Ladies help.. Domination techniques!!

[falot]

Hi just met a woman and she's totally SUB.. I've had few encounters before where I was the DOM but this time it's serious...

Ladies.. Any advices on how you like to be dominated, any links to DOM/SUB documentation



your help is appreciated

Thanks

a guy about to discover a new side of his sexual self

 

[Ms_Lilith]

1) a woman isn't into SUB, she IS a sub.

Go to the BDSM forum on this site. Ask them there.. they specialize in this stuff, and it's related to the board.

 

[SexyChele]

Um, wow, the field is wide open on this one. What type of sub is she? Domination/submission? Sado/masochistic? Bondage? Discipline? Any combination of the above? Or all of it?

There is a BDSM forum here at Lit that can offer assistance on individual questions. I would recommend that. Also, there are lots of sites that are specific to the alternative lifestyle, such as bondage.com, that have bulletin boards where you can ask questions from experienced Dominants as well.

The first thing you need to do is to find out 1. where her interests are, 2. what are her limits (what she will and will not do, and if she says everything is okay, be VERY cautious!), 3. seriously discuss boundaries of the relationship, and 4. what does she expect of a Dominant. These things will at least point you in a direction to which you can ask specific questions.

Once you delve into this topic you will find just how far spread your question is. Once the two of you have come to some conclusions and you have a direction to take, you can get more specific.

 

[falot]

Vixenshe and SexyChele thanks for your reply.. I will visit the BDSM forum.,

cheers

 

[lilpriss]

go check out this link...

http://www.sexuality.org/bdsm.html