Kink In Mind ~ French Kiss at a Christening Scenarios

[@}-}rebecca----]

I am slipping it seems of late. Far more disclosure to the general public than I ever have an agenda for. It simply can't just be me. The examples below may be slightly amusing however after the fact a tiny bit disconcerting..........

Scenario 1

My living-room . Talking to a girlfriend whom was sharing info about her previous night of passion with her new beau, I threatened to call out to my son and tell him, to tease her for being 'naughty' ( she plays miss perfect to him always ). She jokingly picked up a pillow , came over to me in seconds flat and faked the threat of holding it over my face to stop me 'telling'.

My comment "Ohhh goody breathplay" and then I laughed .

Scenario 2

Sitting at my kitchen bench talking to a male acquaintance about how children ( ie the little emperor ) need to learn when they live in apartments they can't be as loud as if they were living in a free standing house and how too much noise is inconsiderate of our neighbours.

My comment "Not like I can use a ball gag on him" . No laughter from me that time.

Note : I do not own a ball gag. Have never even had one applied or offered to me. Too much reading in Lit perhaps.

Scenario 3

At the Mall today , talking to a stranger about the Stuart Little DVD that is currently on sale while waiting for a sales person.

My comment "Ahh let them get it ( the children ), Hugh Laurie is in it and he is so Domly' ......oops

Chite , I can't be the only one . Those scenarios have not been embellished and they all have happened in the last 4 days. Honestly I am a little astounded at myself.

Anyone else making royal BDSM faux-par ?

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

Yesterday afternoon:

Roomate/bestest friend comments she needs to remember to pack something green, in case she stays overnight at a certain someone's house, since she doesn't want to get pinched for St. Patrick's Day.

Me: "Aaaand the pinching thing is bad, because?"

Her: "It hurts? I swear he could leave a brusie if he wanted to."

Me: "M'kaay... still not understanding why this is a bad thing."

Her: "It's just that he'll get me right under the arm where it'll really 'effing HURT and leave a bruise!"

Me: "Oh... hmmm... Yeah I gotta agree with you; there are much nicer places to pinch to the point of bruising, than that particular spot."

Her: "I am so glad you moved home; I missed you."

*chuckle*

Miss Cutie Mouse great example and thank you for sharing :smiles: Would you permit me to say that it 'sounds' like you were in control of what you were saying at least at the point you directed a 2nd / 3rd comment 'on topic' . I stopped dead after the first of each of my individual comments. I am really quite shocked at myself. I wasn't flirting with the people involved or testing the water . While my female friend mentioned above is aware of the paraphernalia around my home ( no sex toys strewn about , more like imagery , the current occasional book , a piece of rope with an interesting knot tied in it , the flotsam & jetson of BDSM in my 'own castle' ) it's not like we have had any formal discussion about my less public lifestyle. Nor has she known me long enough to have witnessed any of my relationships first hand.

Might just be a glitch with me but it 'feels' a little out of control. A personal game of information roulette. Subconsciously pushing personal boundaries & incorporating others into it by inadvertently disclosing information I do not usually share.

There is a humor to it but I sense something darker .

 

[Shankara20]

Anyone else making royal BDSM faux-par ?[/b]

the one I did yesterday was not BDSM related as such -

Yesterday we were holding an anti-war protest and a counter-protester showed up. He was holding a sign that stated "Tree huggers are queer - I support Bush & the war" Surrounded by people I know just a little I said "well I'm a tree hugger and I'm queer but that is where it ends"

Opps self-outed once again....

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[graceanne]

Last night me and K and my friend M went out for me and M's birthdays. (Hers was the 15th, mines the 19th). Anyway we were all a bit drunk, and we got to the front door and weren't being quiet. Kenny wouldn't let us go inside till we stopped giggling (the meanie -s omething about waking kids ) M made a smart ass comment, and K SMACKED HER ASS. LOL Talk about a faux pas. Although later we were inside chatting with our 14 year old babysitters, and she almost made a very inappropriate comment about her fuck buddy. K said 'M! Let's go outside.' She was all 'NO! You're gonna smack me again, and that hurt!' hehe

Also once I was at the bar that M tends and she was chatting with a custumer (I was eating) and I forget how the conversation got there, but he said something about spankings, and M was like 'ew', and I shouted 'DON'T KNOCK IT 'TILL YOU TRY IT'. Then the guy she was talking to shouted back (we were on opposite sides of the bar) 'TELL IT, SISTER!' and M was like 'M! YOU ARE SICK, SICK!'

 

[shy slave]

This happened just two hours ago and I am still blushing bright red!

Andante and I were in his living room talking quietly.

He was at his computer and I was kneeling at his feet looking up at him.

