Ladies - if you came home and found...

[FloridaCouple]

Ladies - if you came home and found your male S.O. having sex with a dildo, and he did not know you saw him, what would you do?

1. Confront him right then and there?
2. Sneak away and not mention what you saw?
3. Sneak away, not mention it, but add that type of play to your sex lives?
4. Other?

 

[midnightstroker7]

mmmmm...so curious to hear what the ladies out on lit would do in this situation...

 

[Stella_Omega]

Why is this in GLBT forum? It's a hetero scenario. A very hot one, for sure. But-- the mods will be moving it to a more pansexual type venue.

While we're waiting...

I would NOT sneak away, let me tell you. I'd stay and watch, and see how he does himself. Next time we played I'd see how closely I could mimic what he'd done. I would do that for any partner I discovered pleasuring themselves, male or female.

 

[kilkennycpl]

snap with stella

Why is this in GLBT forum? It's a hetero scenario. A very hot one, for sure. But-- the mods will be moving it to a more pansexual type venue.

While we're waiting...

I would NOT sneak away, let me tell you. I'd stay and watch, and see how he does himself. Next time we played I'd see how closely I could mimic what he'd done. I would do that for any partner I discovered pleasuring themselves, male or female.

totally agree with ya

 

[twister947]

I would NOT sneak away, let me tell you. I'd stay and watch...

Yes, and no. That filthy, pervy, voyeur that inhabits my body would vote to watch and jerk off. The nice man that respects the privacy of others would make a case for backing out of there, and forgetting everything I'd seen. The perv would win, but still...

 

[LindsayRae]

Why sneak away? If that were to happen here I'd walk into the room and help my honey drive that toy home!

 

[NatalieWouldToo]

What is all this 'confronting' business? I'm with Lindsay...stay, be thrilled, and help!

 

[sunandshadow]

I'd probably say something inane like "Now that's interesting." or "I didn't know you were into that." cause I'd be distracted by surprise and just say what I was thinking without remembering to be tactful. And then he'd panic and I'd have to calm him down and explain that I wasn't being judgmental and would in fact prefer if he kept going and let me watch.

 

[Annabell4you]

Why sneak away? If that were to happen here I'd walk into the room and help my honey drive that toy home!

I agree. Join in and help out!

 

[simplegirl]

I'd probably, pant, drool, masturbate and help out. ...not necessarily in that order.

 

[SlapNTickle4Me]

I agree. Join in and help out!

I agree with both ladies! Hell if the dildo was in the other orifice (play on words..hehe), I would certainly appreciate some hands on assistance!~

 

[Guest]

1. Confront him right then and there?

Yep. And like others have stated, I'd be more than willing to jump in and help out. In fact, I'd insist on it.

 

[LindsayRae]

1. Confront him right then and there?

The way option one is worded, I took it to mean something confrontational. "Confronting" someone usually isn't a good thing and oftentimes is followed up with chastizing.

 

[sarod]

I fantasize about this all the time. but then I remember all the times my wife has chastized me when she walks in the bedroom and finds me jerking off. I find it annoying that she doesn't want to join in and just walks out, even when I ask her to stay awhile! Un-adventurous! I'm thinking of telling her I am bi. Either she will accept it or tell me to get out, either way I could care less! I seek adventure and she is way too boring for me!

 

[FloridaCouple]

The way option one is worded, I took it to mean something confrontational. "Confronting" someone usually isn't a good thing and oftentimes is followed up with chastizing.

#1 was not supposed to mean anything negative. It was the only choice that resulted in the man knowing that his female S.O. knew what he was into.

 

[LindsayRae]

No worries. "Confront" typically isn't a positive thing, so I didn't "pick" #1. But based on your definition it seems my answer fits that one then.

 

[SlaveAtHeart]

I don't think I would do anything about it right then and there. If possible I would definitely watch and absorb all I could so that tomorrow or the next day I would know exactly what he likes.

 

[Steph_1972]

I would watch for a bit longer and then walk in naked and ask if i could help

 

[thejdangel]

I'd have to go and help. I might sneakily watch and enjoy myself for a bit but I don't think I could resist going and touching.

 

[krazzykat]

what woulkd i do

i would diffently stand and watch...watch him cum... then go off to the bathroom and relieve myself...

 

[mnhot2001]

bump

this is worthy of more commentary

 

[LindsayRae]

bump

this is worthy of more commentary

Then shouldn't you add some since you bumped it?

 

[justherhusband]

Why is this in GLBT forum? It's a hetero scenario. A very hot one, for sure. But-- the mods will be moving it to a more pansexual type venue.

While we're waiting...

I would NOT sneak away, let me tell you. I'd stay and watch, and see how he does himself. Next time we played I'd see how closely I could mimic what he'd done. I would do that for any partner I discovered pleasuring themselves, male or female.

Great answer. This is exactly how I hope my wife would react in that situation. Joining in and learning "on the job" would be a close second.

 

[Lost_0ne_1]

Wow, I would wish and pray that she would come in and help, but the truth is she would probably start crying and walk away and then fight about it later. After reading all the positive feedback on this, I can only think "how the hell did I get so unlucky?!!?"

 

[Pleasesuckle]

I would have a difficult time deciding between a "get naked and join in" option, and a "watching him secretly" to see what he likes and surprise him later.