Kissing...erotica or porn?
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Sparky Kronkite
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Yes and yes.
Of course - I think.....
Porn is primarily not real - that which is pure fantacy - and in which the primary concern is to quickly - and generally without regard to art or emotion - to sexually stimulate in a relatively crude manner.
And to me, erotica is real, actual touching - or the artistic conveyance of such a reality.
I'll take either but much prefer the latter.
Of course - I think.....
Porn is primarily not real - that which is pure fantacy - and in which the primary concern is to quickly - and generally without regard to art or emotion - to sexually stimulate in a relatively crude manner.
And to me, erotica is real, actual touching - or the artistic conveyance of such a reality.
I'll take either but much prefer the latter.
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Well - in order to get better perspective on what you are saying......
Can you provide me a sample of both?
And you know - it may require some repeats - just to really get the difference.
Can you provide me a sample of both?
And you know - it may require some repeats - just to really get the difference.
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You can definately portray a miriad of intent and emotion from a kiss. Everything from the soft tingling of an erotic event to the get your close off I don't care about you just let me stick it in feeling of needy porn. Personally I dislike the word porn used to describe anything but actual items from the industry. I don't think Porn is a word that translates well into action for me.
As far as kissing goes, it depends on pressure, timing, emotion, preperation, and body language. Its pretty much a highly variable art form in which you can convery just about anything. Including the wish for someone to die.
As far as kissing goes, it depends on pressure, timing, emotion, preperation, and body language. Its pretty much a highly variable art form in which you can convery just about anything. Including the wish for someone to die.
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Well can one convey a mood such as the feeling of sensual eroticism with a kiss. Also, is it possible to convery to someone in just a kiss that you want thier body only.
other then that I can't really explain. The best thing would be not to specify, and simply ask what can be conveyed in a kiss. I do get what your saying though. The thing that is confusing with the word Porn, is that it could be interperted to mean sex with wild abondon, or sex wihtout feeling.
other then that I can't really explain. The best thing would be not to specify, and simply ask what can be conveyed in a kiss. I do get what your saying though. The thing that is confusing with the word Porn, is that it could be interperted to mean sex with wild abondon, or sex wihtout feeling.
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cymbidia
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~long shivering kisses, panting breaths that flow you to me and back again, your fist tight in my hair, pulling my head back, holding my head still, tongues slipping and sliding past each other in a dance of arousal and shaking desire, hands flowing over skin taut with aching need, murmurming between gasping kisses of wild ache and shaking need, and plunging, again, again, again, into another deep wet kiss, you to me, me to you, forever, forever~
Porn?
Erotica?
Definitely a kiss, though.
Porn?
Erotica?
Definitely a kiss, though.
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willywanker
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yes, definate differences
A kiss can be something you give a small child as you tuck them in at night , to making a boo-boo feel all better, to a brush on the cheek as you meet family and friends at one end of the spectrum to open mouth, tounge dualing passion filled events on the other.
The kiss I give my wife when I walk thru the door when I get home at the end of the day is not the same kiss she gets when I seek to arrouse her desires. I guess there may be those that don't understand the differences but they sure make the rest of us look good.
As he gently stroked the back of her neck, his lips brushed lightly over hers. The contact was almost electric as with eyes closed, their lips met again, harder this time. His tounge flitted across her lips til they opened, her tounge rushing forward to meet his. Dipping his head, he moved his lips along her cheek bone, tracing it with his tounge til he reached her ear. Nibbling gently on her lobe, before dipping his head further to bite harder at the base of her neck before moving back to join his lips with hers.
Short example of the more erotic version.
A kiss can be something you give a small child as you tuck them in at night , to making a boo-boo feel all better, to a brush on the cheek as you meet family and friends at one end of the spectrum to open mouth, tounge dualing passion filled events on the other.
The kiss I give my wife when I walk thru the door when I get home at the end of the day is not the same kiss she gets when I seek to arrouse her desires. I guess there may be those that don't understand the differences but they sure make the rest of us look good.
As he gently stroked the back of her neck, his lips brushed lightly over hers. The contact was almost electric as with eyes closed, their lips met again, harder this time. His tounge flitted across her lips til they opened, her tounge rushing forward to meet his. Dipping his head, he moved his lips along her cheek bone, tracing it with his tounge til he reached her ear. Nibbling gently on her lobe, before dipping his head further to bite harder at the base of her neck before moving back to join his lips with hers.
Short example of the more erotic version.
