Ladies - the type of woman that attracts you

Night_Jasmine

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Since the guys started one - lol- might as well start one for us.

What type of woman attracts you? Physical, mentally, spiritually....
 
Good idea. Gimme some time to think.

...Thinking...

Hm... Well, I would have to say my ideal woman, visually, would be an Audrey Hepburn-type. Slim, dark haired, with large doe brown eyes and a shy, warm smile. Makes me melt every time. :eek:

I'll think more on the personality part. ;)
 
confident, happy, smiles a lot, funny, smart, flirty,

I'll think a bit on the physical part....
 
playwithlezli said:
confident, happy, smiles a lot, funny, smart, flirty,

I'll think a bit on the physical part....
i'll agree with that and add intelligent, and trustworthy.

hmmm let me think on the physical and spiritual parts.
 
trustworthy, yes, very important, especially to those of us that have been used and abused in the past
 
hmmm.... slim to athletic (takes care of her body and exercises regularly), dresses and acts like a woman (very feminine), preferably long hair. I think brunette are extremely attractive but have only had two brunette partners, they're usually blondes or other redheads.

Have to have a brain, (that is if there's an ongoing relationship that requires dialog, otherwise who cares :cool: ), college educated preferably with an advanced degree.

And they MUST have a sense of humor and like to party.
 
physically i'm gonna have to go with about a 36 b to c cup. brunette or dark black. i prefer japanese or some other asian decent (sp) nice firm bubble butt. somewhat curvy i don't like a stick figure. shoulder length or longer hair. someone that dresses traditional japanese or asian is always hot. i like women that wear tasteful form fitting outfits. nothing to revealing for my women. Not that if i see a girl walking buy in a miniskirt i'm not gonna look because i am but for someone i am gonna date i want her to be classy

this is ideal i tend to like women of all nationalities and races hehe.

as for spiritual i don't really care what they believe as long as they believe in something and have some kind of convictions.
 
She has to be sassy & perky ~but then I keep an open mind to anyone who would be interested in me ;) :D
 
I just realize I didn't post mine. *blushes* Ok...here goes..

Physically - I'm not picky. It'd be nice to have someone taller than me. I really like the feeling of being cradled in someone's arms. Beautiful smile and it's got to light up her eyes. That's my major turn on..smiles and eyes.

Mentally and spiritually - that's the kicker for me. Intelligent and educated but not so educated that she isn't open minded. Patient, trustworthy, loving, kind, dedicated to what she believes in and willing to fight for her dreams. Someone who, if not share my beliefs, will at least respect them and allow me to follow the path I have chosen. Someone who doesn't mind curling up to read together, go to a show or musical, or cuddle. The biggest thing is someone will who fall in love with my smile and make me feel beautiful with her words, actions, and touches.
 
Tall, athletic, busty and pretty in the face. A nice behind doesn't hurt either. As for the persona : easy-going, confident and drama free does it.
Not extremely butch or all femmy. Think casual tomboy. That's my dream gal.
 
Terra_Cide said:
Good idea. Gimme some time to think.

...Thinking...

Hm... Well, I would have to say my ideal woman, visually, would be an Audrey Hepburn-type. Slim, dark haired, with large doe brown eyes and a shy, warm smile. Makes me melt every time. :eek:

I'll think more on the personality part. ;)

Ok, I've thought more on this.

Personality wise, I'd have to say I prefer someone who is a bit on the bubbly side (something I'm not, heh). They know who they are and don't feel the need to drag others down. They laugh easily, and have an intelligent wit. They are loyal to the ones they love. Angsty, tortured people need not apply. They don't use their sexuality as a political soap box, in fact have no interest whatsoever in religion or politics, but are aware of them. I like someone who is well read and has an interest in arts and likes snuggle with a glass of wine. However she's not afraid to go out to some sporting event and yell like crazy while putting back a few beers.

Umm...I think that's it. :)
 
playwithlezli said:
confident, happy, smiles a lot, funny, smart, flirty,

I'll think a bit on the physical part....

