Ladies: Is there such a thing as smart and sexual?

[buckeye1009]

Can't sleep! Urgh!

I'm looking for a woman who is both smart (she can spell and has a sense of humor) and sexual (she is confident in her sexuality...confident enough to express her submissive side)...is there a woman like this out there? Care to chat?

PM me...

 

[jenibee]

Nope; they're a myth.

 

[NightOfPassion2]

Nope; they're a myth.

I think he's looking for a myth. A myth or mythess

 

[ElijaRDC]

To my knowledge, no such women are to be found. Guess you're SOL.

 

[k_m_d_]

If we equate 'sexual' with 'hot' (because that's all that matters, amirite?), then according to this diagram ( http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_J_UolqS9F...AYg/zJfGog7D-VI/s1600/Hot+Smart+Nice+Venn.png ), she's at the very least annoying, and possibly only dates assholes.

So I guess you've got a shot.

 

[Sensualdreamer]

Absolutely, but I'm not sure many men have both traits.

 

[ElijaRDC]

If we equate 'sexual' with 'hot' (because that's all that matters, amirite?), then according to this diagram ( http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_J_UolqS9F...AYg/zJfGog7D-VI/s1600/Hot+Smart+Nice+Venn.png ), she's at the very least annoying, and possibly only dates assholes.

So I guess you've got a shot.

I LOVE this diagram!

 

[jenibee]

I LOVE this diagram!

We need to make one for men now. It has to include every possible personality trait and insult them all equally.

 

[FemiArmis]

We exist- we're just apparently very intimidating, or you just don't see us or something. I've been trying to figure out why, if a man says he likes all the traits I possess, the same man isn't interested in me. We're out there- just look.

 

[ThisIsHero]

We exist- we're just apparently very intimidating, or you just don't see us or something. I've been trying to figure out why, if a man says he likes all the traits I possess, the same man isn't interested in me. We're out there- just look.

Am interesting post, that. Do we always pursue what we really want? Or have we been brainwashed to seize any opportunities? Carpe diem, if you will. Do we have ideals that we search for, but allow ourselvess to settle for something less?
The musings of a man who oft times thinks far too much for his own good... lol.
Hope I didn't ruin your thread, bro.
Though, personally, I believe that they're out there. Patience and persistence will win the race, at least, that's what Aesop's Fables taught us as kids.

 

[FemiArmis]

Am interesting post, that. Do we always pursue what we really want? Or have we been brainwashed to seize any opportunities? Carpe diem, if you will. Do we have ideals that we search for, but allow ourselvess to settle for something less?
The musings of a man who oft times thinks far too much for his own good... lol.
Hope I didn't ruin your thread, bro.
Though, personally, I believe that they're out there. Patience and persistence will win the race, at least, that's what Aesop's Fables taught us as kids.

Ruined thread or not- you brought up a very good point, Hero. Yes, we do exist. No, you don't think too much for your own good.

 

[subdued_passion]

Can't sleep! Urgh!

I'm looking for a woman who is both smart (she can spell and has a sense of humor) and sexual (she is confident in her sexuality...confident enough to express her submissive side)...is there a woman like this out there? Care to chat?

PM me...

You will find most women on this site are smart and sexual (this site has literature and erotica, duh!) .

You want someone who is confident but still submissive. Go to the BDSM personals, you'll find plenty ladies there that fit the bill.

 

[Ifyoukissenough]

sorry to ruin the thread but....

In response to the original question: amazingly the answer is yes and the answer to your question not only exists but she is from my experience likely to be found on this very site.

Now what might be more interesting is what you feel you can offer to such a rare and delicate vision!

 

[followmenow6969]

Can't sleep! Urgh!

I'm looking for a woman who is both smart (she can spell and has a sense of humor) and sexual (she is confident in her sexuality...confident enough to express her submissive side)...is there a woman like this out there? Care to chat?

PM me...

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There are a few, but I married a VERY SPECIAL ONE....

 

[appleapps]

In response to the original question: amazingly the answer is yes and the answer to your question not only exists but she is from my experience likely to be found on this very site.

Now what might be more interesting is what you feel you can offer to such a rare and delicate vision!

Exactly! *applauds*

 

[FemiArmis]

In response to the original question: amazingly the answer is yes and the answer to your question not only exists but she is from my experience likely to be found on this very site.

Now what might be more interesting is what you feel you can offer to such a rare and delicate vision!

THAT is an extremely good question! Can I get an answer to that?

 

[guest06]

I won't say it for myself, but quite a few people here have called me sexy or hot. I have a master's degree. Not that that makes you smart, but It's worth something, I guess.

