Lack of Foreplay

[collegetrouble]

Who out there doesn't like foreplay? Personnally, I love it almost as much as sex, both giving and getting. However, my girlfriend never seems to like it for more than the briefest of moments, then wants to get straight to the good part. does anyone have a suggestion on how to turn her on to foreplay?

 

[shynsexy]

try this

i know how your girlfriend feels next time try this: make out for a really long time, getting her really aroused, then go down on her concentrating only on het clit. This should make her come really fast, it does for me anyways. Then she will be so happy she will gladly "do you" before yall get down to it. hope it helps

 

[Different Guy]

What's everyone's idea of the length of time that you start moving down below. Starting off with the kissing and touching up each other but actually getting to the more important parts...

 

[bluemuse]

Hours and hours......

Your poor girlfriend! I could kiss for hours.......nothing else........if I'm kissing someone who knows how to do it properly.....

Kissing, fondling, stroking eachother....clothes still on......building the anticipation........makes "the good stuff" all the better.

Sweetie, maybe your g/f hasn't had it done properly...........make it your mission to show here how good it can be.

If she isn't seeing reason about trying it out.............tie her up so she doesn't have a choice............she'll change her mind.



bluemuse

 

[schatz]

I agree with Bluemuse...tie her up. I'm not talkin' having her hangin from the ceiling, just some simple hand restraints and a blindfold.

 

[deliciously_naughty]

Are your her first lover? I"m curious because I used to rush through foreplay, thinking that my lovers were doing it for me and were really just trying to get me ready so we could go at it. I had quite a bit of trouble cumming, as you might imagine because I was uncomfortable with guys going down on me (I was much more squeamish back in the day), and I figured they just wanted their cocks in me. Sad, but true. Luckily I had a lover who set me straight and went off on how much he loved going down on women, and touching women, etc. I loosened up...and now I get pissy if a guy wants to rush through foreplay. Don't get me wrong, there are times when foreplay is overrated, but 90%of the time, it's the greatest. So to circle back to my point...if she's inexperienced, talk to her and set her straight.

I also agree that making her orgasm at least a few times will slow it down...and tying her up lightly is also a good idea, but only if she's comfortable with it.

Maybe, if she's open to the idea, suggest that you control the sex one night. Keep your clothes on for as long as you can and get her off as much as possible. Show her how much you like foreplay...

good luck!

 

[SexySlut2]

I agree with Bluemuse...tie her up. I'm not talkin' having her hangin from the ceiling, just some simple hand restraints and a blindfold.

Oh yes, that's always fun!!

 

[atomicgirlblues]

I've also found that a lot of girls are afraid of giving head because they aren't sure if they are "doing it right". If this is the case you may want to give her a little more guidence on what you like and how you like it.