Ladies, Will she ever Swa...

[klippert]

This subject has been touched upon, probably 2nd only to 'cock-size'....."Will my wife Ever swallow my cum"

Are there any wives that swallowed later in life.....what bridges did you cross...and do you still indulge in this pleasure....
Did you just do it....then realized something

..... Is there a way to ease her into this. She says it's a texture thing... I'm not sure quite what that really means. I can only think....she had tried this with a boyfriend and was caught off guard. We all know, we certainly don't cum the same...I'm guessing she was sucking a guy with that 'chunky' jizz...

Yes I've taste myself...I had a gf that like me to open my mouth...aim my cock towards it while jacking me off...then make-out after... I'm not chunky.. rather tasty...

This is not the be all that ends all...we've been together, married for a long time. I laughed when comedian Ron White described his honey moon.... He has is "ill do list" . His new bride handed him her...."I won't list"....

Is there anyway she can understand how wonderful her cock-sucking is...but, how much more relaxing, erotic, and how much more the mental part of this intimacy, and orgasms is... I'll happily kiss her...hell snowball with her if she wishes... I'll lick and suck her creamy pie is that helps....

Is there any wives that swallowed later in life.....what bridges did you cross...and do you still indulge in this pleasure..

Please PM or respond here...

 

[TeaforMe]

I don't love the taste of cum either, and like Rainshine, I have no desire to treat it like candy in my mouth, BUT I do swallow my husband on nearly every occasion now.

After 13 years of being together and countless blow jobs that ended anywhere but my mouth, I decided I needed to figure out how to make it to completion. I have swallowed others in the past, not regularly but a handful of times, so I knew it was not impossible.

I figured out that if he cums towards the back of my throat, past my taste buds and where I really don't have to mess with the texture too much, I can handle it just fine. It's best if we've had sex for a few days in a row so I can handle the load easier, and I need to be in control of the motion. If he starts to press down too aggressively, it will trigger my gag reflex and my instinct to abort the whole thing, so hubby has learned how to be a good recipient.

It excites me to know that he is getting maximum pleasure and that I am not leaving unfinished business. Now if only he would reciprocate with the same frequency, life would be dandy.

I think your biggest hurdle is getting her to want to. If she is dead set against it, I am not sure how to convince her to try to get to the point that she is comfortable swallowing. There is some trial and error to be expected and it might not always be pleasant, so to overcome that part might be difficult.

 

[NightL]

I would hope your wife could come to that point and go there for you, even if it's just every now and then. How you get her there, I'm not sure sorry.

klippert - show your wife the last two posts

and the following...

My point is, sometimes we do things for the people we are with and love that might not be ideal for us, but we do them with gusto and get great pleasure from them for different reasons.

...is one of the most significant and totally the best advice I have read for a long time here. This is not about doing something against your will, but for the love of your partner and the joy it brings. If both partners are willing to take that step then they will indeed deserve to be together for a rewarding long time.

That one paragraph could save so many relationships if it were truly appreciated and understood. Damn.

 

[Dianthus]

On the practical side, even if you are aiming past the tastebuds, here are some suggestions that may make swallowing more palatable:

1. Drink the recommended 64 oz. of water every day.

2. Limit dairy, caffeine, soda pop, nicotine, alcohol and cruciferous vegetables (broccoli, brussel sprouts, cabbage, etc.). Go easy on garlic and onions too.

3. The SDS (sperm-delivery system) has a pretty short uptake in the nutrient department. A few hours before, have a juice or smoothie that contains any combination of celery, apples, melon, berries, pineapple, mango or grapes.

BTW, you should share; these make her taste yummy too.

 

[NippleMuncher]

As with all things, it's all about communication and a willingness between partners to explore, pleasure, and indulge their partner's desires.

As suggested, it's possible that by changing her technique, she won't experience the unpleasantness she describes. With diligence on your part, you can alter your flavor somewhat to something less off-putting, if that is part of the issue.

Ultimately, as is the case with these things, there is absolutely NOTHING you can do that will change her mind, except open and honest communication and maybe finding a compromise. Good luck, report back.

 

[Miles Long]

When she says she doesn't like the texture that could be a simply factual statement. When I was a kid I didn't like to eat onions because of the texture. I like onions now though, so I don't want any onion farmers giving me shit on here.

 

[Miles Long]

I don't like the texture of oysters, I can't eat them.

Oysters are gross.

 

[Miles Long]

I'd rather eat rocky road, on a yacht.

