Lack of teasing

[ShaneoD]

I was having "a moment" last night and realised there is a real lack of sexual teasing stories online, considering how many ladies like to do it, I wonder why that is, any thoughts?

 

[StrongMaster7]

I don't care for being teased. I've got enough frustration in my life. Maybe others feel the same.

 

[BongoGal]

I was having "a moment" last night and realised there is a real lack of sexual teasing stories online, considering how many ladies like to do it, I wonder why that is, any thoughts?

There is a definite aspect of cruelty to teasing. When I was much younger I used to find it terribly entertaining to tease a guy into getting hard and frustrated. Now it just seems mean.

 

[ShaneoD]

I guess I meant the thrill of the chase, the build up of anticipation, the "will it or won't it happen" aspect, it doesn't have to be mean spirited, it can be playful, I mean if it's sexual it's only working if both parties want to be involved isn't it? Everything online just seems to be "Here's two people, now they're fucking" there's no build up

 

[Jasmine12345]

ShaneoD,
Exactly, now I see a man talking about the build up. And you even went in a little deeper by saying “ it doesn't have to be mean spirited, it can be playful” ---a good point.

When it comes to playing online, the mental / emotional is what moves me more than the description of the sex act.

I do see many Lit authors do get into that.

 

[Escierto]

My girlfriend and I have a motto about teasing, “No teasing without pleasing!”