Ladies: Would you sleep with a married man?

[Anais Dahl]

Would you? Or would you take the roll of a mistress? A long term relationship with a married man, whose wife doesn't know?
















I might, but then again I am evil.

 

[lovetoread]

No

 

[Guest]

 

[SweetCherry]

I've had one nite flings before with married men. I wasn't proud of it. I wouldn't do it anymore tho. I've moved past that stage in my life.

 

[peachykeen]

No. I know how I would feel if I found out my husband were having an ongoing affair, and I would not do that to another woman.

 

[InnocentAngel81]

i wouldnt do that it just seems so wrong

 

[Willing and Unsure]

as long as I know he's married, there is no way in hell I would consider it

 

[Cheyenne]

What if the wife knew and was fine with it? Does that change any of your judgmental answers?

 

[Anais Dahl]

Judgemental answers? It was a question. A curious question, that is all. If the wife knows, then it nullifies the question. Then the question would be more along the lines of "Would you sleep with a man who has an open marriage?"

By the way, I do have an open marriage, so pipe down.

No one is being judgemental.

 

[VanB]

Interesting that the answers so far are basically in the negative but there must be plenty of women here who would (if the board is representative of the public at large) and there's been nothing form them so far.

 

[juicylips]

Cool thread.

Yes, I would as long as it was just about fucking.

JL

 

[WhatsHerName]

Well I have in the past been the other woman. I wouldn't suggest it to others though.

 

[SkyBluAngelEyes]

I'd have to say a big fat NO to this.

I dated a married man for a couple of months. I didn't sleep with him, but he swore he was divorced. I didn't find out until his wife called me.

 

[Willing and Unsure]

What if the wife knew and was fine with it? Does that change any of your judgmental answers?

I wasnt being judgemental Chey, just honest. I was with a guy once, just dating him, and things turned out that I was the girl on the side. I knew how it felt then and we werent anything extremely serious. I wouldnt be able to do that just from a past experience. I dont like to share I guess you could say.

 

[VanB]

Cool thread.

Yes, I would as long as it was just about fucking.

JL

With you, JL, I can't imagine it being about anything other than fucking. LOL

 

[perks]

I sleep with a married man every night.

 

[SkyBluAngelEyes]

Judgemental answers? It was a question. A curious question, that is all. If the wife knows, then it nullifies the question. Then the question would be more along the lines of "Would you sleep with a man who has an open marriage?"

By the way, I do have an open marriage, so pipe down.

No one is being judgemental.

If he's in an open marriage, would it really matter then if the wife knew? I still don't think I could do this. Open marriage or not. It's just not my style.

 

[juicylips]

With you, JL, I can't imagine it being about anything other than fucking. LOL

I'm going to take that as a compliment.

JL

 

[Anais Dahl]

I admitted it. I have once. I slept with my husband's best friend, who has been married for a long time. His wife is a very sweet woman, but she is also one of those women who are in a state of permenant denial that her husband fucks around. She actually knows about it, as she has made very open and direct references to it before, but if I came out and said "I had sex with your husband" she would not know what to do with herself.

On the other hand, since then, she has tried to get me into threesomes with her and the hubby, and I have decided to stay out of it.

Oh, and the fling with her husband was a one nighter, and it was a threesome with me, my husband and his best friend.

Fun- but not worth a second round that would upset her.

 

[Cheyenne]

Judgemental answers? It was a question. A curious question, that is all. If the wife knows, then it nullifies the question. Then the question would be more along the lines of "Would you sleep with a man who has an open marriage?"

By the way, I do have an open marriage, so pipe down.

No one is being judgemental.

Your initial question said nothing one way or the other about the wife knowing about it. Your followup question about being a mistress in a long term affair is the only place you mentioned it being a secret from the wife. If the wife knowing nullifies the question (and I don't think it does) then the question should be clarified to be "would you sleep with a married man without his wife knowing about it?"

But it's your thread. You can be as clear or vague as you'd like.

You must be a newbie though if you think I'll ever "pipe down."

 

[perks]

chey dropped the newbie bomb.

*laughing*

 

[Anais Dahl]

Cheyenne: Your initial question said nothing one way or the other about the wife knowing about it.

Anais: Would you? Or would you take the roll of a mistress? A long term relationship with a married man, whose

wife doesn't know?

 

[sunstruck]

Pretending for a moment I wasn't married, NO. Even if he was in an open marriage it's not a situtation I would get myself into. Too many land mines.

 

[Cheyenne]

chey dropped the newbie bomb.

*laughing*

They are kind of like puppies. They need to learn from the beginning what will work and what won't. Telling me to "pipe down" is decidedly in the "won't" column.

 

[perks]

They are kind of like puppies. They need to learn from the beginning what will work and what won't. Telling me to "pipe down" is decidedly in the "won't" column.

you know, I don't really think that works with anyone, but I see your point.

oh and so I'm not a complete hijacker.

I fuck who I want to fuck.