Just wondering...

[OdysseusMan]

I'm just wondering how many people are totally turned on by something that is completely antithetical to what they think they want, or can actually handle?

 

[Cycle Tom]

I'm just wondering how many people are totally turned on by something that is completely antithetical to what they think they want, or can actually handle?

There are several areas of porn or erotic writing that turn me on but disgust me at the same time. The submission and humiliation of women and incest, for a couple of examples.

 

[Ltimmy82]

There are several areas of porn or erotic writing that turn me on but disgust me at the same time. The submission and humiliation of women and incest, for a couple of examples.

Agreed, if that's what we're talking about.

Incest stories are quite hot to me but I don't really have any desire to have sex with my mother, for example.

The hucow fetish is interesting to me and I find the stories and videos hot; but I don't really have any desire to do that or be a part of that scene in real life.

 

[Ltimmy82]

Expanding this; Years ago I was corresponding with a woman online who was interested in wearing a dog collar and having me train her like a puppy dog.

The conversation was hot as hell but I don't really have a desire to do that to anyone in real life or to be a part of that scene/fetish.

When she started pushing me to meet up and actually do this in real life I wasn't interested in it.

I guess the reality of what some of these things mean and what they might represent is too much for me sometimes.

 

[Lost_Yonder]

Connected with this amazing woman once - 30-something successful lawyer, beautiful looking, so confident, yet caring. But when it came to sex she wanted it/needed it rough - as in slapping, punching. I watched some videos before we actually met and there was something erotic in watching, but when it came time to do it to her, I couldn't. Nipple pinching and slapping her face while she sucked me weren't enough for her and they themselves were over the top for me. We did try once more, but I'm just not that guy...

 

[PFWilly]

There are several areas of porn or erotic writing that turn me on but disgust me at the same time. The submission and humiliation of women and incest, for a couple of examples.

Ditto on the same subjects. Some other subjects are just simply not interesting at all, ie scat and similar.

 

[cuck72]

For me I have these submissive humiliation degrading bi cuckold fantasies. It really gets me off, and my wife has cuckold me in the past, and we've had a few 3sums years ago with my co-worker. But I know how I am with my real feelings, and being put down, and degraded by my wife, or another guy, I think would be hard to handle. But in my very hot sexual submissive cuckold clean up fantasy world it's the best.

Funny how your fantasies always work out great, like just the way you want them to.