Ladies: What are some idea to win some back (mend damaged relationship)?

[DankYp]

Any help, ideas, etc. would be much appreciated.

My relationship has hit a rough patch, one that I am terrified we won't get through. We have had a rough year, for a ton of reasons (both relationship and non relationship related) and the holidays are extremely tough.

Any idea, I am open and willing to try anything at this point. I want this relationship to work and know if we can get through this rough patch we will.

Thanks in advance for any ideas or words of encouragement.

 

[Sensualdreamer]

I would have to say it depends on the severity of the damage...if it's on a serious level you can forget the roses, lingerie, and chocolate; ultimately you'll have to realise that anything of a tangible nature (translate if it costs you money) she'll immediately suspect you're trying to buy back her affection/love and she'll likely snub you. In this case best thing, heartfelt apology -wouldn't suggest verbal, but written...and a noticeable change in your behaviour. Don't make excuses for your behaviour own it like a man, admit to whatever it is that you personally have done to cause the damage - don't expect her to apologise to you...not saying she is innocent, but saying that b/c if she's a decent lady she'll likely come around and admit to her shortcomings as well.

One vital thing to remember, forgiveness only takes one, but reconciliation takes two...if she doesn't want to work things out, then you've done the best thing you can do.

 

[questioneveryone]

Any help, ideas, etc. would be much appreciated.

My relationship has hit a rough patch, one that I am terrified we won't get through. We have had a rough year, for a ton of reasons (both relationship and non relationship related) and the holidays are extremely tough.

Any idea, I am open and willing to try anything at this point. I want this relationship to work and know if we can get through this rough patch we will.

Thanks in advance for any ideas or words of encouragement.

I agree that we would need more background/context ... is the rough patch caused by infidelity, miscommunication .. perhaps a lack of contact/intimacy? I realize you might not want to get into the details on a thread, but feel free to PM me .. the holidays are difficult and usually take a toll on relationships. Hang in there!

 

[DAVIDSride656]

I've been in your shoes.. The best thing I have to offer is love like you never have before , do not sweat the small stuff , and never stop fighting .. For the two of you!