Ladies, can you really type while coming?

[Blase]

I get this with some regularity when playing with girls online: We'll be playing for awhile, things will get hot and heavy, then suddenly she'll type "coming" or something nearly as brief.

It always leaves me shaking my head, more in amazement than disbelief. I trust my partners, you see: They're not random, but people who I've talked to online and made at least some effort to establish a relationship with before sex play happened.

So, I believe my girls when they tell me that they're climaxing, but I just have to say - DAMN, Ladies!!! Wish I knew how you do that!!!

Seriously, though...That's so different from the male experience of orgasm...Ours are over so quickly and there's very little else that we can do or think about in the midst of them.

I'd be interested to hear the ladies comment, if any care to. What is it like to ride the crest of your pleasure when that crest can last for two minutes? Is there anything that your partner can do (or say, if you're playing online) to make the experience even better once your orgasm begins (like encouraging you to stop typing, for all I know...)?

Please feel free to share whatever you wish...

 

[RedHeadedGlory]

In the middle of one, no.

Which is why I usually take the precaution of typing it while the orgasm is still, well, coming.

 

[Blase]

Thanks for chiming in, Red.

So, it sounds like "I'm coming" might be more accurately read to mean "I'm just about to go over"... Works for me.

It was nice meeting you the other night.

 

[EnglishRoseFox]

No and I'd never try either It's hardly conducive to a hot sexy orgasm banging (excuse the pun) away on a keyboard now is it?

But if you like....I can pretend I am....oh god yes yes YES!!! you're so good....mmmm....baby right there.......


Better?

 

[Essa]

This is the internet, us ladies can do anything we damn well please

 

[MollyDolly]

No and I'd never try either It's hardly conducive to a hot sexy orgasm banging (excuse the pun) away on a keyboard now is it?

But if you like....I can pretend I am....oh god yes yes YES!!! you're so good....mmmm....baby right there.......

Better?

Sorry Foxy, the OP would have responded to your comment, but he was too busy changing his pants

This is the internet, us ladies can do anything we damn well please

*looks around* You know what Kylan would say about that, now don't you?

And no. I cannot. I don't even try. It's all about voice chat anyhow

 

[Essa]

Sorry Foxy, the OP would have responded to your comment, but he was too busy changing his pants


*looks around* You know what Kylan would say about that, now don't you?

And no. I cannot. I don't even try. It's all about voice chat anyhow

What would that be?

 

[MollyDolly]

What would that be?

I'm sure it would have something to do with ladies and self-delusion

 

[faithchick]

It's hard but it can be done, normally it never makes sense, but who gives a fuck at that point.

 

[Guest]

Does the guy need this?

It was a perfectly valid question, and not asked in a bad manner.

 

[Kylan]

Does the guy need this?

It was a perfectly valid question, and not asked in a bad manner.

'Scuse me, barey old bean ... did you mean;

"Does a guy need this?"

If so ...

Hmmmmm ...

 

[BlueMorpho]

In the middle of one, no.

Which is why I usually take the precaution of typing it while the orgasm is still, well, coming.

Ditto to this.

 

[Kylan]

Ditto to this.

So, at last all you wicked women agree with me?

 

[BlueMorpho]

So, at last all you wicked women agree with me?

*eye roll* whatever you say, oh egotistical one

 

[pleaz_me]

I could, but the damn keyboard keeps getting in my way.

 

[Kylan]

*eye roll* whatever you say, oh egotistical one

Lady, everyone knows women come 300 and one times when they're with me .. well, unless they're lesbians ...

 

[BlueMorpho]

Lady, everyone knows women come 300 and one times when they're with me .. well, unless they're lesbians ...

Then they only come 300 times?

 

[Kylan]

Then they only come 300 times?

Nope.

I convert 'em while they type.

 

[wferret]

In the middle of one, no.

Which is why I usually take the precaution of typing it while the orgasm is still, well, coming.

