Join the Women's Internationational Federation of Initiators of Exciting Sex

[bangmywalls]

This is a restating of another thread I started that seemed not to draw any interest. It was originally titled Join the International Sisterhood of Slutdom, but it was suggested to me that no woman wants to admit to being a slut, and that I was using the term "slut" wrong, that it means a woman who sleeps around indisicriminately and immorally, whereas I meant a woman with a high sex drive with the man she loves. When I thought about it, I decided what I really meant was ALL of the following:

- Women who enjoy sex and aren't afraid to admit it
- Women who want and need sex at least several times a week to several times a day
- Women who don't wait around for a man to get things started, aren't afraid to get things started
- Women who want sex not JUST because they think it's what the MAN wants, but who genuinely want and enjoy sex for themselves, for the pleasure it brings HER.

OK, so I guess slut was the wrong term to use for this.

It was suggested I use the term "nympho," but I remember one comedian's definition of nympho: "A woman who wants sex one more time than the man does!" So I think nympho again defines sex from the MAN's viewpoint, as sut does, not from the woman's viewpoint. I really want this to be about women who INITIATE sexual activity and enjoy it for themselves, not JUST for how it makes the MAN feel.

So I changed the name from International Sisterhood of Slutdom to Women's Internationational Federation of Initiators of Exciting Sex. That spells WIFIES,although you don't have to be a wife to join, just a woman who enjoys sex and likes to initiate sex. I hope this change attracts membership to join by posting their stories here.

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wundergrrly from Canada gave me this idea when she said we are sisters in slutdom, becaue we both have very similar tastes in what we like sexually. We're both in our second decade of marriage to our husbands, and we STILL can't keep our hands of our men! And we love to be the ones to GET the sex started!

I'm proud to be a founding member, with her, of the Women's Internationational Federation of Initiators of Exciting Sex.

This may be discriminatory, but only women may join. The price of membership is you have to post here, TWO very explicit stories of when you initiated the sex because YOU wanted to!

I'll start.

#1: I was 23--long before I met either my first or my current (second) husband---and I had been dating a guy for about 8 months. I had read this article (I forget if it was Playgirl or Cosmo) about how to suck a man's cock, the article took you through it step by sexy step. The article advised to practice on a banana first. They said to get the BIGGEST banana you can find, peel it, and when you can kiss it all over, lick it up down and sideways, and then suck it ENTIRELY into your mouth, all without gagging or breaking the banana, you're ready.

My next date, I was dying to try out what I had read and practiced, on my boyfriend. So instead of our usual good-night kiss at our front door, I invited him in, impatiently kicked the door closed behind us, and practically tore his pants off in my hurry to get to him. I tried to take my time and kiss and lick him all over first, like the article said, but what I hadn't counted on (and they hadn't warned me about) was, all he wanted to do was shove it in my mouth and explode. At first I didn't care, I was so turned on by the idea of sucking my first cock, I just wanted to hungrily suck him down, as fast and as hard as he wanted to give it to me. I wanted to suck him every bit as much as he wanted to be sucked. But it was all over WAY too quickly. I can't imagine that was very satisfying for him, and it sure wasn't for me. I've sucked 5 or 6 cocks since then---always because I wanted to! (that alone qualifies me for the WIFIES, I guess), and most weren't much better than that first experience.

Now of course, I get to lesisurely enjoy my husband, he's vey patient and we both wind up enjoying it very much. We're married, neither of us is going anywhere, there's just NO rush. I don't know if it's just because I love him so much, or because we take our time and really enjoy it, but whatever the reason, I happen to think he's by FAR the best tasting cock, and the best seed, I've ever tasted! Of course, I buy the food and regulate our diets, so nothing weird tasting ever gets into his semen, wherease previous boyfriends who KNOWS what funky foods they ate that got into the taste of their spunk! And I know he keeps his cock clean in the OUTSIDE too, so no nasty germy slime is on it, which again I had NO way of knowing if previous boyfriends practiced decent hygiene!

#2: I had often told my husband I had this lifelong fantasy about making love under a waterfall. We'd take showers together and pretend it was a waterfall, but we both knew that wasn't the same thing. Our son was enrolled in a private school on a huge wooded property. On one visit to the school, my husband and I decided to hike in those woods behind the school, and explore a little. To our surprise and delight, about 1/2 a mile up the trail, there was a little clearng in the woods, with a lake and a little waterfall. We just looked at each and grinned and grinned and GRINNED! The waterfall was too small to make love directly UNDER it, but you could get into a little rocky grotto BEHIND it, with the waterfall misting on your bare skin.

I was again the one to get things sarted when I stripped and swam across the little lake to the waterfall, daring my husband to do likewise and to catch me if he could. The KittyKatEater then made my lifelong fantasy come true, taking me SO sweetlly in that little grotto behind the waterfall. I don't know WHAT we would have done had a teacher or student decided to hike back there at that time! I just can't help it, when I'm with KKE, when I see that nice thick cock of his uncovered, I just turn into SUCH a horny little slut (sorry, I can't think of a better word for it) in my desire for him! Which of course, makes me ideal to be a founding member of the Federation!


So post your two favorite stories of when you got things started because YOU were horny, and come join our Women's Internationational Federation of Initiators of Exciting Sex (WIFIES)!

 

[lordonlyknows]

Much more appropriate.

However, and not to be mean, but saying you're a woman who likes sex is kind of like saying your a woman who breathes.

 

[umchick5]

It was suggested I use the term "nympho," but I remember one comedian's definition of nympho: "A woman who wants sex one more time than the man does!" So I think nympho again defines sex from the MAN's viewpoint, as sut does, not from the woman's viewpoint. I really want this to be about women who INITIATE sexual activity and enjoy it for themselves, not JUST for how it makes the MAN feel.

Please see my post here because I must have been unclear.

I think your new name is much more fitting! I think a lot of the women who are on Lit fit that category, as they are obviously seeking more sexual fun here on the forum hehe.

 

[Crazy_Jezabel]

I really want this to be about women who INITIATE sexual activity and enjoy it for themselves, not JUST for how it makes the MAN feel.

I like that idea. It seems like society thinks women should be able to enjoy sex or sexual pictures.

 

[Crazy_Jezabel]

Much more appropriate.

However, and not to be mean, but saying you're a woman who likes sex is kind of like saying your a woman who breathes.

Some people don't feel that way. Some people still believe a woman doesn't have the right to enjoy sex and she's simple there for the man's pleasure.

I still know quite a few people who think that way.

 

[bangmywalls]

Much more appropriate.

However, and not to be mean, but saying you're a woman who likes sex is kind of like saying your a woman who breathes.

I never really ENJOYED sex until my second (current) husband. No guy before him cared if I was enjoying myself or not, as long as HE got off!

Don't get me wrong, sex was pleasant, sharing feelings and closeness and all, but I didn't get "enjoyment" (as in "the big O") from it before KKE.

I don't think my mom EVER enjoyed it, she often spoke of how she hated sex with dad and it was nothing special, and why did I want to go out and experience for myself something so awful, etc.

And this thread isn't just about women ENOYING sex, but enjoying it enough that they often INITIATE it! I think in this society, even today, that's still pretty rare, for a woman to feel she's alowed the freedom to start the sex without being labeled a tramp, slut, or whatever.