Just curious

[sub by desire]

I have a question. Can a Dom have more than one sub?

 

[A Desert Rose]

I have a question. Can a Dom have more than one sub?

By most definitions, a Dom can do whatever He wants to do... or She, as the case may be.

 

[Vixandra]

ADR is correct.


But not all Doms have multiple subs. In fact some prefer to concentrate on one in a full time, 24/7 relationship.

Being a Dom/me does not automatically entitle you to multiple subs any more then being submissive means you're a wussy doormat by default.

If being one of two+ is good for you and your Dom/me, go for it. If not, find a Dom/me that wants a single sub.

Good luck.

 

[heckle]

A Dom can have many subs/slaves. I know a few Doms and Dommes who have multiple subs and slaves. As with all things in life, if they are in a poly relationship, then they also have jealousies to deal with. If it is a strict Dom/sub relationship, then it is not normally too bad. There was one Dom I know who had two subs and they all lived together. It all ended when the two subs started arguing all of the time and he told one (the newer one) to leave. SHe left and today they are all friends and get along. So it really boils down to can the Dom handle more than one sub and can they all coexist together.

 

[Vixandra]

A Dom can have many subs/slaves. I know a few Doms and Dommes who have multiple subs and slaves. As with all things in life, if they are in a poly relationship, then they also have jealousies to deal with. If it is a strict Dom/sub relationship, then it is not normally too bad. There was one Dom I know who had two subs and they all lived together. It all ended when the two subs started arguing all of the time and he told one (the newer one) to leave. SHe left and today they are all friends and get along. So it really boils down to can the Dom handle more than one sub and can they all coexist together.

I don't feel its all on the Dom/me's choice in this one.
Surely a Dom/me can be satisfied with one sub. And that sub has the right to be in a single Dom/single sub relationship.

I belive it boils down to whether the Dom and the sub can handle it, and if they even want to.