 

[loveroflove]

Ha I am a biology major and love learning new things (in more then one way! ) I confuse everyone when I talk! I am confident in my own way but I am by no means skinny Lol but the right kind of guy can make me outgoing

 

[WildWaterNymph]

Am interesting post, that. Do we always pursue what we really want? Or have we been brainwashed to seize any opportunities? Carpe diem, if you will. Do we have ideals that we search for, but allow ourselvess to settle for something less?
The musings of a man who oft times thinks far too much for his own good... lol.
Hope I didn't ruin your thread, bro.
Though, personally, I believe that they're out there. Patience and persistence will win the race, at least, that's what Aesop's Fables taught us as kids.

There are plenty of smart sexual women (as evidence by just this site). We just may not wear black bras peaking through sheer blouses, or 4 inch stilettos or fire engine red lipstick (or whatever other symbols of sexuality there are). So it may take some effort to actually find out that the woman who understand string theory and is also drop dead sexy. But I do believe that most women are quite sexual so if you've got a smart one, it just may take some initiative to bring it out of her...

But being sexual doesn't mean being submissive...So it may take a little more effort to find that right combination of your sexual match but this site is a good starting point since sexuality is the common thread of its members.

And as for waiting for what you really want, I wish I only needed smart and sexy. I once held out hope of finding that right combination of elements that would sweep me off my feet. Maybe I've got too many ideals, or maybe I've just got to learn to lower my standards, but I realize now life is short...so carpe diem. If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with! If I can't find Mr. Right, I'll take Mr. Right-Now and hope that he'll reveal his other fine qualities in time...but know when its time to keep looking.

 

[mrmphilllll]

There are plenty of smart sexual women (as evidence by just this site). We just may not wear black bras peaking through sheer blouses, or 4 inch stilettos or fire engine red lipstick (or whatever other symbols of sexuality there are). So it may take some effort to actually find out that the woman who understand string theory and is also drop dead sexy. But I do believe that most women are quite sexual so if you've got a smart one, it just may take some initiative to bring it out of her...

But being sexual doesn't mean being submissive...So it may take a little more effort to find that right combination of your sexual match but this site is a good starting point since sexuality is the common thread of its members.

And as for waiting for what you really want, I wish I only needed smart and sexy. I once held out hope of finding that right combination of elements that would sweep me off my feet. Maybe I've got too many ideals, or maybe I've just got to learn to lower my standards, but I realize now life is short...so carpe diem. If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with! If I can't find Mr. Right, I'll take Mr. Right-Now and hope that he'll reveal his other fine qualities in time...but know when its time to keep looking.

One the best posts I've read on here. You summed it up well there. Carpe Diem back at you. Enjoy your night!

 

[ThisIsHero]

There are plenty of smart sexual women (as evidence by just this site). We just may not wear black bras peaking through sheer blouses, or 4 inch stilettos or fire engine red lipstick (or whatever other symbols of sexuality there are). So it may take some effort to actually find out that the woman who understand string theory and is also drop dead sexy. But I do believe that most women are quite sexual so if you've got a smart one, it just may take some initiative to bring it out of her...

But being sexual doesn't mean being submissive...So it may take a little more effort to find that right combination of your sexual match but this site is a good starting point since sexuality is the common thread of its members.

And as for waiting for what you really want, I wish I only needed smart and sexy. I once held out hope of finding that right combination of elements that would sweep me off my feet. Maybe I've got too many ideals, or maybe I've just got to learn to lower my standards, but I realize now life is short...so carpe diem. If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with! If I can't find Mr. Right, I'll take Mr. Right-Now and hope that he'll reveal his other fine qualities in time...but know when its time to keep looking.

Damn. Well said indeed. I didn't expect my musings to be answered, per se, but you've done an amazing job with them.

 

[Simi1]

I think he's looking for a myth. A myth or mythess

Hahahaha!! I know this is cheesy, but I literally laughed out loud!! Completely flashed back to The Muppet Movie while reading it! Thank you for the laugh.

 

[followmenow6969]

Bump.....

 

[ashesatwork]

Can't sleep! Urgh!

I'm looking for a woman who is both smart (she can spell and has a sense of humor) and sexual (she is confident in her sexuality...confident enough to express her submissive side)...is there a woman like this out there? Care to chat?

PM me...

I do however confess to horrible typing skills... I can spell but my phone sometimes has a mind of its own.

 

[smallgirl]

Can't sleep! Urgh!

I'm looking for a woman who is both smart (she can spell and has a sense of humor) and sexual (she is confident in her sexuality...confident enough to express her submissive side)...is there a woman like this out there? Care to chat?

PM me...

We are out there. Trust me on that. Most guys just can't see past themselves to actually see us.