the Philippines as a very conservative Catholic. During the early years of our marriage I would get so mad when I would catch him looking at porn. Over the years my husband convinced me that watching it together could be a good thing

 

[LMWM321]

I'm going to answer this even though I'm a man - which is probably true of half of the people on literotica claiming to be women anway

If my wife caught me watching Porn, she might say any of the following. And they would merely be reminders of past discussions we've had about it:

• "I have no issue with you watching Porn, but don't expect me to do what you're watching. We can discuss doing it, but don't expect me to say 'yes'. If you do, then it's a problem."
• "I'm fine with you watching Porn, but if it persistently leads to you being unable to get aroused for me because you masturbated to it earlier in the day - then it's a problem."
• "If Porn diminishes your desire for MY body and the kind of sex I am comfortable with, then it's a problem."
• "If you watch anything that is unethical because of age, non-consent, or state of mind.. Or, it depicts misogyny, violence or racism then it's a BIG problem! If you enjoy that kind of Porn, then you're not the man I thought you are."

Basically, my wife understands that porn helps me to deal with our desire discrepancy and it's harmless so long as what I watch is ethical AND it doesn't diminish my interest or readiness for sex with her. I'm careful to make sure that doesn't happen. In fact, I never masturbate as I watch porn - I watch it to keep my libido revved so I'm easily aroused when she's interested, which is 2-3/ wk which is pretty damn great!

As an aside, my wife won't watch porn at all. BUT she very much enjoys the erotic and very explicit stories that I write about her. She does the final editing and gives final approval before I submit them. ..And she reads (or I read to her) many of my posts here in the forums.

 

[Maturelickr]

I'd sit down and watch it with him. Nice bit of porn can really get things moving.

Amen to that

 

[PhoenixRyzing]

Obviously help him with it!!

I love when my wife does this.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

Clever way to get women to respond to your thread. I doubt any women on this site would get upset with this.