Just found out my bf is bi or bi curious....

[NTGND]

I just found out my boyfriend is bi or bi curious. We have been together for a while & have had a very active & wild sex life. I am not upset, I'm even kinda turned on but I don't understand it. Worse is the way I found out, looking at his email he had been inviting other guys over to my house when I was at work because he was ashamed. We have talked a little about his one experience but he seems very embarrassed which I also don't understand. What should I know? What should I be concerned about?
Thanks!
Just a confused girl...

 

[nakedplay]

I think you and him need to sit down and have a very honest conversation. STD's are certainly something you need to worry about. Nkdplay82 on yahoo

 

[Jenny1990]

My BF is curious too; personally I find it really hot, but it takes some getting used to. PM me if you like and we can talk xxx

 

[VanillaLipgloss]

His sexuality doesn't seem to be a problem for you, so that's great. What should be an issue is him cheating. Unless you guys are in an open relationship and you were okay with him having multiple partners, he's been basically cheating on you while you were at work. That's not cool. That should be the confusing part of all of this.

Now if you are in an open relationship, you two need to sit down, in a space where he feels safe and can be open and honest. Talk about where all of this is going and how you two can build your relationship around this new revelation. Talk safety for you and him. No more unknown strangers in the house without your knowledge and get tested.

Good Luck

 

[JackVettriano]

Sounds like he's exploring and pushing the boundaries and it sounds like something you both enjoy. You are lucky to have each other and the fact you are so understanding is wonderful.
My concern would be just how far did he go with this guy and what does he want from him. If it's just exploration and all they did was chat and maybe fool around then that's cool. If it's a lot more than that then I would be concerned, as it is I think talking about it and maybe watching some MMF porn and introducing it as something you do together would may be the way ahead for both of you.

Good luck and I hope it all works out well.

 

[J1biboi]

I just found out my boyfriend is bi or bi curious. We have been together for a while & have had a very active & wild sex life. I am not upset, I'm even kinda turned on but I don't understand it. Worse is the way I found out, looking at his email he had been inviting other guys over to my house when I was at work because he was ashamed. We have talked a little about his one experience but he seems very embarrassed which I also don't understand. What should I know? What should I be concerned about?
Thanks!
Just a confused girl...

Think of all the wonderful possibilities.

 

[Jerseyshore]

Understand

I just found out my boyfriend is bi or bi curious. We have been together for a while & have had a very active & wild sex life. I am not upset, I'm even kinda turned on but I don't understand it. Worse is the way I found out, looking at his email he had been inviting other guys over to my house when I was at work because he was ashamed. We have talked a little about his one experience but he seems very embarrassed which I also don't understand. What should I know? What should I be concerned about?
Thanks!
Just a confused girl...

I can understand your confusion as this is a side of him that you didn't know. I have been through this in the other direction, so to speak, and I can very well understand your situation. It's definitely something you need to talk about at length. I suggest that if its a turn on then its something to explore, but I think you two need to be at peace about it before exploring the pleasure.

 

[NTGND]

Thank you everyone for taking the time. I will utilize these suggestions & try to find a way for have an honest, open conversation.

 

[Trimjob69]

Thank you everyone for taking the time. I will utilize these suggestions & try to find a way for have an honest, open conversation.

And then give him my number...