Ladies 40+: Anal Sex a pro or con?

[kdb]

Ladies,
Give us guys your thoughts on this subject. What are the pro's or con's in your opinion? Is it a never ever, maybe once, or a welcomed regular thing?

I suspect most fellas will be more then willing to give it a try regardless if they bring up the idea or it is requested to them.

Many say it is taboo or "exit only" but what are your real thoughts?

 

[bibethhotwet]

For me it is an occassional thing. Not something every day or every week for that matter. My husband is not demanding about it but he knows how to get me in the mood for it. I know women who absolutely LOVE it and I also have friends who say are not into it at all. Several things have to be taken into mind. First, safety. Cleanliness is a must on both parties. I am not against going bareback with my husband back there but on the times when we do engage in double penetration the other male MUST wear a condom. Second, guys take your time in getting your woman prepared. Men get in such a damn hurry some times to take the back door they don't realize this can be very painful if preparation is not taken. Third, lube...lotta lube.

If your lady is not into it..don't pout. There are plenty of other areas to unload in or on her.

 

[cum2ut]

For me its still a no fly zone! I don't know if its just because I haven't found the right person to do it or what, but its just not happening. I like having my ass played with, but not fucked.

 

[MrsCCfromRC]

Well.... I used to say no.... but now I enjoy attention there... but for penetration, occasionally... not very often and I agree.... go slow and easy... and lube, lube, lube.....

 

[kdb]

Thanks for sharing so far everyone. It is great to see so many ladies like some level of attention on the back side. Backsides are so darn sexy it is hard not to leave them alone.

My wife views it as a no fly zone but doesnt mind a finger or small toy in the area, but as one viewer wrote, it is all about getting them ready and taking our time.

We have been married 15 years and only recently did I approach the subject with any kind of seriousness. Her bum is so sexy that the thought of entering her back door is a total turn on. Until I get the green light I will have to enjoy all the wonderful comments posted.

 

[mytwinsister]

A huge NO... I find this beyond disgusting, I swear I might have a tattoo on my lower back with an arrow pointing down saying " exit only "

 

[turner28]

Ok this may get longwinded lol. I just turned 41 and have desired anal for a long time. So I hope everyone finds this post useful.

In my case I have had 6 children natural birth thus I have a little issue called hemmorhoids. They seem to have impeccable timing - only acting up when anal is desired. They can be painful during anal and even bleed. Over the years I have found a few things helpful.

Toys - if anal is planned I apply some good ol ' PH, insert the desired butt plug and wear it all day. Anal ese also helps for those really irritating ones.

Warm water / saline rinse - this is a nice prep before th PH treatment. It will reduce swelling and make the area more sensitive.

Enema - this is a must for those who suffer as I do. Be sure to not use the vinegar one though. I recommend using - Avon Skin So Soft the light & lush one. It softenes the tissue and makes anal so much more enjoyable.

Now for those who understand this issue - you know that for us anal MUST be prearranged so that we can deal with things that could make it impossible.

For our partners, please do not ever think these are excuses. We must do these things for both of our pleasure, be patient and work with us on this. The prep can be as fun as the act itself.

I hope this was helpful.

ET

 

[turner28]

Ok this may get longwinded lol. I just turned 41 and have desired anal for a long time. So I hope everyone finds this post useful.

In my case I have had 6 children natural birth thus I have a little issue called hemmorhoids. They seem to have impeccable timing - only acting up when anal is desired. They can be painful during anal and even bleed. Over the years I have found a few things helpful.

Toys - if anal is planned I apply some good ol ' PH, insert the desired butt plug and wear it all day. Anal ese also helps for those really irritating ones.

Warm water / saline rinse - this is a nice prep before th PH treatment. It will reduce swelling and make the area more sensitive.

Enema - this is a must for those who suffer as I do. Be sure to not use the vinegar one though. I recommend using - Avon Skin So Soft the light & lush one. It softenes the tissue and makes anal so much more enjoyable.

Now for those who understand this issue - you know that for us anal MUST be prearranged so that we can deal with things that could make it impossible.

For our partners, please do not ever think these are excuses. We must do these things for both of our pleasure, be patient and work with us on this. The prep can be as fun as the act itself.

I hope this was helpful.

ET


PS - I also find ice cubes as helpful as they are erotic. LOL

 

[kdb]

Ok this may get longwinded lol. I just turned 41 and have desired anal for a long time. So I hope everyone finds this post useful.

In my case I have had 6 children natural birth thus I have a little issue called hemmorhoids. They seem to have impeccable timing - only acting up when anal is desired. They can be painful during anal and even bleed. Over the years I have found a few things helpful.

Toys - if anal is planned I apply some good ol ' PH, insert the desired butt plug and wear it all day. Anal ese also helps for those really irritating ones.

Warm water / saline rinse - this is a nice prep before th PH treatment. It will reduce swelling and make the area more sensitive.

Enema - this is a must for those who suffer as I do. Be sure to not use the vinegar one though. I recommend using - Avon Skin So Soft the light & lush one. It softenes the tissue and makes anal so much more enjoyable.

Now for those who understand this issue - you know that for us anal MUST be prearranged so that we can deal with things that could make it impossible.

For our partners, please do not ever think these are excuses. We must do these things for both of our pleasure, be patient and work with us on this. The prep can be as fun as the act itself.

I hope this was helpful.

ET


PS - I also find ice cubes as helpful as they are erotic. LOL

Tell us more about the ice cubes approach..............