Kinky Suggestions

[methpez]

Here’s the problem… I’m a fairly simple guy with kinky side in the bedroom but when it comes to experimenting with my girlfriend many times my mind goes blank. Simply put could any of you great people out there give me any suggestions on things to try?

 

[Bindii]

Have you tried reading some of the fiction on Lit? I am sure that you will get some great idea's there........

 

[Wiggles]

Well, I think we would need to know the stuff you're already doing in the bedroom. How kinky do you go?
You could always try something with foods.
Strap-on's?
Actually, if you just read about some of the things people talk about on here, I'm sure you'd get some good ideas.
Try all the boards, there's usually *something* kinky going on.

 

[J.B.]

I got a couple of questions:

1. Is she kinky too?
2. Is she as kinky as you?
3. Have you two spoken about this? or did you want to spring it on as a surprise???

What I would suggest is a little bit of teasing so you can get ideas of what she might like & what you might be willing to do...
Try not to plan it out too much...

 

[mixelplix]

I got a couple of questions:

1. Is she kinky too?
2. Is she as kinky as you?
3. Have you two spoken about this? or did you want to spring it on as a surprise???

What I would suggest is a little bit of teasing so you can get ideas of what she might like & what you might be willing to do...
Try not to plan it out too much...

I've got to kind of agree with JBait here and ask the question - Have you talked about it?

Sprining something kinky on her might be too much of a suprise depending on how kinky it is.

I would suggest easing into it. Maybe start by discussing some fantasys you both have and moving on from there.


Mixel

PS

To quote the famous Forest Hump - "Kinky is as Kinky does"

 

[J.B.]

I would suggest easing into it. Maybe start by discussing some fantasys you both have and moving on from there.

Mixel

nice to know great minds think alike...

PS
To quote the famous Forest Hump - "Kinky is as Kinky does"

love this by the way!

 

[mixelplix]

Originally posted by mixelplix
I would suggest easing into it. Maybe start by discussing some fantasys you both have and moving on from there.

Posted by JailBait
nice to know great minds think alike...

Mixel ...
PS To quote the famous Forest Hump - "Kinky is as Kinky does"

JailBait ...
love this by the way!

Thanks and you know I would love to discuss some fantasys with you!

 

[J.B.]

Thanks and you know I would love to discuss some fantasys with you!

really? haven't heard any lately.... what's inside that mind of yours?

 

[Pechorin]

Agree with the wise words above

There are thousands of stories packed full of ideas on this site.

Just make sure you talk with your partner and don't do anything to lose that all important bond of trust between you. Your idea of kinky and your partners idea could be poles apart. If you're both pretty much on the same wavelength then get reading and get experimenting!

 

[J.B.]

Re: Agree with the wise words above

get reading and get experimenting!

and speaking of wise words.....

 

[mjnelson]

I eased into it with my girlfriend. By that, I waited till I knew she was comfortable with me (i.e. not on my first date, but like my 10th date) and then when I was making out with her I gently tied her hands behind her back; then we would make do tame stuff like dance for me and kiss.

The next time, I would try to tickle her some, and then kept trying new things and using more restraints.

 

[lazarus UK]

Given that your mind goes blank:

How about Post-It notes on the headboard to remind you?

 

[J.B.]

Given that your mind goes blank:

How about Post-It notes on the headboard to remind you?

Now would these be detailed intructions? or just key words to give his memory a jump-start?

 

[on_the_verge]

Aggresive and kinky?

I think I have too many kinks, but what I really enjoy is a woman who allows me to be very aggressive with her before having sex and during. I usually come off shy about my inner lurkings, but when I am with a woman who is open to it, I like to engage in being the aggressive role.

I had this lover who did not like anal sex before she met me. I had inserted my finger into her anus to get her comfortable with it and to allow her to hopefully realize it can be pleasurable. We had been discussing anal sex before and was willing, but unsure. So, when I was taking her doggy style, I made sure she was willing and ready. I rubbed my cock, alternating between her anus and her pussy. I started to penetrate her, but she was saying it hurt. I kept pushing in and she started to squirm, but I held her fast and kept pushing in. She began to scream and cry in a tears, but I told her she would take it and I continued to slam into her virgin ass. She finally was enjoying as her anus was adjusting to being penetrated. I then begin to slap her ass and caused welts and eventual bruises, but she wanted it rough and I was all too willing to give it to her. I liked the role playing that she was being "raped" and I was tossing her around and commanding her to beg for me to touch her or put my cock back inside her ass.

We also had enjoyed how we would be walking in public and I would take her into a corner and push her up against the wall and kiss, kiss, tease, suck on her nipples and finger her. It did not matter if people had seen, but we liked the idea of someone could be watching. I would also command her to take her panties off in the middle of our outing and made her walk around without them. The thing is that she would wear skirts that opened from the front and enjoy the cool air and also knowing that men were looking at her bare pussy.

When I was on vacation last month, I met this girl there. We went out to a few clubs and I was fondling her in the back room. She would also go down on me, but the erotic things started when we were in the lounge area and she went down on me in front of half the club.

Well, I was not trying to write a story or make it appear kinky, but just explaining snippets of thngs.

 

[CuriouslilQT]

Wow...on the verge
I want to bring you into my bed.
Role playing is a major turn and can almost get anyone
excited. The more you read of others experiences and apply a lil bit of your own you can do wonder...

 

[submissive~pet~]

Now i am very kinky and some of mine my be to far fetched for you.

Slip on a pair of her silky panties.
Tell her you have been naughty,and suggest she grab a hair brush.
Redden your bottom a little,then try reversing the situation so you can spank her bottom.
Golden showers are fun too.
Give her bottom a good licking.
want more ideas?
Like others said read some of the stories.
Try the bondage stories lots of ideas there.
Fetishes have many ideas as well.
Happy humping.

 

[zantac666]

Tickle her ass and pussy with a feather.

 

[on_the_verge]

Wow...on the verge
I want to bring you into my bed.
Role playing is a major turn and can almost get anyone
excited. The more you read of others experiences and apply a lil bit of your own you can do wonder...

Hmmm? That sounds very appealing, but we may need to introduce ourselves first. Role playing begins within and then you touch another with it and wrap it around each other's universe. What's your role today? Reading and sharing is a wonderful tool, but when tested in the field, there are unexpected results. I hope your b/f and you are exxploring though…

 

[on_the_verge]

Re: Now i am very kinky and some of mine my be to far fetched for you.

Slip on a pair of her silky panties.
Tell her you have been naughty,and suggest she grab a hair brush.
Redden your bottom a little,then try reversing the situation so you can spank her bottom.
Golden showers are fun too.
Give her bottom a good licking.
want more ideas?
Like others said read some of the stories.
Try the bondage stories lots of ideas there.
Fetishes have many ideas as well.
Happy humping.

Licking is a good way to start…all over and leaving no mm of skin untouched. It might yield hours of pleasure and knowing every line and imperfection, but please be naughty and make sure he/she earns every lick, stroke, pinch, etc.

Go out and make the other say nasty things (within reason and safety) to perfect strangers to be touched. Have the woman walk around all night with Ben Wa balls rocking within or him having nipple clamps, that are pinched every so often. There is always more, just never ask for less…