Kinky winky

[FurryFury]

I'm so damn happy y'all because my husband WANTS to spend the night out with me for Valentines. I thought his sex drive was dead and we couldn't afford it anyway.

Where the heck are the kink travel threads when you need them? I even started one and can't even find it.

*does a happy dance*

 

[midwestyankee]

Smiling for you. Here's hoping you find a terrific venue for your getaway. Might I suggest Chicago? The pizza is excellent and the weather is usually quite mild in mid February.

 

[HowMayIPleaseU]

Smiles... congratulations... I live vicariously through you... I'll take any advice you care to hand over as to how your resurrected your hubby's sex drive... Lord knows, my hubby's needs CPR as well... sighs...

 

[FurryFury]

Smiling for you. Here's hoping you find a terrific venue for your getaway. Might I suggest Chicago? The pizza is excellent and the weather is usually quite mild in mid February.

Man, how I'd LOVE that!

 

[FurryFury]

Smiles... congratulations... I live vicariously through you... I'll take any advice you care to hand over as to how your resurrected your hubby's sex drive... Lord knows, my hubby's needs CPR as well... sighs...

I didn't do anything much. I just continue to try to keep communication open even though we see each other too little particularly in the bedroom.

I do try to be understanding and kind to him even when I'm frustrated as hell.
I tend to flirt with him whenever I see him.

Sometimes I pull him aside and ask how he is feeling, how "we" are and if he thinks we will get through these difficult times. Then I let him be the rest of the time which is most of the time. We are just both too damn busy these days.

It's too long since our last night out.

 

[FurryFury]

Ah, okay, here it is!
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=405065

 

[sb2009]

Fury Fury - those were all the same things my therapist suggested to me to as well. But it was to increase my sex drive. It worked, worked and worked some more!

 

[HowMayIPleaseU]

I didn't do anything much. I just continue to try to keep communication open even though we see each other too little particularly in the bedroom.

I do try to be understanding and kind to him even when I'm frustrated as hell.
I tend to flirt with him whenever I see him.

Sometimes I pull him aside and ask how he is feeling, how "we" are and if he thinks we will get through these difficult times. Then I let him be the rest of the time which is most of the time. We are just both too damn busy these days.

It's too long since our last night out.

sighs... I wish that worked for me... I've tried talking to him about it... he acknowledges that he has lost his sex drive. He's had a doctor check it - no medical issues...

I flirt with him all the time... I've tried romantic (lingerie, etc.), sexy, vanilla, kinky, getaways...

We AREN'T too busy... sighs....

but nothing changes...

 

[sb2009]

talk to another dr. Some drs do not take low sex drive seriously, but it is a real quality of life issue.

 

[FurryFury]

Fury Fury - those were all the same things my therapist suggested to me to as well. But it was to increase my sex drive. It worked, worked and worked some more!

Awesome!

 

[FurryFury]

sighs... I wish that worked for me... I've tried talking to him about it... he acknowledges that he has lost his sex drive. He's had a doctor check it - no medical issues...

I flirt with him all the time... I've tried romantic (lingerie, etc.), sexy, vanilla, kinky, getaways...

We AREN'T too busy... sighs....

but nothing changes...

I'm so sorry.

*hugs and hugs*

 

[FurryFury]

It was a WONDERFUL night! My D/s soul was fed.

 

[sb2009]

Great!!!!!!!