Ladies - What are the top 7 things you are looking for in a man?

[Grizzleman]

Ladies,

I am just curious and I am sure many others are as well.

What do you consider the 7 most important traits in a man that you are looking for.


What do you consider the 7 most important traits in a man that you just want as a disposable plaything?



Grizzleman

 

[sultryslayer]

Is this 2 questions: What do I look for in a man? and What do I look for in a plaything?

Lets just say they don't differ too much because you don't decide what you want in the person till you get to know them. This is coming from a person looking for a man to keep as my own. So, you kind of decide as a last resort if you don't want to keep them. Like if they have to much baggage they might become a plaything if good looking enough.

So here is my top 7:
1) Good looking enought to entice me to talk to him.
2) Good personalitly, so I keep on talking to him.
3) Actually wants to hear about me, rather than the sound of his voice.
4) A gentlemen. Someone to open the door for me.
5) Sense of humor, I like to have fun even during sex!
6) The man has to have a job and a car.
7) A man that seeks adventure.

 

[Native Alien]

Here are my 7 and they apply to both.

1.) honesty
2.) trustworthiness
3.) be able to hold a decent conversation should we be decide to have one.
4.) be able to think on his feet.
5.) he has to be able to have sex with my brain first.
6.) be clean and neat
7.) be a considerate lover, in other words, when I say no, I mean no, don't keep badgering me about it.

That about covers it for me. I don't consider looks alot, but I like to look at the inside person.