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With a soft tang in her tummy she watched him walk over. The gentle exposure of his tongue as licked his lips thrilled her depths, and prepared her for what was to come. She looked then to his eyes soft, yet with purpose, and found his hand stroking her chin. The tilt in her head guided by hand to invite the soft tenderness. That silky touch of moist lip upon her that invoked a quiver of warmth to her core. Then with firm embrace did he take her slowly covering every milimeter of lip in an embrace of longing desire. Only to part the way for the slithering slip of passion called his tongue to slide between and enfold hers. There dancing together thier tongues wooed and swooned from the heat and passion till with a heavy sigh they parted and glazed eye they did stare deep into the exposed and vulnerable souls of thier desire.
<grins> Had to add my own flare there
<grins> Had to add my own flare there
cymbidia
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From my story "Pierced"
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“I love you, too,” he told me tenderly. “I can’t imagine my life without you.”
Without haste, he came around the table to me and drew me up against his body. He pressed my back gently against the wall and fitted himself to me. Fisting his hand into my hair, he pulled my head back and looked down at me for a few long wordless moments, his eyes stroking over my face almost tactilely.
As his lips closed over mine, I shivered. Hot spikes of desire shot through my skin and traveled to my core. My tongue slipped and sparred with his and I felt the familiar drugging addiction of his need calling mine.
We were shaking with reaction, our breathing labored, when he broke the kiss. We’d never been able to explain to each other the arousal ignited by this intensely intimate act. We cherished it, though, and never took for granted the heat that flared between us at the smallest of touches."
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“I love you, too,” he told me tenderly. “I can’t imagine my life without you.”
Without haste, he came around the table to me and drew me up against his body. He pressed my back gently against the wall and fitted himself to me. Fisting his hand into my hair, he pulled my head back and looked down at me for a few long wordless moments, his eyes stroking over my face almost tactilely.
As his lips closed over mine, I shivered. Hot spikes of desire shot through my skin and traveled to my core. My tongue slipped and sparred with his and I felt the familiar drugging addiction of his need calling mine.
We were shaking with reaction, our breathing labored, when he broke the kiss. We’d never been able to explain to each other the arousal ignited by this intensely intimate act. We cherished it, though, and never took for granted the heat that flared between us at the smallest of touches."
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Vivid Blossom
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Kisses
Wowwwwwwwwww Willy, Morden, Cymbidia. Yes there are definitely different types of kisses as Willy so aptly described them --- and yes, I can tell the difference.
Wowwwwwwwwww Willy, Morden, Cymbidia. Yes there are definitely different types of kisses as Willy so aptly described them --- and yes, I can tell the difference.
stargazer76
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Mmmmmmmm
All of this talk about kissing makes me want to rush out of here a few hours early and do some practicing. I should never read these threads when I'm at work. Especially with no outlet....
Cym....when do we get to read more?
All of this talk about kissing makes me want to rush out of here a few hours early and do some practicing. I should never read these threads when I'm at work. Especially with no outlet....
Cym....when do we get to read more?
stargazer76
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Duh!
Of course, how silly of me...
And how did I know you'd be a willing partner in crime?
Of course, how silly of me...
And how did I know you'd be a willing partner in crime?
floridaguy64
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Give me a kiss to build a dream on........
Although there are many different types of a "kiss", the one that comes to mind the most would have to be the very first kiss shared by two people. Whether it be a soft little peck, or a long slow sensual tongue duel........................the way that first exchange of intimacy leaves your heart pounding, your blood boiling and your mind racing.
Yeah, that very first kiss.......................what a wonderful event that was!
Although there are many different types of a "kiss", the one that comes to mind the most would have to be the very first kiss shared by two people. Whether it be a soft little peck, or a long slow sensual tongue duel........................the way that first exchange of intimacy leaves your heart pounding, your blood boiling and your mind racing.
Yeah, that very first kiss.......................what a wonderful event that was!
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Floridaguy....you take me back to that first kiss I shared with my now-husband. It was soft and sweet, and immediately afterward, I had to kick the poor man out the door. I knew if he stayed, I'd end up in bed with him and I'd only known him 3 days. *sigh* He still kisses me like that and I still swoon every time. Thanks for bringing that all back. It's a nice memory to relive at the end of this REALLY LONG day.
stargazer76
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Lightning, you silly thing...
I'm attached too. Doesn't mean we can't play, does it?
I'm attached too. Doesn't mean we can't play, does it?
