LADIES - Gotta Question!

[blackstallion21]

Why is it that Women almost FORCE guys to have sex on top?

Here! Here's my Dilemma and maybe this will make a little more sense.

I'm a Bigger Guy. It's not something I can help, even if I lose the little bit of a stomach that I have I STILL have a big frame, and I'll always BE a bigger Guy!
With that said, I like to be with smaller women! - For Instance, I'm 6'1" and my shortest girl was 4'11"! I LIKE EM TINY!!! LOL

SHE and ALL OF THE OTHER GIRLS I'VE BEEN WITH have Insisted that I get on top of them at least once in sex! NOW I don't particularly wanna do that, because like most guys, I like to be on the bottom, (WE'RE LAZY!) and doggie style (occasionally, but that's fun too with short girls! the leg difference can be a SON OF A BITCH!) and what ever other position I can contort myself into being a big guy!

What is it that makes girls want to be underneath the weight of a guy? I'm SO dumb founded!

If it were me, I WOULDN'T WANT a big guy laying on me as we were fucking!

SOMEONE ENLIGHTEN ME!!!!!

 

[blackstallion21]

My cousin's answer was:

For me its the comfort. Kind of like I love the feeling of his weight on me and the contact, the fact that I can see him and he can see me idk how to explain it, it just feels really good. idk some girls like to feel dominated
...being pinned its like they cant go anywhere
...the guy has all the control
...because almost every girl wants to be dominated in the bedroom they want the guy to show em whos boss nd to put it down duhhh lol
...nd its kind of intimate
...i like when my bf's on top because i want him to do what he wants


IS THIS ON THE RIGHT TRACK?
PARTIALLY TRUE?
OR HITS THE NAIL ON THE HEAD?

 

[blackstallion21]

LOL Stallion, your posts are hilarious.

And yeah, I do like the weight on me. I tend to get with bigger guys and I am small, so haven't found the answer either. I'll keep you posted

REDIRECTING A QUOTE FROM TRUEFOX

I don't know what the hell is UP!!! I WANNA KNOW ANSWERS!!! LOL (and again Fox, I'm coming to DC one of these days! You keep taunting me! LOL LOL LOL!)

 

[TrueFox]

REDIRECTING A QUOTE FROM TRUEFOX

I don't know what the hell is UP!!! I WANNA KNOW ANSWERS!!! LOL (and again Fox, I'm coming to DC one of these days! You keep taunting me! LOL LOL LOL!)

I don't like to be on top though

 

[Sensualdreamer]

For me I've always viewed it as when a guy is on top he's making love to a woman b/c he can look in her eyes, kiss her, massage her breasts, etc., while she can wrap her arms around him, lightly scratching his back or wrap her legs around his hips etc., It's *THE* position for a woman that wants the guy in control of how hard, deep, and fast the thrusting.

 

[TrueFox]

For me I've always viewed it as when a guy is on top he's making love to a woman b/c he can look in her eyes, kiss her, massage her breasts, etc., while she can wrap her arms around him, lightly scratching his back or wrap her legs around his hips etc., It's *THE* position for a woman that wants the guy in control of how hard, deep, and fast the thrusting.

ME TOO. I want the guy in control. Yum.

 

[blackstallion21]

ME TOO. I want the guy in control. Yum.

YOU TWO are making me WANNA FUCK!!! LOL

And I ALWAYS want a girl on top! laziness? NO, not really, I like to grab a hold of her waist and bring her down hard, as her tits are flopping up and down (if they're big, I'm not a tit man, so I like them small too, just like my women) or giggling up and down (if you're a small girl) with the motion of the sex. I also like to feel the juices running off of my cock and down over my sides because gravity is pulling them towards the bed, and down and out of the soaking wet hot box that is impaled on my cock...

Sorry, thought I was writing another story, I'll stop! LMAO!

BUT I DON'T LIKE BEING ON TOP! ARRGGGHHHH!!!

 

[gothic_nymph]

hmmmmmmm... I don't know... I'm not one for "loving" the guy on top.. so I really cannot answer!

 

[pwr2theblondes]

Why is it that Women almost FORCE guys to have sex on top?

Here! Here's my Dilemma and maybe this will make a little more sense.

I'm a Bigger Guy. It's not something I can help, even if I lose the little bit of a stomach that I have I STILL have a big frame, and I'll always BE a bigger Guy!
With that said, I like to be with smaller women! - For Instance, I'm 6'1" and my shortest girl was 4'11"! I LIKE EM TINY!!! LOL

SHE and ALL OF THE OTHER GIRLS I'VE BEEN WITH have Insisted that I get on top of them at least once in sex! NOW I don't particularly wanna do that, because like most guys, I like to be on the bottom, (WE'RE LAZY!) and doggie style (occasionally, but that's fun too with short girls! the leg difference can be a SON OF A BITCH!) and what ever other position I can contort myself into being a big guy!

What is it that makes girls want to be underneath the weight of a guy? I'm SO dumb founded!

If it were me, I WOULDN'T WANT a big guy laying on me as we were fucking!

