Ladies of Lit, I need your imput!

[collegecock4]

So here is what I need help with. When my girlfriend and i were pretty new her friends got her a vibrator for her birthday and I was pretty uncomfortable about it because her and I were always together and I felt it was unnecessary. While I knew I was a little bit bigger than it, I didnt like that it vibrated rotated and all of those fun functions, but it ended up getting tossed. So here we are a while later, and we are temporarily doing long distance and it has come up that she would like one again while until I can move up there. So I joking asked her if she would like one of those vibrators that are a mold of my self that vibrates and she immediatly jumped at the idea. I would be more than happy to make her one of myself, because I would know it would be me that she was using for her fun, but then again I kinda feel that she should have whatever she wants.

So my question to yall is, should I be worried that one of these other vibrators could feel better than me or do women feel that it is just an aid when they cant have the real thing? Should I not care that a vibrator does all kinds of tricks because the real thing is that much better or has anyone felt that her vibrator given her more pleasure than a guy. We have had a very healthy and pleasurable sex life for over 2 years and she still is able to climax from our sex. Please let me know what you think! Thank you so much!

 

[sweetnrs]

I wouldn't worry. Coming from a female, I personally prefer the real thing to a toy. I have a few and they get rather dusty, they only come out on rare and special occasions. Honestly, if I can't have the real thing my fingers do thetrick most of the time. Hope that helped.

 

[bamagirl]

I agree with sweetnrs.
I have several toys,and enjoy them very much,but when he is using them on me.When im alone I mostly just use my fingers.

Never fear the toys there is nothing like the real thing!
But try playing with the toys with her.I bet you will learn to love them as much as her...

 

[collegecock4]

Thank you both very much ladies! Its nice to hear from yall that I shouldn't worry or feel that I could be replaced. Bamagirl, I will take your advice and see where it goes!

 

[bamagirl]

Thank you both very much ladies! Its nice to hear from yall that I shouldn't worry or feel that I could be replaced. Bamagirl, I will take your advice and see where it goes!

I am sure you will love it..Good Luck Darlin

 

[Lurnk]

I don't know about anyone else, but I'm curious to know why the fun, rotating vibrator got tossed...

Anywho--yeah, I suppose, it's nice to comfort you and tell you not worry, but I won't knock vibrators in the process. Vibrators (and masturbation) rock. Yeah, for some chicks they're a sorry replacement for sex, for others, vibrators are an alternative, and still more, they are almost as enjoyable as the real thing--if you know what you're doing.

Yep, vibrators do loads of things real cocks will never do, but the reverse is also true: Real cocks have men attached to them--warm-bodied men, with big, strong, manly man hands, lips, and tongues.

In the interest of creating the happy medium, though, I'd say consider a truce. Once you two get back together, add the toys to your sex, see what happens.

For now, why not comfort yourself with the knowledge that she'll be enjoying herself with whatever toy she chooses? (For the record, I do think the molded cock sounds like a great idea.) If your sex like is as pleasurable as you say it is, you should have nothing to worry about.



Lurnk.

 

[zekealicious]

Ha! When I read the thread title I thought it said "Ladies of Lit I need your armpit"!!
I gotta get my glasses checked!

 

[SecretLove69]

Ha! When I read the thread title I thought it said "Ladies of Lit I need your armpit"!!
I gotta get my glasses checked!

HaHa Jeez, some guys will use any place to put their cock but I've never heard of arm pit. Guess your partner better be careful - what with your bad eyes and all she'll risk getting her eye poked out.

 

[julian61model]

Just peeked at today's free vid clip, looks topical for this thread!

Kind of think it looks a bit too gyneacological myself........ but hey I haven't got a pussy......

 

[College_geek]

More of a how-to thread, but I wouldn't be worried. Sure, vibrators can rotate and pulse and such, but really, if I cock could actually do that, I would be really concerned. Vibrators are fun additions to a sex life or fun replacements for when someone can't have the real thing, but I don't think I've ever heard of a woman giving up men forever because her vibrator is better. A vibrator can't love you back. A vibrator can't whisper naughty things in your ear. A vibrator can't give you the emotional and social aspect of sex. It just gives you a nice orgasm to satiate for a while.

 

[zekealicious]

And a vibrator can pick up the tab for dinner!

And imagine bringing your vibe home for Thanksgiving to meet the parents!

 

[collegecock4]

Thanks everyone for your imput! Its always nice to have someone else's view on the situation and im quite confident that I couldn't be replaced by a plastic penis now as she said she would want one that is smaller than I am. So I guess thats kind of an ego booster, but I've decided to let her pick whatever she wants when I'm with her in a few weeks and I'll get it for her although she still wants to look into this make your own replica idea...who knows, I'll be sure to let yall know how it goes...Thanks again everyone!

 

[rydia57]

Wow... never knew how jealous a guy could get. It's just a toy. I'd never let you chuck my gameboy, LOL. You've got arms, body heat, a voice, lips... sigh.

 

[collegecock4]

I just wanted to clarify about how the old one got tossed out. Yes I was uncomfortable with it but I never asked her to get rid of it, she made that decision on her own and I didnt find out until about 2 weeks later. She did it b/c she didn't think she would need one b/c we have always been together all the time since we started dating, but now that there is distance we have realized that it would be good and healthy for her to have one. Its her body and her decision, I would never make her do something b/c of how I felt that was ultimatly up to her!

 

[Ithica]

Insecure over a toy. Anyone else find this hilarious? Could a blowup doll replace your girlfriend? I hope that the answer is no, if you can't tell the difference between masterbation and sex then you are doing something wrong. Why would you think that a dildo would replace you? Ok, so you feel threatened, how about you buy her a vibrator that doesn't make you feel like you are in a competition? Not all of them are shaped like a penis so I'm sure you could find one that doesn't make you feel inadequate.