Keeping it up while sticking it in

[georgewas]

im a 21 y/o unexperienced bi male in a commited relationship. ive noticed that whenever im being penetrated, regauedless of my erection before hand, i loose my erection. Whether it be a real penis, my girlfriends strapon, or even when im masterbating and im using a dildo on myself i loose my erection after insertion and have a harder time regaining it. i love the feeling but my penis seems to say otherwise.

anyone else have the same problem or know what my problem is or what im doin wrong. Help!

 

[Little Bird]

Hm, when I'm fingering myself back there I loose my errection quite soon, too. I don't think it's a problem, it's just that I have other things that need my attention...

 

[Raimondin]

im a 21 y/o unexperienced bi male in a commited relationship. ive noticed that whenever im being penetrated, regauedless of my erection before hand, i loose my erection. Whether it be a real penis, my girlfriends strapon, or even when im masterbating and im using a dildo on myself i loose my erection after insertion and have a harder time regaining it. i love the feeling but my penis seems to say otherwise.

anyone else have the same problem or know what my problem is or what im doin wrong. Help!

It is quite common for the passive partner to lose his erection while being penetrated, and the cause for this can be physical, such as physical stimulation being directed away from the penis, or it can be psychological, such as stress or distraction. Erection can be regained with relaxation and pauses or breaks in-between intercourse. Talking with your partner can be very helpful, as he/she is aware of your concern. Frequency of masturbation and sex could also be a factor.

 

[bi_asian_guy]

*****

 

[VinnieMeatball]

It happens to me too! I am so glad I read this so I don't feel so concerned.

And that seems to be a good explanation Rai!