SOMEONE ENLIGHTEN ME!!!!!

I have never had to force a guy to be on top. I myself highly enjoy being on top. It is easier for me to cum that way but I wouldn't want to always be on top. I don't want to do all the work. I want to see the man I am with holding himself up on his arms while he is fucking me. I want him to hold my arms above my head by my wrists. I want to feel his body weight pressing me into the mattress. I want the sweat dripping of his forehead to fall onto my tits. I am small myself. Just 5'1. I have been with a man who was 6'2'' probably 200 pounds. A man on top makes me feel like he is protecting me and claiming me.

 

[bonhamj27]

I have never had to force a guy to be on top. I myself highly enjoy being on top. It is easier for me to cum that way but I wouldn't want to always be on top. I don't want to do all the work. I want to see the man I am with holding himself up on his arms while he is fucking me. I want him to hold my arms above my head by my wrists. I want to feel his body weight pressing me into the mattress. I want the sweat dripping of his forehead to fall onto my tits. I am small myself. Just 5'1. I have been with a man who was 6'2'' probably 200 pounds. A man on top makes me feel like he is protecting me and claiming me.

Ok - how many guys read pwr's response at least 3x just to imagine her telling you what she wants?

 

[Denny Crane]

I love moving through a variety of positions, mainly because each one is it's own little visual and tactile delight...seeing her on top, with her nipples hanging in my face, and being able to grab onto her ass and pull her down hard onto me....from behind with her ass bent over and her face in the pillows and holding her arms behind her back....but I usually love finishing on top, with her legs hooked in my arms and driving her ass into the bed, watching her tits bounce and the look of pleasure on her face.

Damn...I just made myself horny as fuck thinking about that.

 

[Sensualdreamer]

I love moving through a variety of positions, mainly because each one is it's own little visual and tactile delight...seeing her on top, with her nipples hanging in my face, and being able to grab onto her ass and pull her down hard onto me....from behind with her ass bent over and her face in the pillows and holding her arms behind her back....but I usually love finishing on top, with her legs hooked in my arms and driving her ass into the bed, watching her tits bounce and the look of pleasure on her face.

Damn...I just made myself horny as fuck thinking about that.

Damn you just made me horny too!!!

 

[blackstallion21]

ALRIGHT so we're Pretty Much @ an Even Kill -

Gothic Nymph & TrueFox @ Not really wanting to be on top

Pwr2 & SensualDreamer @ Wanting to be on top

So far I've got the answer to my question for the most part. I see that of the ones that responded, it's a power thing. I like that! I like the submissive side of a woman.

hmmmmmmm... I don't know... I'm not one for "loving" the guy on top.. so I really cannot answer!

GET ON TOP OF ME AND RIDE!!!! LOL
_thanks for your response

I have never had to force a guy to be on top. I myself highly enjoy being on top. It is easier for me to cum that way but I wouldn't want to always be on top. I don't want to do all the work. I want to see the man I am with holding himself up on his arms while he is fucking me. I want him to hold my arms above my head by my wrists. I want to feel his body weight pressing me into the mattress. I want the sweat dripping of his forehead to fall onto my tits. I am small myself. Just 5'1. I have been with a man who was 6'2'' probably 200 pounds. A man on top makes me feel like he is protecting me and claiming me.

Hmm, interesting. I am a little more than 200, but I'm 'Big Bone-did' as I've heard people say, so that's why I don't particularly like to be holding myself up with my arms as I'm fucking. And I'm DEFINITELY not putting all of my body weight on a girl and pressing her into the mattress. (just don't want to feel as if I'm smashing her - a self conscious thing I guess) BUT I think I'm going to have to start trying to fuck from the top more often after hearing you describe it! WHEW! lol

Ok - how many guys read pwr's response at least 3x just to imagine her telling you what she wants?

I DID!!!!!

I love moving through a variety of positions, mainly because each one is it's own little visual and tactile delight...seeing her on top, with her nipples hanging in my face, and being able to grab onto her ass and pull her down hard onto me....from behind with her ass bent over and her face in the pillows and holding her arms behind her back....but I usually love finishing on top, with her legs hooked in my arms and driving her ass into the bed, watching her tits bounce and the look of pleasure on her face.

Damn...I just made myself horny as fuck thinking about that.

Nice to hear a man's POV.

Damn you just made me horny too!!!

I know right!!!!

 

[Denny Crane]

Nice to hear a man's POV.

Who said I'm a man? Maybe I'm a chick with a strap-on. Don't judge me.









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[blackstallion21]

Who said I'm a man? Maybe I'm a chick with a strap-on. Don't judge me.









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Well if that's the case, I have two things to say...

1) OPEN MOUTH n INSERT FOOT - LOL
2) To Each His OWN!!! LOL O' LOL

My Apologies Kind Sir... er... Mad'am! (whateva)

 

[MrsCCfromRC]

We enjoy most positions but we both like me on top alot. He loves watching me move and I like to set the tempo sometimes.... also, he's more than a foot taller so we line up a little better... lol

 

[world69peace]

We move through a bunch of positions too! I love riding him cowgirl style! Its the funnest for breast play I find which I love to receive while getting fucked! But we usually end up finishing (after going through a few positions) with him on top! He can fuck me hard and its more fun for him to pull out and squirt his cum all over me! Yum!

