Ladies what signals do you send to a guy

ewopper

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to let him know you think he's hot. and is the percentage of men who pick up on it greater or smaller. Inquiring woppers wanna know :D :nana:
 
Some signals are subtle some are obvious and some are misleading, if you get slapped you know you read a false signal lmao :nana: :D :D :nana:
 
hand him my panties,,,LOL,,,no really.WOW,,thats a toughie.I have always been accused of being a flirt which i always denied.BUT I think looking back,,,maybe I was(just a little bit anyway).I have a friendly nature anyway,,smile a lot,,etc,SO I think a lot of guys take THAT as flirting,etc.BUT I guess maybe if I really liked someone,,and I was trying to let him know,,maybe a look I would give,holding their gaze just a second or two longer than normal...standing a bit closer when i talked to them,Maybe a light touch on the shoulder?Nothing overtly sexual,,
 
I've been told i'm a flirt as well though i have absolutely no idea where anyone gets that idea :devil:

I'm very open to talking about sex once i get comfortable around a person, I'll even kick it up a notch if a guy i like plays along. My secrets are even secrets to me though i guess.
 
I smile a lot and have trouble keeping eye contact. I sit closer and usually inadvertantly touch an arm while laughing. I believe I lick my lips more and bite my lip when he talks. :D
 
strawberryangel said:
I smile a lot and have trouble keeping eye contact. I sit closer and usually inadvertantly touch an arm while laughing. I believe I lick my lips more and bite my lip when he talks. :D
mmmmm works for me :)
 
moridin00 said:
No wonder I'm missing it. I'm way to dense to catch anything that subtle :p

Which is why I have found it to my advantage to just come out and tell men what I am thinking, or thinking about.
 
Missingmeds said:
Which is why I have found it to my advantage to just come out and tell men what I am thinking, or thinking about.

You know, I like this approach, even if what the woman thinks is unflattering. At least I know where I stand :p
 
moridin00 said:
You know, I like this approach, even if what the woman thinks is unflattering. At least I know where I stand :p

Yes but what is she is more shy than she thought and equally fears rejection from said sexy guy? What if she has trouble reading his signals?
 
strawberryangel said:
Yes but what is she is more shy than she thought and equally fears rejection from said sexy guy? What if she has trouble reading his signals?

This is a good point, and I didn't say any of the other signals were less valid. Some of them, the ones you listed coming to mind, I might pick up on after a while. Sadly, I just don't pick up on those sort of signals very well.
 
strawberryangel said:
Yes but what is she is more shy than she thought and equally fears rejection from said sexy guy? What if she has trouble reading his signals?

Then it is a good thing to start with general conversation....but for me, I just basically say what I am thinking. I realize that my way doesn't work for everyone but it works for me.... :)
 
Missingmeds said:
Then it is a good thing to start with general conversation....but for me, I just basically say what I am thinking. I realize that my way doesn't work for everyone but it works for me.... :)


I tend to say what I am thinking...and sometimes it doesn't work out well. So if I really really like someone, I tend to clam up more. Weird, I am such a talker. I guess in the end if I thought the feelings were mutual I would throw out there an "I like you" or "you are so cute"....
 
ewopper said:
to let him know you think he's hot. and is the percentage of men who pick up on it greater or smaller. Inquiring woppers wanna know :D :nana:


hmmm..i usually show up on our date naked...and he USUALLY picks up that i like him :p
 
DLL said:
hmmm..i usually show up on our date naked...and he USUALLY picks up that i like him :p


nothing subtle about that one... :p ...are you busy this weekend?... :nana: :nana:
 
DLL said:
hmmm..i usually show up on our date naked...and he USUALLY picks up that i like him :p

I hope it's not in public. AND I wish we COULD do THIS in public. :D
 
DLL said:
hmmm..i usually show up on our date naked...and he USUALLY picks up that i like him :p


LOL!!

I expected nothing less from you sweet-cheeks :kiss:
 
strawberryangel said:
Yes but what is she is more shy than she thought and equally fears rejection from said sexy guy? What if she has trouble reading his signals?

great question, i guess the final tally is how secure we are with our sexuality :rose:
 
ewopper said:
great question, i guess the final tally is how secure we are with our sexuality :rose:

Depends on the moment and the man. Depends on if he thinks the girl is out of his league or if she thinks he is, that causes the stammering I suppose.

I find a way of telling him my true desires or interest by the end of the date.
 
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