In freshwater or saltwater?

 

[thesweetsweetness]

We were married about 11 years before I first swallowed. I had only once before had cum in my mouth, way back when we were just dating. I spit then and just never did it again. Fellatio was usually just a form of foreplay and never done to completion.

I honestly just feared I wasn't any good at it, so I didn't do it often. It wasn't until reading on lit about men saying how wonderful it is that I decided to try for hubby.

 

[NaturistLouise]

Tongue In Cheek Response

Klippert, these appear to be your options (lol):
A. Tie her up and force her to swallow! Maybe a gang scene to get her really used to it.
B. Make her feel really guilty and make her feel obligated to swallow.
C. Have a long candid conversation about how much you would like it, what you would do to pleasure her and how you could work at improving texture. Mmmmm, I can see a mutual taste testing!
D. Show her this thread and discuss it openly.
E. All of the above
F. Both A and B, doing B first.
G. Both C and D

The choice is yours!

 

[klippert]

I don't love the taste of cum either, and like Rainshine, I have no desire to treat it like candy in my mouth, BUT I do swallow my husband on nearly every occasion now.

After 13 years of being together and countless blow jobs that ended anywhere but my mouth, I decided I needed to figure out how to make it to completion. I have swallowed others in the past, not regularly but a handful of times, so I knew it was not impossible.

I figured out that if he cums towards the back of my throat, past my taste buds and where I really don't have to mess with the texture too much, I can handle it just fine. It's best if we've had sex for a few days in a row so I can handle the load easier, and I need to be in control of the motion. If he starts to press down too aggressively, it will trigger my gag reflex and my instinct to abort the whole thing, so hubby has learned how to be a good recipient.

It excites me to know that he is getting maximum pleasure and that I am not leaving unfinished business. Now if only he would reciprocate with the same frequency, life would be dandy.

I think your biggest hurdle is getting her to want to. If she is dead set against it, I am not sure how to convince her to try to get to the point that she is comfortable swallowing. There is some trial and error to be expected and it might not always be pleasant, so to overcome that part might be difficult.

This is exactly the point I've tried to get across...I have told her, myself...If it gives her pleasure I want to try it...

 

[klippert]

My deep dark secret is, I really don't like my husbands cum either. I have no desire to taste it, or swirl it around in my mouth, or share it with him in a kiss, or anything much else that involves it in my mouth. Why? I don't like his taste - that's all.

So... maybe that makes me a bad wife BUT what makes me a good wife is that he does not know any of that. I devour it like it's Creme Brûlée. I do all those things and then some, because it is what he desires, deserves and needs and I know it makes him feel like he's the best thing that's ever been in my mouth. My pleasure in doing it comes from his pleasure. Not from it's taste.

My point is, sometimes we do things for the people we are with and love that might not be ideal for us, but we do them with gusto and get great pleasure from them for different reasons.

I would hope your wife could come to that point and go there for you, even if it's just every now and then. How you get her there, I'm not sure sorry.

Thank you....I have never expected MrsK to make it some kind of low budget D- porn movie out of it... But your point: "I know it makes him feel like he's the best thing that's ever been my mouth".... That's all, I realize one thing...sex is the only part of a relationship that your spouse makes you happy, Oh sure there are other things....but I DO NOT expect my wife to make me happy....I'm happy BEING WITH my wife... Fucking and sucking....That's where the wires cross...Where I want to do everything I can to pleasure her....make her happy

 

[klippert]

Klippert, these appear to be your options (lol):
A. Tie her up and force her to swallow! Maybe a gang scene to get her really used to it.
B. Make her feel really guilty and make her feel obligated to swallow.
C. Have a long candid conversation about how much you would like it, what you would do to pleasure her and how you could work at improving texture. Mmmmm, I can see a mutual taste testing!
D. Show her this thread and discuss it openly.
E. All of the above
F. Both A and B, doing B first.
G. Both C and D

The choice is yours!

