Ladies I need a little help
I am a 62 White Married Male. My wife is 51. Living in SE Wisconsin. About 10 years ago I was diagnosed with diabetes. One of the side effects was erectile dysfunction. At the time it was very embarrassing to me when things didn't happen she didn't question and I never explained. At all. When I would fail in the middle she didn't complain. Not once. Up until then I was very sexual. Our love making gradually decreased and eventually stopped altogether. In every other way our marriage was successful but in the bedroom we didn't communicate. We just adjusted. When the pressure got to her I think she had a couple of affairs. She was discrete, never embarrassed me but it hurt me. We began to grow distant and I thought we were heading for a divorce.
This last June just before our anniversary she sat me down and told me that no matter what she would never leave me. That she loved me. She convinced me to see a doctors and they are starting to treat me. With medicine I am starting to function again but it still is a little difficult. During this time I gradually realized that I had completely stopped all forms of intimacy. No touching no oral. Boy was I stupid.
After beating myself up about it I decided to reconnect with my patient and sweet wife and do everything I could to improve our time. I figured I would start with oral. I'm embarrassed to say I was terrible at it. Too many years had passed and I'm just not doing it right. She is a quiet person and wasn't much help. I can get her off but it's not easy. Some things work but I used to absolutely great at it and now I'm worse than a 15 year teenager. I thought about hiring a hooker to re-teach me but I'm afraid of disease.
So I am asking. I'm looking for a mentor. Someone between the ages of 25 and 60. Real person (female). No games, Must be healthy, normal body. Caring. No strings (will not leave my wife). Must be patient and discrete. Must love oral. Would prefer someone unattached, do not want to damage any relationship. Just want to meet once a week or so and get better. I'm not a movie star - just average looking but I am willing to learn. Help an old dog get back in the saddle please.
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I am a 62 White Married Male. My wife is 51. Living in SE Wisconsin. About 10 years ago I was diagnosed with diabetes. One of the side effects was erectile dysfunction. At the time it was very embarrassing to me when things didn't happen she didn't question and I never explained. At all. When I would fail in the middle she didn't complain. Not once. Up until then I was very sexual. Our love making gradually decreased and eventually stopped altogether. In every other way our marriage was successful but in the bedroom we didn't communicate. We just adjusted. When the pressure got to her I think she had a couple of affairs. She was discrete, never embarrassed me but it hurt me. We began to grow distant and I thought we were heading for a divorce.
This last June just before our anniversary she sat me down and told me that no matter what she would never leave me. That she loved me. She convinced me to see a doctors and they are starting to treat me. With medicine I am starting to function again but it still is a little difficult. During this time I gradually realized that I had completely stopped all forms of intimacy. No touching no oral. Boy was I stupid.
After beating myself up about it I decided to reconnect with my patient and sweet wife and do everything I could to improve our time. I figured I would start with oral. I'm embarrassed to say I was terrible at it. Too many years had passed and I'm just not doing it right. She is a quiet person and wasn't much help. I can get her off but it's not easy. Some things work but I used to absolutely great at it and now I'm worse than a 15 year teenager. I thought about hiring a hooker to re-teach me but I'm afraid of disease.
So I am asking. I'm looking for a mentor. Someone between the ages of 25 and 60. Real person (female). No games, Must be healthy, normal body. Caring. No strings (will not leave my wife). Must be patient and discrete. Must love oral. Would prefer someone unattached, do not want to damage any relationship. Just want to meet once a week or so and get better. I'm not a movie star - just average looking but I am willing to learn. Help an old dog get back in the saddle please.
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