Ladies, need help with dialog to convince Debbie to try anal sex

[tv46]

Hi Ladies,

I am writing dialog between Debbie and Lucy. Debbie is asking Lucy why she likes anal sex. Debbie recently turned down an opportunity to try it, and is now having second thoughts.

Looking for some first-hand thoughts on why you like anal, what it does for you, to include in my dialog.

What should Lucy say to her.

Thanks in advance.

 

[NaokoSmith]

I think it would work well if Debbie gets to talk. If she is telling Lucy how she felt about it and why she is having second thoughts, so that she convinces herself.

You could also check out some of the anal stories written from a female PoV. Those would give you a description you can model Lucy's account on.

 

[StrangeLife]

It's so much easier doing it from a male pov...

"Hand me da KY and turn 'round bitch."

 

[Hypoxia]

It's so much easier doing it from a male pov...

"Hand me da KY and turn 'round bitch."

Like Ozzie foreplay:

"Brace yourself, Sheila!"

 

[patientlee]

It's so much easier doing it from a male pov...

"Hand me da KY and turn 'round bitch."

Perhaps the persuader can suggest a good anal lube to her friend. That certainly helps. KY? Not so much.

 

[StrangeLife]

Can't go wrong with a classic...

http://kevinane.files.wordpress.com/2011/06/superior-axle-grease21.jpg

 

[NaokoSmith]

It's so much easier doing it from a male pov...

"Hand me da KY and turn 'round bitch."

Can't go wrong with a classic...

You sweet talker.

 

[VenusButterflies]

It's so much easier doing it from a male pov...

"Hand me da KY and turn 'round bitch."

Yeah, I think, while Debbie hems and haws over whether or not she should do anal, Lucy should just say, "Shut up and take it, bitch."

 

[NaokoSmith]

Yeah, I think, while Debbie hems and haws over whether or not she should do anal, Lucy should just say, "Shut up and take it, bitch."

Then tv46 can post another thread for us all to behave badly in, asking what story the category should go in: Anal, BDSM, or Lesbian.

Make Debbie married - then it can go in Loving Wives!

(tv46, apologies, we are having too much fun in here! Pay us no mind. Do not post stories in Loving Wives! LOL.)

 

[VenusButterflies]

Then tv46 can post another thread for us all to behave badly in, asking what story the category should go in: Anal, BDSM, or Lesbian.

Make Debbie married - then it can go in Loving Wives!

(tv46, apologies, we are having too much fun in here! Pay us no mind. Do not post stories in Loving Wives! LOL.)

Lol yes!

Man, this makes me tempted to post something in Loving Wives. I'm naive about the section: why does everyone want to stay away from it?

 

[NaokoSmith]

Lol yes!

Man, this makes me tempted to post something in Loving Wives. I'm naive about the section: why does everyone want to stay away from it?

Hahahahaha! I read a story in there the other day. It had 126 comments! They had such a big row in the Comments between themselves. And that woman didn't even go off with a black man! which is apparently the Commentators favourite plot development. The comments were saying: Too right! Give it to her between the eyes, and then some were saying: What you have put forward in your story is not legal, like it wasn't just a story. It was too funny. They have a whole thing called BTB stories - Burn The Bitch.

You still want to post in there?

 

[patientlee]

Lol yes!

Man, this makes me tempted to post something in Loving Wives. I'm naive about the section: why does everyone want to stay away from it?

I posted there once. It was fun, but I don't think I'll do it again. The comments are crazy. One guy posted 3 times, adding additional thoughts about these people that don't exist! And some were bickering back and forth.

That story has over 900 votes though. Not quite twice as many as my next highest, but pretty close.

 

[VenusButterflies]

So what you both are saying, Naoko and patientlee, is that everyone there is nuts?

I wonder why?

 

[Serafina1210]

So what you both are saying, Naoko and patientlee, is that everyone there is nuts?

I wonder why?

It seems to be the hangout for men who're thrown into a volcanic rage by the idea of wives fooling around on their husbands. I posted an adultery story there once and got a huge number of angry comments. I posted a second story making fun of the commenters on the first, and I think I may have caused several aneurisms.

I half suspect that one or two of those angry menfolk are stalking me, 1-bombing my stories in other categories.

I never post there anymore or read the stories, but sometimes I look in to read the comments.

[Edit: Hey! I just went from Virgin to Experienced!]

 

[Handley_Page]

Axel Grease is one thing. This is the real deal. See HERE.

However, if you look at this story, "When The Stars Align" by markelly,
you may find some suitable inspiration. Sorry I cannot give you the pointer.

 

[NaokoSmith]

Then tv46 can post another thread for us all to behave badly in, asking what story the category should go in: Anal, BDSM, or Lesbian.

Make Debbie married - then it can go in Loving Wives!

(tv46, apologies, we are having too much fun in here! Pay us no mind. Do not post stories in Loving Wives! LOL.)

