to my knowledge, i have never been actually caught in person. i have done it for or with partners though. the current spouse loves to watch, will even ask me if i want her to get the lube many times. i also love to be watched on cam, love the anonymous thrill of being watched. dont know if it is really caught.. but one time when she was at the bar with a friend, she texted me and asked if we could have sex when she got home. i replied no, and as a tease, sent her a video of me stroking my cock, just out of the shower. what i didnt know, was that she showed the other lady she was with. i was soon asked by text if i was gonna finish for them, as they were both enjoying it. i was very turned on by this, knowing they both got turned on by watching me. have never done it in front of anyone but a current partner though. i tell her all the time i would love her to bring a friend over to watch too, but it has never happened. have any of the ladies ever been in such a situation and how did you handle it? did you enjoy just watching, walk away, or offer help? would love to hear some opinions on what you think...
ladies, have you ever caught a guy masturbating?
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smallpieceofbliss
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I haven't "caught" anyone masturbating. I have watched someone do it but that was on purpose. I would love to catch a guy wanking. Have him completely unaware that I was watching. I think that would be very hot to see
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I saw my dad doing it once. He didn't know I saw him, and I've never told anyone. It was purely accidental, and it just mesmerized me at the time. I couldn't stop watching. I later thought about it as a special little moment of his that I was fortunate to be a part of. It's a secret I will keep.
I saw my dad doing it once. He didn't know I saw him, and I've never told anyone. It was purely accidental, and it just mesmerized me at the time. I couldn't stop watching. I later thought about it as a special little moment of his that I was fortunate to be a part of. It's a secret I will keep.
if you caught someone doing it, would you let them know as you were watching, wait till after the finish, or just not say anything and think about it later?
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I've woken up in our bed to my husband masturbating right beside me. I didn't let him know I was awake and stayed still listening to him. He doesn't have a permission to cum without my consent and I was very, very happy to notice he did stop before climaxing! I rewarded him on the next day 
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I walked in on my birth father with his hand down his pants, but I hate the man. He's evil and I haven't talked to him in a decade. I definitely wouldn't mind it if he died a horrible death.
Otherwise, I haven't, but I think it would be sexy if I found them attractive. If I was in a steady relationship or married, I don't know if I would be turned on and take over or feel inadequate...
Otherwise, I haven't, but I think it would be sexy if I found them attractive. If I was in a steady relationship or married, I don't know if I would be turned on and take over or feel inadequate...
thank you for the honest answer, dont know why you would feel inadequate... even in a relationship, i think we all still masturbate. nice to have the variety.
dont know what i would do if i were caught by anyone other than the ms, who knows i do. dont know if i would get scared, embarrassed and try to cover up, or just keep going. often times fantasize about having one of her friends over and having them ask to see me do it. not sure if i could or not... but is an entertaining thought!!
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I wouldn't mind him masturbating while I was gone or to initiate sex, but if he was doing it and I was at home, I'd feel like I wasn't good enough, id wonder why he didn't come to me or call for me. I never expect reciprocation and enjoy giving a man exclusive attention. I often give blowjobs for nothing in return. I would love to make him relax and I'd take over to make him feel good. I would feel like there wad something wrong with me.
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Sadly, I've never gotten caught by an attractive woman. I guess the closest is a lot of women noticing my hard-on during hugs and backrubs.
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As far as I'm aware never been caught, but the thought is a sexy one..
I do love watching the mrs ... Find it such a turn on watching someone on the brink of pleasure
I do love watching the mrs ... Find it such a turn on watching someone on the brink of pleasure
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I've got homes in two different European countries and I travel to work and back in a crowded underground five times / week. Never seen anything masturbation-related and am happy as hell about it!
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not in S Eu, I suspect (I'm from there, originally). Or during national hollidays.
Frotteurism on crowded busses was something we used to joke about
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My husband, but I don't count that he did not hide it. 
I did walk in on a young man staying at our home for a couple of weeks while his parents (my in laws) were on a special business trip. I don't thin he saw me or realized I had seen him doing this. Thank goodness. He was still a teen. Nuff said.
I did walk in on a young man staying at our home for a couple of weeks while his parents (my in laws) were on a special business trip. I don't thin he saw me or realized I had seen him doing this. Thank goodness. He was still a teen. Nuff said.
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Quite true. Only been on brief holidays in southern Europe (Spain, Portugal and Italy). Must've been lucky not to have bumped into anything nasty! And in central Europe (Germany, France and such) the only perverts I've encountered have been myself in the mirror and hubby by my side!
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I guess this is for everyone to answer? As in my situation I had gone to the grocery store and when I returned, I guess he expected me to be gone longer, I went to ask him to help bring in the groceries. I walked into the family room and he had his short open and pants down or maybe off, I couldn't see below his knees that well, but he was fully erect and stroking himself and had some pictures of me set out on the coffee table and propped up where he could see them.
My entire family knows I was a nude model. I was surprised at him doing that with pictures of me!
My entire family knows I was a nude model. I was surprised at him doing that with pictures of me!
yes... it is for anyone to answer, and thank you for doing so. it must have been flattering to know you were the one he was thinking of at the time. how long did you see him, was he stunned and try to hide, or did it end up differently?
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Anyone that has raised or is raising a teenager like myself has caught a guy masterbating at least once. If not fully catching at least knowing what they are trying to do secretly.
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Actually it sort of stunned me being his aunt and not expecting to walk in and see him doing that. It didn't dawn on me until I was back in the garage that the pictures were all of me! He had collected them from different rooms. He never knew I was there and I did not say anything. I left as quietly as I could and drove around for a few minutes in the neighborhood. When I came back he was watching TV like nothing happened. All the pictures were back in lace when I got to check. For me there was nothing sexy about it, to be honest. More surprising and not sure what to do if anything. I chose not to do or say anything.
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I guess it would depend on who i caught.....If it was someone that I wanted to catch then I would probably let them go for a bit then let them know I was there and maybe see if I could help
was this a blood relative nephew, or by marriage? to me it would only be hot if it were by marriage, but that is just me...
so if it were a neighbor, or stranger, does that change the way it plays out? have never done it outside, except for on our deck. we are pretty secluded, but if someone walks around the house.. busted!!!
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This is such an interesting fantasy to me, particularly because the desire for it to happen and the actual occurrence are so different. Being caught (especially if it's purely accidental) introduces so many possibilities depending on many variables. In my fantasies I've been caught and loved it. In real life, I have no idea if I've been spied on without my knowledge. Lord knows I've chickened out a few times when I knew I could have been "caught."
Oh and gentlemen, here is a litmus test for you if you tell yourself your female friend is only a friend. If she were to walk in on you masturbating, and say to you, "don't stop, I want to watch," do you keep going or put it away? Okay, it's a flawed test but food for thought.
Oh and gentlemen, here is a litmus test for you if you tell yourself your female friend is only a friend. If she were to walk in on you masturbating, and say to you, "don't stop, I want to watch," do you keep going or put it away?
Okay, it's a flawed test but food for thought.Similar threads
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