He is a bigger guy too! But I like the feeling of his body on mine and of him thrusting into my pussy! Good times!

 

[NaughtyPeaII]

I like being fucked from behind, I find it incredibly arousing to have my hair pulled but if I'm in the mood I love to be pressed into a mattress and have that feeling of a big, gorgeous man devouring me

 

[blackstallion21]

We enjoy most positions but we both like me on top alot. He loves watching me move and I like to set the tempo sometimes.... also, he's more than a foot taller so we line up a little better... lol

I'm a foot taller than MOST of the girls I have dated, and I LOVE being on the bottom (as mentioned above) but only because of the difference in my legs and hers, and it's sometimes harder getting her in certain positions because of the height difference.)

We move through a bunch of positions too! I love riding him cowgirl style! Its the funnest for breast play I find which I love to receive while getting fucked! But we usually end up finishing (after going through a few positions) with him on top! He can fuck me hard and its more fun for him to pull out and squirt his cum all over me! Yum!

He is a bigger guy too! But I like the feeling of his body on mine and of him thrusting into my pussy! Good times!

I'm REALLY gonna have to get on top more often! LOL

I like being fucked from behind, I find it incredibly arousing to have my hair pulled but if I'm in the mood I love to be pressed into a mattress and have that feeling of a big, gorgeous man devouring me

I like this, but as I said, being taller has it's benefits, and also it's consequences. having sex in certain positions is one of the down sides.

 

[lady_poisyn]

so i don't fit your body type i'm a bbw and tallish at 5'8, but for me i just dislike being on top it hurts my knees and i can't enjoy it, and maybe i'm odd but i can't really cum that way- it's much harder for me. the reason i like a guy on top is i love to have his strong arms around me, love being able to wrap my legs around him and run my nails down his back, makes it easier to get to his neck too as i'm a biter. it just feels better having his weight on me, comforting even, i enjoy it with big guys and with small guys, it's not my favorite position but a close second. most of the guys don't seem to mind being on top, i guess it's the control thing, but then again i tend to make it clear i don't like being on top.

 

[blackstallion21]

so i don't fit your body type i'm a bbw and tallish at 5'8, but for me i just dislike being on top it hurts my knees and i can't enjoy it, and maybe i'm odd but i can't really cum that way- it's much harder for me. the reason i like a guy on top is i love to have his strong arms around me, love being able to wrap my legs around him and run my nails down his back, makes it easier to get to his neck too as i'm a biter. it just feels better having his weight on me, comforting even, i enjoy it with big guys and with small guys, it's not my favorite position but a close second. most of the guys don't seem to mind being on top, i guess it's the control thing, but then again i tend to make it clear i don't like being on top.

WELL Poisyn,
While I don't normally date bbw's because I'm a bigger guy, I have had A LOT OF FUN with the few that I did date! I don't have "A TYPE" because I'm S I N G L E and we single people seem to take what's given to us. LOL.

But as I said, I'm gonna have to start getting on top more often, but I clearly don't like it. There are reasons reguarding my decisions, (not sure if I totally described them above) but either way, I LOVE having sex, (although I don't have it often enough) so I guess I'm gonna have to start doing what I gotta do!

oh and PS, I'll look ya up the next time I'm in TN. - I've seen your pic thread, and I'd chase you around the bedroom a little bit!! LOL

 

[Peaches1990]

I don't always want the guy on top & never force him to do anything

From behind works good, as does me straddling him, infact I don't like 'missionary' unless it's deeeeep

 

[Kahlo]

I like variety. When I want the guy to be on top it is the submissive side of me coming out. I want to feel his weight holding me there. I want him controlling the motion and rhythm. I want to be able to wrap my legs around him and cling to him as he ravishes my body. Now, that is not to say that I don't like being on the top as well. I also have a domme side that likes to come out. When I am top I like to have a guy at my mercy... moving slowly while he is begging me to ride him harder. It all depends on my mood really.. I can go from sweet, submissive sex kitten to fierce, dominating panther and every where in between. *shrugs*

 

[blackstallion21]

I don't always want the guy on top & never force him to do anything

From behind works good, as does me straddling him, infact I don't like 'missionary' unless it's deeeeep

I like variety. When I want the guy to be on top it is the submissive side of me coming out. I want to feel his weight holding me there. I want him controlling the motion and rhythm. I want to be able to wrap my legs around him and cling to him as he ravishes my body. Now, that is not to say that I don't like being on the top as well. I also have a domme side that likes to come out. When I am top I like to have a guy at my mercy... moving slowly while he is begging me to ride him harder. It all depends on my mood really.. I can go from sweet, submissive sex kitten to fierce, dominating panther and every where in between. *shrugs*

I like the way you two think. Variety is the SPICE OF LIFE!

 

[Miles Long]

I like being on top because then the audience can see my ass better.