No no, add in that they are sisters! and then it can go in Incest too.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Loving Wives is the place every LIT nutcase brings his baggage. Naoko, for example, one-bombs those who omit condoms from their stories and ignore her lame flirts at AH.

But youll get more reads at LW than anywhere else. Reads are the name of the game.

 

[VenusButterflies]

It seems to be the hangout for men who're thrown into a volcanic rage by the idea of wives fooling around on their husbands. I posted an adultery story there once and got a huge number of angry comments. I posted a second story making fun of the commenters on the first, and I think I may have caused several aneurisms.

I half suspect that one or two of those angry menfolk are stalking me, 1-bombing my stories in other categories.

I never post there anymore or read the stories, but sometimes I look in to read the comments.

[Edit: Hey! I just went from Virgin to Experienced!]

It's amazing -- don't those people have anything better to do than stalk writers and 1-bomb their stories?

And what do they expect in that category?

It's just so strange to me . . . From the sound of them, you'd think they were reading essays promoting The Final Solution or some shit.

 

[FantasyXY]

Back on topic...

The best way I know of to convince the woman to try anal sex is to have another woman that enjoys it tell her how good it feels. Hopefully some woman/women here who enjoy it will explain just how good it is and help you out.

Back to posting in LW...

I think it's really funny when the comments turn away from being about the story and they just start blasting each others comments. It becomes like some kind of sick perverted book club for the insecure and pathetic.

I always imagine a bunch of pissed off guys sitting someone's living room having tea and cookies while they hurl insults at each other and masturbate like crazy.

 

[DFWBeast]

POV and LW

Reading some of the Anal stories that approach it from the woman's POV is the best advice. After you pull several arguments from those stories it wouldn't hurt to list a few of your favorites here and see what response it gets.

As for LW:

LW is actually pretty easy to understand. You've basically got four factions living under the same category.

Faction #1 – The cuckolds – originally what made up this category. Basic premise: Husband likes to see his wife get screwed by other men.

Faction #2 – RAAC – Reconciliation At All Costs – Wife cheats, husband takes her back typically because his life is better with her than without.

Faction #3 – Not sure what you'd call this one – Wife cheats, husband dumps her for her younger, prettier sister or that beautiful secretary that's been pining for him in the shadows. (Revenge sex almost mandatory)

Faction #4 – BTB crowd – Wife cheats, burn her at the stake! I say a steak because putting her on a spit and roasting her, the cheating whore might like the spit! (Selling wife to a 3rd world whorehouse is a fave)

Now with these four groups is it any wonder why the comments get so damn hilarious? Also you can pretty much guess where the 1 bombs are going to come from depending on which faction your story most closely fits.

So why post in LW? Besides the obvious comments, it can be fun jumping in the water with all these piranha! I fit more in the Faction #3 and #4. Only story posted here currently in a definite Faction #4. Why post this type of story? I can only speak for myself. Please read bio. Bit long and it probably won't change your mind but it does provide a different view of things.

Sorry not trying to hijack thread just not sure how to break it off into a new one.

 

[slyc_willie]

On topic . . . .

I dated a woman several years back (okay, more like a decade and a half) who absolutely loved anal sex. So much so that she preferred it over vaginal sex. She had -- according to her, though it certainly seemed true to me -- a very shallow and narrow vagina. Anything more than a few inches was painful. But taking it in the back door was like setting off a row of fireworks.

She told me that the nerves around her anal sphincter (insert Wayne's World flashback here) were very sensitive, and that just tickling her asshole turned her on. The sense of being stretched open in that orifice was incredibly pleasurable for her. She also said that the orgasm she experienced during anal sex was just like a vaginal orgasm, only "tighter." That was the only way she could describe it.

She also claimed she could feel it when I -- or any other man before me -- ejaculated inside her ass, as opposed to in her pussy, and when she felt that, it always triggered an orgasm. She described it as a "wet rush."

I've never known a woman since who preferred anal sex like that. My wife and I occasionally indulge, and she enjoys it (says she likes the way it makes her feel hot inside), but she doesn't achieve orgasm from anal sex alone. However, when I go down on her, and slip fingers into both her pussy and ass at the same time . . . I better make sure I hold on, because she bucks all over the place.

 

[stlgoddessfreya]

Pitching catching

One of the best ways to sell anal sex to someone who is reluctant is to talk about the possibility of having a deeper or stronger orgasm from stimulating the nerves in and around the anus. It's just like the way an orgasm with both vaginal and clitoral stimulation can give a stronger orgasm than clitoral stimulation alone. It's something for every orgasmic woman to cross off her bucket list or decide she likes well enough to add to the menu, permanently.

 

[DiminutiveDame]

From experience and a reluctant anal receiver, taking charge and just doing it was the way to go. Could just be a personal preference for my husband to take charge but it was more comfortable and far less painful when he pined me down and went to work.
Granted I did want too but was firmly on the fence about the idea and awkward about trying it.

He also came home one day and said he had a present for me; anal beads. Though I am almost sure it was more a present for him than me seeing as her spearheaded the anal trying.

 

[mrsemilybronte]

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