I did have my hands on his cock but he was dressed and it was all covered up.

Without hearing any footsteps in the hall the door suddenly opened and his daughter appeared!



I was so shocked I jumped up, went scarlet and must have looked guilty as hell!

His daughter stared for a second then said "Oooooo K" in a very long and drawn out way.
As she was shutting the door she told us food was ready.

I was so embarrassed and hid my face in my hands wishing the ground would open up and I could disappear.

Andante was roaring with laughter, finding the whole situation very funny.
He grabbed my hand and pulled me into the kitchen where his daughter and her boyfriend were.

All I could manage to say was "Whatever you thought that was, it wasn't. Really it wasn't"

Even to my ears it sounded lame. All through the meal I could hardly look at Andante as he was grinning and laughing.

I still have another 5 days to face his daughter again and again and again.

How do you explain I was kneeling in my proper place and not giving him a blow job!!

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

: packsupmysadlittlesuitcaseofselfexamination,drives&musings :

I have decided not to comment on these wonderful stories shared individually as it appears to be masking a critique of sorts and that was not my intention. I usually keep internal struggle ramblings to myself. Hard enough for me to understand let alone articulate.

Each post has made me laugh , smile or experience projected empathy to some varying degree. All unique and all brilliant in their own right.

Please keep it up , you people all rock manifestly.

 

[Retrieval]

...Hugh Laurie is in it and he is so Domly' ......oops

Are you serious or are you being sarcastic?

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

Are you serious or are you being sarcastic?

Quite serious , Hugh sets off my domdar .

Intelligent , articulate , enigmatic & bent . Then there is something he projects just with his eyes.

http://img133.imagevenue.com/loc448/th_61549_hugh_122_448lo.jpg

Work with me would you ? I don't 'do porn'. Need a little mental eye candy every now and then :smiles:

 

[Retrieval]

Quite serious , Hugh sets off my domdar .

Intelligent , articulate , enigmatic & bent . Then there is something he projects just with his eyes.

http://img133.imagevenue.com/loc448/th_61549_hugh_122_448lo.jpg

Work with me would you ? I don't 'do porn'. Need a little mental eye candy every now and then :smiles:

Bent?
Bent where I am means gay. What does it mean to you?

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[Retrieval]

In this instance, I read "bent" as "twisted", but Rebecca might have a different definition.

I surprised anyone would see him a Dom.
Dom=Dominant or Domineering.

When I think of Hugh Laurie I think of a limp wristed homosexual.

Do you see him as a Dom?

 

[Retrieval]

Double post.

Lit is really fucking with me tonight.

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

Bent?
Bent where I am means gay. What does it mean to you?

Bent : An individual who abuses his/her position of power.

Now that ^^^ is sarcasm or is it, hmmmn

Bent : A person who is not constrained by convention.

Serious ^^^

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[Shankara20]

I surprised anyone would see him a Dom.
Dom=Dominant or Domineering.

When I think of Hugh Laurie I think of a limp wristed homosexual.

Do you see him as a Dom?

As opposed to the sort of homosexual I am - sorta butch, despite the panties?

Just asking?

 

[HottieMama]

Hugh Laurie does seem a bit "twisted" to me...but perhaps that's just the craracter he plays. He doesn't set off my "gay-dar" at all though.

 

[Retrieval]

As opposed to the sort of homosexual I am - sorta butch, despite the panties?

Just asking?

Yes.

I put homosexuals in two categories:
1. The butch truck driver type that nobody has any idea is actually homosexual.
2. The very camp type.

 

[Shankara20]

Yes.

I put homosexuals in two categories:
1. The butch truck driver type that nobody has any idea is actually homosexual.
2. The very camp type.

hmmm, I don't have a professional truck drives license but I do have a very large motorcycle - is that close enough to fit in your #1?

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

As opposed to the sort of homosexual I am - sorta butch, despite the panties?

Just asking?

Hello Fu Darlun

:lustyswoons:

 

[Shankara20]

Hello Fu Darlun

:lustyswoons:

My dear Rebecca - how lovely to see you here.

 

[Retrieval]

hmmm, I don't have a professional truck drives license but I do have a very large motorcycle - is that close enough to fit in your #1?

Yes, that fits.

 

[Shankara20]

Yes, that fits.

Thanks

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

My dear Rebecca - how lovely to see you here.

Thank you Fu , so gracious of you to say so. I have been trying to memorize this verse all morning..........

"The quality of mercy is not strain'd.
It droppeth as the gentle rain from heaven
Upon the place beneath.
It is twice blest:
It blesseth him that gives and him that takes."

Then my mind just drifts back to the 'carriage scene' . Perhaps it may be more prudent to go straight for the pound of flesh. Any thoughts ?