Ladies what works for you????

[fingers_larue]

Hello Ladies, Girls, Women and Honey Babes everywhere.....

I was wondering if you have ever been talked into doing something that you did not want to do by the main guy in your life. I am talking about sexual things here not some guy tryin to get you to go to a car race or a fishin show or something else. Not that those are bad things but I am tryin to get my lady a little more invoved in different things sexualy than she is used to. I want to go to a nudist camp this summer that is close to us and she just freaks every time I mention it. I would also like to go to some areas with her that we have not tried before when we are in the bedroom, I have this strong desire to put her on her knees and rub her butt with warm baby oil or massage lotion running my hands and fingers from the top of her crack to the top of her slit and all point in between. Every time I start to work things around toward the warm oil treatment she gets to acting kinda funny and things just seem to never progress. I love the shape and look of a lady from behind and yes I would like to work her around to the idea of taking me in the rear, but I know we need to go slow in that area. I am 48 she is 46 we are of average build...not super skinney but not tubbies either. Point being that I am not thinking we need to hide our bodies.


Well at any rate I just wanted to know if you can look back and say "geeeze I did not want to do that but I guess he talked me into it and now it does not seem so bad...glad he did that!" Has that ever happened to ya....did he use candy or booze or money or did he just tie you up and have his way with you (just kidding,
but now that I mention it...hmmmm). So PLEASE PLEASE PRETTY PLEASE tell me what worked for you


I know you will give me good advice
and never stear me wrong
so when my lady submits to me
I'l sing a brand new song


Thanks in advance for your help and thoughts on this matter

 

[fingers_larue]

I had really hoped that I would get some feed back here. Surely there must be some ladies out there who could share what they have learned!!!

Well at any rate.....Merry Christmas to one and all

 

[Cakegirl]

Although I wasn’t a virgin when I met my ex, I wasn’t that experienced. I guess he was kind of into anal and was sort of heading that way. I was a bit weirded out - I wasn’t grossed or anything, but a bit uncomfortable with it. Unfortunately we never actually got around to anal sex, but we certainly went further than I thought I would - rimming etc. I guess he didn’t convince me by talking to me about it (which is what lots of other ‘how to’ posts recommend), but more by exciting me so much I would have done anything for him!

 

[fingers_larue]

Hey cakegirl ...
Thanks for your reply, I will think it over and post what happens next.

 

[Guest]

Maybe it was her upbringing that makes her uncomfortable. I think sometimes while in the throes of passion or sex you feel more at ease telling someone what you would like to have done to you or do to the other person you are with ... then later when all is said and done , they may come back and say "hey , did you really mean what you said ?" or "Do you really want that?" And sometimes it leads to talking about it. Or when you are wanting to do the things you say you wish to do to her , ask her how she feels about it rather than just being in the middle of something and it not happening and being disappointed all over again. I think talking , asking , suggesting are the keys . Otherwise you will never know...
Also when I was younger , someone truly wished to try anal with me , was not very gentle ( putting it nicely), and I was hurt and in shock as to how it came about. It took a long time for me to be curious about it and wanting to try it ....but I was with someone later I could talk to about it and he went about trying it in way that made me want to ... we did , it was great .
Talking is the key. JMO

 

[fingers_larue]

Keep those thought and opinions coming ladies

 

[tyme]

I agree with MistressRain If I was asked before my Husband tried some things on me I would have told him no. BUT once he did them once I almost always loved it. Just watch what you do so you dont shock her too much. One way you could go is tie up her hands and blindfold her or at least make the room as dark as you can then try one new thing. If she tells you to stop though stop.

 

[fingers_larue]

bump

Just a bump in the night

 

[tyme]

BUMPING you right back

 

[fingers_larue]

bump bump who got the bump

I love a lady who takes the bump and gives it back...to bad you are way out in Az. or I would try and sneak up on you and give you hump bump Of course I would be very polite about it.

 

[tyme]

lol Well hell honey maybe I need to move! Always like a good hump bump.

 

[tyme]

put her on her knees and rub her butt with warm baby oil or massage lotion running my hands and fingers from the top of her crack to the top of her slit and all point in between.

I love the way you think

 

[fingers_larue]

got that ??

did you say rubbing her crack from the top of the crack to the top of the slit and all points inbetween with YOUR hands or MINE??
Wow I'm startin to think this will be more fun than I first imagined




I used to date a girl named Dawn...one time I told her we should stay up all nite...why she asked?.....because I would love to see the crack of Dawn was my answer....she was a very warm and loving girl

 

[tyme]

hummmm I will have to think on that one. I was saying yours but mine might be fun too. you did for get one big thing you need to give her ass a nice hard smack.

*smack*

ohh ya just like that baby!

 

[fingers_larue]

BUMP

One more bump so I can catch the week end warriors out here!!!

 

[fingers_larue]

once more with this

Just another bump to try and get some response....also helps me to get to that magical 100 posts so I can have a pic out here. It seems that work is never done