We have discussed it and have had that converstation... and no...I'm not going to abuse her. Thanks for your insight

 

[klippert]

little update....I had and late morning blow-job... we were joking round earlier about blow jobs... and swallowing. I commented on her 'mo'ko la'tea bla bla coffee and asked if she'd like a special sauce...She commented: If you tasted like that, your chances are better". I laughed and said i can change my flavor... Then I stopped....looked at her and said..."You're passed the texture issue"

back the the blow job... She knows what I'd like... She was sitting at the corner of the bed... naked, told me to hold her hair back....at one point she said for me too pump in and out of her mouth... while she stroked me with her hand and massaged my balls...(T.M.I)

I was getting close....she stayed there....'oh baby I going to cum'.... she held on.....I felt her tense, then pulled back...BUT stayed close enough for my cum to land on her face..slightly opened mouth..then finished me on her DD titties...

she was still stroking me...and said...."you always cum so much babe". leaned in and licked my cock slit.... I thought she might take me in her moth, me all cum covered.... then those brat kids started in on each other... I love them though...

I have to wonder...If it might have something to do with "quantity". Yes a 43 I still produce quite a bit

 

[NippleMuncher]

Sounds like you gained some new insights today, or at least the door was thrown way open for discussion of today's events! Don't wait too long to broach the subject with her again, because it seems a bit of mixed signals are going on.

Things like this are important to talk about and resolve, even if that resolution is that it never happens, she at least knows how you feel and how it affects you. Quite possibly an suitable compromise can be made, such as today's event, which seems pretty damned hot.

 

[TeaforMe]

Quantity might correlate with texture because she can't escape it since there is so much of you. I purposely won't start a blow job if it's been a few days as there is always so much more with the build up. Maybe you can try it again after cumming a few days in a row?

If she changes position that might help, too. I find it easier to be on my back, i.e a 69 position and let his cock go a little deeper. This way when he cums, it's already where I need it to be for optimal swallowing. I know I can't perform effectively in the position you described because I have to work harder to get the semen past my taste buds.

 

[NippleMuncher]

I agree with NipMuncher wholeheartedly.

As well you should!

In all honesty, I have lived this scenario myself, and when the communication ends or was never there, the relationship ultimately dies. When one partner refuses to participate, the other gets tired of trying and quits. It is not a pretty way to end a relationship.

 

[Hosebloke]

Cum

I'd rather be in a yacht on a rocky road

I'd rather eat rocky road, on a yacht.

 

[NaturistLouise]

So Happy

We have discussed it and have had that converstation... and no...I'm not going to abuse her. Thanks for your insight

I'm so happy to hear that option A. & B. are out (you too Rainshine). I know that you a gentleman and never even thought of that.

 

[klippert]

nothing really new to update... MrsK has been on her weight loss program...and rather ornery.....getting past those first 8-10 days....

again thanks for all the advice... please keep them cumming...I really like hearing from the ladies who've swallowed later in 'life' or with there hubbies...

 

[jakereeder22]

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[SweetErika]

I've gone the opposite way, quite honestly. I used to be fine swallowing, but having my tonsils at 19 out made me more likely to gag and vomit, and many years of sinus issues have taken their toll. I can get past the taste (as long as it's not too strong), but get tripped up if it hits the wrong part of my palette, and the snot-like texture is very likely to make me gag. Too much post-nasal drip makes me gag and vomit, too, so I'm guessing that's the similarity/association I've made. I might be able to figure out a way to swallow if it was really important to my husband, but he finds cum to be one of the grossest things ever taste- and texture-wise, so he understands where I'm coming from and doesn't have a double standard.

Anyway, it sounds like you wife knows it's important to you, and maybe she'll work on it over time. Your job is to let it go unless it's a deal-breaker; pressure of any sort isn't going to help matters any, and I'd imagine you have much bigger fish to fry.

 

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[NightL]

???
Sway
Swan dive
Swat that fucking fly
Swap (now that is an all time Lit fav)
Swab (Hi Beachie and all nurses here - not forgetting the one who swabs her nostril with hot wax)
Swash and spit (actually not off topic for once)
Swaddle (geez - the boy is obviously feeling left out)
Swag up and hit the road (that is not very nice)

Oh I give up - but SWASTIKA????

 

[Erochic]

Even though I have always been pretty wild and open sexually.... and enjoyed giving head I actually didn't start swallowing until very recently (or deep throating) -- after 40.


I have really starting enjoying the taste of my lovers cum... But it took a while. Now it usually triggers my own orgasm when I taste it in my throat when we are in 69.
I never would have imagined I would feel like that.

Speaking of taste though, I'm a chocoholic so I love using chocolate sauce when giving head. Put a little on his cock and lick and suck it off. And if I'm on a diet.... I can allow it as my indulgence
I used chocolate sauce to write my name on his dick a while back - that was really fun... And a double turn on.
You can also use cream, pudding, strawberries ...whatever you like.