Same size as me, a few extra pounds are ok. Small to medium breasts, firm, with nipples that go hard at the first caress. Muscular but not overly built, as long as she can hike, bike, ski and paddle. I have a fondness for red-heads, but also latina or asian women. East Indian and Thai women especially. Laughing eyes and mouth. Love full lips. Ultimately though, personality is paramont. Hey look, except for the red-hair and the ethnic part, I have described my gel! (my green eyed lover). sigh......... :) :heart:
 
It depends on the mood I'm in.

Lately I've been getting off thinking of the slightly older, strong butchy types - short hair, strong arms & hands. I guess it is pretty well the SM butch dyke in a military uniform - cocky swagger and all.

When I'm in a butch mood: petite, younger brunettes - perky breasts (braless), shoulder length hair. Fun and flirty but not a femmy princess.

Either way I like someone with a sense of humor, confident, athletic (but not too slim), great smile. Age, race or weight doesn't matter.
 
A natural kind of girl, no blonde bomshells or models. Intelligent and educated.

A Sandra Bullock kind of look.
 
Terra_Cide said:
Ok, I've thought more on this.

Personality wise, I'd have to say I prefer someone who is a bit on the bubbly side (something I'm not, heh). They know who they are and don't feel the need to drag others down. They laugh easily, and have an intelligent wit. They are loyal to the ones they love. Angsty, tortured people need not apply. They don't use their sexuality as a political soap box, in fact have no interest whatsoever in religion or politics, but are aware of them. I like someone who is well read and has an interest in arts and likes snuggle with a glass of wine. However she's not afraid to go out to some sporting event and yell like crazy while putting back a few beers.

Umm...I think that's it. :)
:cool: great minds think alike..
so i'll just describe my friend.. yeah.. pretty much everything you said.. she is really cuddly and cute.. i love that about her. she just loves to snuggle.. which is why i want her so much.. someone i can look out for and protect.. someone i can treat like a goddess..
i dont really care what she looks like.. (although she is incredibly beautiful)
*sigh*
 
I either go for tall butch dominant women or slutty curvy feminine ones. Depending on my mood.

Personality wise - a sense of humour, a filthy mind and a good heart.
 
AussieAngel said:
:cool: great minds think alike..
so i'll just describe my friend.. yeah.. pretty much everything you said.. she is really cuddly and cute.. i love that about her. she just loves to snuggle.. which is why i want her so much.. someone i can look out for and protect.. someone i can treat like a goddess..
i dont really care what she looks like.. (although she is incredibly beautiful)
*sigh*
Oh, honey, I feel for you. :( :heart:

You know there's someone out there just for you, right? Someone who feels the same way as you do.

You'll find her, I know you will.
 
Terra_Cide said:
Oh, honey, I feel for you. :( :heart:

You know there's someone out there just for you, right? Someone who feels the same way as you do.

You'll find her, I know you will.

Lol. i know terra.. i do.. but well.. its the waiting around that is getting to me... what if she is it but i was supposed to do something different..

*sigh*

dreaming about her doesnt help. i have to go to work now and she is on my mind.
 
long hair, like me and not a skinny other than that I don't care. A woman who is comfortable in the skin she came with. :p
 
well ladies if you can deal with me having a penis at least for a lil while i'm out there and i'm perfect for any of you ;)
 
Tymeless said:
well ladies if you can deal with me having a penis at least for a lil while i'm out there and i'm perfect for any of you ;)
LOL

My hat's off to you, you've shown great humor during what could be a very stressful change. :kiss: :rose:
 
:rose: To Aussie and Terra

It's hard knowing what you want and walking down the street, getting overlooked by people. I'm no beauty queen. I know I have a beautiful smile but most people can't see past the heavy frame.

Tymeless - :rose: :rose: :rose: Any gal that lands you will be lucky. You're one brave individual, and I respect you for going after what you want and need.
 
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