Ladies what might you sugest

cuddlywife

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One of the things that has been sugested for me to do in getting myself out of my little box is to watch some porn. I have seen very little, my husband does once in a great while, but for the most part we keep sex to our bed.

Do any of you ladies have any favorite porn subjects that you like best? Where would you sugest I look?

***NOTE***
I am not really interested in watching girls suck guys. Kind of got that one down.
 
Would you feel comfortable asking your husband to show you some of the porn HE enjoys? Could the two of you watch it together?

I personally prefer reading erotica to watching porn. It's fun to read it to each other, too. Of course, if you really want to get daring, each of you pick a story that you find erotic, then act it out together.

Role playing doesn't have to mean fantasizing about being with someone else. It can also mean giving yourself permission to do things you wouldn't normally do. :)
 
As a guy, I too find stories much more erotic than the vast majority of porn. But there are times when visuals help! :)

There are lots of places to go. There is a niche market of porn for women and couples, rather than the vast majority which caters to an assumed male audience. It isn't always easy to find. One suggestion is sites like elephanttube.com or tubekitty.com - that link to videos from other sites, but categorizes them, so you can select the theme you like and browse through. Being more "story" oriented, I tend to prefer classic and vintage porn. But there is a wide selection and they have search engines so if there are particular actors/actresses you like you can find just their films too...

Have fun!
 
Would you feel comfortable asking your husband to show you some of the porn HE enjoys? Could the two of you watch it together?

I personally prefer reading erotica to watching porn. It's fun to read it to each other, too. Of course, if you really want to get daring, each of you pick a story that you find erotic, then act it out together.

Role playing doesn't have to mean fantasizing about being with someone else. It can also mean giving yourself permission to do things you wouldn't normally do. :)


I bolded the parts that I completely agree with.

As far as watching porn, visit websites like xhamster or xvideos ... they are free and have different categories. I would suggest either sex toys or female masturbation.

Like beachmomma, I prefer erotica. This place is full of hot steamy stories and you can let your mind wander.
 
One of the things that has been sugested for me to do in getting myself out of my little box is to watch some porn. I have seen very little, my husband does once in a great while, but for the most part we keep sex to our bed.

Do any of you ladies have any favorite porn subjects that you like best? Where would you sugest I look?

***NOTE***
I am not really interested in watching girls suck guys. Kind of got that one down.

Why don't you ask to watch some porn with your husband? He may find it to be a great turn-on. Or would he feel awkward watching porn with you? Some guys are like that.
 
Hi Cuddly Wife,

To get you started here is my favourite pic thread here on Lit. Its more sexy, intriguing and thought provoking than a lot of more "vulgar" legs spread porn. :kiss:

Sexy images
 
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One of the things that has been sugested for me to do in getting myself out of my little box is to watch some porn. I have seen very little, my husband does once in a great while, but for the most part we keep sex to our bed.

Do any of you ladies have any favorite porn subjects that you like best? Where would you sugest I look?

***NOTE***
I am not really interested in watching girls suck guys. Kind of got that one down.

It sounds like you might be wanting something that's more "erotic" with real sex in it versus the "fuck and suck" video snippets you find on many porn websites. Which is it that you want? Porn or x-rated erotica? Unfortunately, a lot of the stuff now days is just quick and dirty fucking and sucking with little or no plot or production values. Back in the golden age of porn (late 70's and mid 80's) there were some producers like Anthony Spinelli who put out porn that had stories and were much like watching a real movie (ok the acting wasn't Oscar class) but had ample sex, often within context of the movie and not just some people fucking like zoo animals. Thinking of things like "Dixie Ray Hollywood Star", "Insatiable", "Devil in Miss Jones", "Talk Dirty to Me", others. If you can find some places that might still have these classics that have been converted to CD, it might be a good choice. Hell, even my wife didn't mind some of them and she's almost anti-porn because most of it is just animal rutting. You might try searching online to see who might have classic adult movies. There was also some produced by a woman (Candida Royalle) who was an actress turned producer who put out "porn for women" that was a bit softer but still hard core. I believe you can still get her stuff through the "Adam and Eve" cataloge. Do a google search.

If what you want is just shot-on-tape quick "suck, bang and cum" stuff, you can find that on YouPorn.com and TheHun.com. I don't know what sort of stuff your hubby likes or watches, but you might seriously look into some of the classics. Truthfully, some of Anthony Spinelli's stuff was almost as good as a lot of regular movies with good sets, costumes, antique cars, special effects, the works.

Good luck. Have fun.
 
i haven't seen a lot of porn that didn't involve girls sucking guys. i'm not a huge fan of porn but i enjoy the swinger ones on occasion where 2 couples are in bed together. i've seen a few that have more story to them and that helps. i don't remember any titles. my husband is the porn searcher, not me.
 
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