Lack of Oral

[Charger_69]

Hey. I'm 18 and have only become sexually active in the last few months...man o man what I've been missing!

Anyways, my girlfriend simply doesn't enjoy oral sex. If I get her really warmed up before I go down on her she enjoys it, but even then she says she would rather have me use my hands or just have sex. She says it is because she wants to see my face while we are doing it, which makes me love her even more really, but damn I wanna eat some pussy and not feel like I'm unwanted!

Also, she had never given head before she did so on me, but she has still not really given me a full-on BJ before. The longest she has stayed down there is about 3 minutes. She says it is just weird to have my penis in her mouth, which is understandable...but hell, having my mouth on her vagina was 'weird' the first time I did it. And the odd thing is that for someone who doesn't like to give oral, she's damn good at it. The most she will do as far as oral goes, generally, is to tease me or get me ready for penetration. We actually tried to have a real blowjob last night, but she just couldn't do it very long.

I love her with all my heart, so our relationship doesn't hinge on this. She even says that even though she doesn't care for oral, she loves making me feel good by doing it. It would just be nice to get and give some oral pleasure once in a while.

So I guess my question is, have any of you girls felt this way early in your sexual lives and gotten over it, and/or what advice do you have for me or her. Should I drop it, push it, or just see what happens?

 

[WantonWitch]

Hey. I'm 18 and have only become sexually active in the last few months...man o man what I've been missing!

Anyways, my girlfriend simply doesn't enjoy oral sex. If I get her really warmed up before I go down on her she enjoys it, but even then she says she would rather have me use my hands or just have sex. She says it is because she wants to see my face while we are doing it, which makes me love her even more really, but damn I wanna eat some pussy and not feel like I'm unwanted!

Also, she had never given head before she did so on me, but she has still not really given me a full-on BJ before. The longest she has stayed down there is about 3 minutes. She says it is just weird to have my penis in her mouth, which is understandable...but hell, having my mouth on her vagina was 'weird' the first time I did it. And the odd thing is that for someone who doesn't like to give oral, she's damn good at it. The most she will do as far as oral goes, generally, is to tease me or get me ready for penetration. We actually tried to have a real blowjob last night, but she just couldn't do it very long.

I love her with all my heart, so our relationship doesn't hinge on this. She even says that even though she doesn't care for oral, she loves making me feel good by doing it. It would just be nice to get and give some oral pleasure once in a while.

So I guess my question is, have any of you girls felt this way early in your sexual lives and gotten over it, and/or what advice do you have for me or her. Should I drop it, push it, or just see what happens?

Everything is weird or strange the first few times you do it, once you begin to relax and enjoy it the pleasure comes naturally. It sounds like neither of you have had a lot of experience yet, so the best I can suggest is just keep right on trying when the moment feels right, i.e like you said get her really hot. Don't make it a big issue over either thing, it's all about enjoying yourselves and giving each other pleasure. The mindblowing sex and orgasms come when you get to know each others bodies and responses to different stimuli.