Jumping in, Finally

[K4play]

I've been reading stories on this site for years. I ve recently become a member and started reading the discussion threads. I am simply in awe at the eloquence this community shares. I ve learned so much about the community and about myself due to the grace and authenticity you all have.

I have been trying to figure out how to begin this journey. I know it is important in posting in this section that I know what I want and what I am looking for. Everyone here seems so sure about who they are and what they want. I want to be like that when I grow up

I will try to be as clear as I can because I know that is the only way what i want and need will find its way to me.

I need to connect with people who are willing to be patient with my many questions and my finding my way. Not my way to my sexuality but my way to being able to embrace and articulate it. I know I am ready to step away from the world of fantasy and into the real world ( i am in cali ) and ultimately that is what i am looking for.

I have had 2 relationships with have fluttered into the BDSM world. One in which I was a sub and one the dom. Both with men. I want to find people with whom I can build a relationship to explore both sides of myself and of that type of relationship. With men or women.

Basically I want to learn, explore, experience the lifestyle that has been pulling me in since my first sexual awakening. And I am so looking forward to building relationships with like minded people. So I am read to jump in.

I look forward to the journey

K

 

[ShyGuy68]

If you feel like chatting with a Dom several timezones away, you are more than welcome to get in touch with me.

I wish you luck on your search

 

[Lyqs2Lyq]

newbie 2 newbie

Good Morning Kay,
I've been fantasizing about being dominated by a woman for quite a while now. Only interested in play, no 24/7 type thing. I'm a pleaser by nature, so the idea of serving a woman gets me going. I know I'm not into extreme pain, medical, blood, scat, or golden showers. Would love to be tied and teased, nipple clamps, cbt, strap-on play, and if I'm a good boy I get to worship your body with my tongue.
If any of this sounds like what you would be into please pm me. Part of being a pleaser is having patience, so don't worry about your lack of experience.
Looking forward to hearing from you.

 

[de_Sade7777]

Hi K4play, PM me and we can discuss your options. Also to see if we have anything in common, that would attract us. Waiting to hear from you.

 

[quietwoman187]

I've been reading stories on this site for years. I ve recently become a member and started reading the discussion threads. I am simply in awe at the eloquence this community shares.

I admit, I have been impressed by the imagination and language of those in the BDSM boards. I wish you luck on your journey and hope you find the person you're looking for!