Yeah, as a guy, I do this too. When I'm very close, and the woman I'm chatting to lets me know she's very close too, I'll type it out and wait till the moment to hit "Send". And if it happens too quickly, I'll let her know as soon as I can type, and maybe I'll say "I'm cumming" rather than "I just came" to stay in the mood and help her keep the mood like she's been helping me keep the mood.

Because it works both ways... I'm helping her to cum, and she's helping me to cum, and if she's good enough it at to take me all the way there then I'm going to return the favour as best I can, even if that means using a bit of creative licence as to when the exact moment is.

I always assume she's doing the same thing too. She may not cum exactly when I came, but whether she got there before me or after me - as long as we both helped each other to cum, then it's all good and we've both looked after each other.

It's like that with RL sex too. Confession time - I've never had a simultaneous orgasm with a partner. To be honest, I suspect it happens rather rarely - we're all different, and all have different speeds of getting there. But if I get there first, then I'll damn well make sure I do everything I can to help her get there too. And, so far, I've been lucky enough to have partners who do the same for me.

WF

 

[Kylan]

Yeah, as a guy, I do this too. When I'm very close, and the woman I'm chatting to lets me know she's very close too, I'll type it out and wait till the moment to hit "Send". And if it happens too quickly, I'll let her know as soon as I can type, and maybe I'll say "I'm cumming" rather than "I just came" to stay in the mood and help her keep the mood like she's been helping me keep the mood.

Because it works both ways... I'm helping her to cum, and she's helping me to cum, and if she's good enough it at to take me all the way there then I'm going to return the favour as best I can, even if that means using a bit of creative licence as to when the exact moment is.

I always assume she's doing the same thing too. She may not cum exactly when I came, but whether she got there before me or after me - as long as we both helped each other to cum, then it's all good and we've both looked after each other.

It's like that with RL sex too. Confession time - I've never had a simultaneous orgasm with a partner. To be honest, I suspect it happens rather rarely - we're all different, and all have different speeds of getting there. But if I get there first, then I'll damn well make sure I do everything I can to help her get there too. And, so far, I've been lucky enough to have partners who do the same for me.

WF

Excellent post, wferret, many thanks for your time.

Post some more!!

 

[PhunkyPhuck]

No and I'd never try either It's hardly conducive to a hot sexy orgasm banging (excuse the pun) away on a keyboard now is it?

But if you like....I can pretend I am....oh god yes yes YES!!! you're so good....mmmm....baby right there.......


Better?

Open your mind.

 

[wferret]

Just to follow up on my last post - I've never faked it online. If I cum, I cum, and if I don't, I don't. I never tell a woman that I've cum if I haven't. It may have taken me a couple of minutes longer than her to get there, or I may have hit the jackpot a few minutes before she's told me she's cum, but I have never, ever pretended to cum when I haven't.

So far, I've never had a situation where she seems to be really into it and I haven't. If I'm not in the mood, I won't get involved in the first place, and if I am, then it's not an issue.

I very much hope that the women I've played with online (and there aren't many) have been honest about when they're cumming. But if they haven't, then their pretending had certainly helped me cum, so as long as they're happy, I've got no complaints

WF

 

[didi_louise]

I definetely can't.... even when I'm about to I can't distract myself from what I'm doing, lol.... a chat with me will go very quiet then I'll say "sorry about that.... I was just coming!!" usually with a comment about feeling all warm and fuzzy, lol!

 

[wferret]

I definetely can't.... even when I'm about to I can't distract myself from what I'm doing, lol.... a chat with me will go very quiet then I'll say "sorry about that.... I was just coming!!" usually with a comment about feeling all warm and fuzzy, lol!

IME - if you get enough advance warning that you can fire a post off saying you're about to come, it really helps whoever's on the other end of the line

WF

 

[RedHeadedGlory]

I'll type it out and wait till the moment to hit "Send".

^ Yup, do that one quite a bit to, come to think of it.

So, it sounds like "I'm coming" might be more accurately read to mean "I'm just about to go over"...

Sometimes, yes. Although not always (see above).

It was nice meeting you the other night.

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