Join the International Sisterhood of Slutdom

[bangmywalls]

wundergrrly from Canada gave me this idea when she said we are sisters in slutdom, becaue we both have very similar tastes in what we like sexually. We're both in our second decade of marriage to our husbands, and we STILL can't keep our hands of our men!

I'm proud to be a founding member, with her, of the International Sisterhood of Slutdom.

This may be discriminatory, but only women may join. The price of membership is you have to post here, TWO very explicit stories of when you behaved like a TOTAL slut!

I'll start.

#1: I was 23--long before I met either my first or my current (second) husband---and I had been dating a guy for about 8 months. I had read this article (I forget if it was Playgirl or Cosmo) about how to suck a man's cock, took you through it step by sexy step. The article advised to practice on a banana first. Get the BIGGEST banana you can find, peel it, when you can kiss it all over, lick it up down and sideways, and then suck it ENTIRELY into your mouth, all without gagging or breaking the banana, you're ready.

My next date, I was dying to try out what I had read and practiced, on my boyfriend. So instead of our usual good-night kiss at our front door, I invited him in, impatiently kicked the door closed behind us, and practically tore his pants off in my hurry to get to him. I tried to take my time and kiss and lick him all over first, like the article said, but what I hadn't counted on (and they hadn't warned me about) was, all he wanted to do was shove it in my mouth and explode. At first I didn't care, I was so turned on by the idea of sucking my first cock, I just wanted to hungrily suck him down, as fast and as hard as he wanted to give it to me. I wanted to suck him every bit as much as he wanted to be sucked. But it was all over WAY too quickly. I can't imagine that was very satisfying for him, and it sure wasn't for me. I've sucked 5 or 6 cocks since then (that alone puts me in the Sisterhood of Slutdom, I guess), and most weren't much better than that first experience.

Now of course, I get to lesisurely enjoy my husband, he's vey patient and we both wind up enjoying it very much. We're married, neither of us is going anywhere, there's just NO rush. I don't know if it's just because I love him so much, or because we take our time and really enjoy it, but whatever the reason, I happen to think he's by FAR the best cock, and the best seed, I've ever tasted!

#2: I had often told my husband I had this lifelong fantasy about making love under a waterfall. We'd take showers together and pretend it was a waterfall, but we both knew that wasn't the same thing. Our son was enrolled in a private school on a huge wooded property. On one visit to the school, my husband and I decided to hike in those woods behind the school, and explore a little. To our surprise and delight, about 1/2 a mile up the trail, there was a little clearng in the woods, with a lake and a little waterfall. We just looked at each and grinned and grinned and GRINNED! The waterfall was too small to make love directly UNDER it, but you could get into a little rocky grotto BEHIND it, with the waterfall misting on your bare skin. I stripped and swam across the little lake to the waterfall, daring my husband to do likewise and to catch me if he could. The KittyKatEater then made my lifelong fantasy come true, taking me SO sweetlly in that little grotto behind the waterfall. I don't know WHAT we would have done had a teacher or student decided to hike back there at that time! I just can't help it, when I'm with KKE, when I see that nice thick cock of his uncovered, I just turn into SUCH a horny little slut! Which of course, makes me ideal to be a founding member of the International Sisterhood of Slutdom!


So post your two favorite stories of your own sluttiness, and come join our International Sisterhood of Slutdom!

 

[lordonlyknows]

You gave your boyfriend a blowjob, and you made love to your husband; Oh! You slut, you!

Truth is the idea of a female slut is contradictory, because the type of mindset needed to actually be a slut is contradictory to the female sexual mindset.

Female sluts, to me, are reminiscent of unicorns and leprechauns; *mythical and even so elusive creatures.

I mean just look at how many woman are lining up to join the sisterhood...



*Exception being girls who grew up lacking male figures or who were molested at young ages. Those scenarios generally produce promiscuous women, but who can be turned on by sluttiness that stems from childhood trauma and not from actual desire?

 

[bangmywalls]

You gave your boyfriend a blowjob, and you made love to your husband; Oh! You slut, you!

Truth is the idea of a female slut is contradictory, because the type of mindset needed to actually be a slut is contradictory to the female sexual mindset.

Female sluts, to me, are reminiscent of unicorns and leprechauns; *mythical and even so elusive creatures.

I mean just look at how many woman are lining up to join the sisterhood...



*Exception being girls who grew up lacking male figures or who were molested at young ages. Those scenarios generally produce promiscuous women, but who can be turned on by sluttiness that stems from childhood trauma and not from actual desire?

I'm stumped how to respond to this. Only being abused turns one slutty?

What I posted were just two examples! Those aren't the only two times in my life I ever had or enjoyed sex.

So you're saying having sex behind my son's school where we could get caught, isn't slutty? Just because it was with my husband and not some stranger?

I guess sitting in the bleachers at a ball game with our hands down each other's jeans also doesn't constitute sluttiness by your definition? We knew everyone was too focused on the game to notice us, but we were in plain sight of those seated around us, had they looked. And although we weren't naked, it was pretty obvious what our hands were up to in each other's pants!

Or making love (again, I initiated it, I was just so horny and needed my husband to make love with me right then and there) in the freight-elevator lobby at a shopping mall? Two big potted palm trees hid us should a mall employee have come through that elevator lobby. So that's not slutty behavior either?

To me, slutty just means you love sex, you enjoy it and aren't shy about saying so, you don't mind initiating it and in fact LOVE to be the one initating sex, and going more than 2 or 3 days without sex seems intolerable. That all describes me. Does "slutty" apply ONLY to sex with a stranger you've never met before and will never see again?

I guess you're right in that sense, that men and women are different in that regard. I see NO appeal to sex under those terms, just anonymous one-night stands. Is that the ONLY way you can act slutty? But I'm niot sure it's fair to make such a clear-cut distinction between men and women when it comes to sluttiness. Not every man wants one-night stands with strangers. My husband, for example, gave oral sex to a few women he cared deeply about, but he waited until he found someone he has genuine loving feelings for (me) before he ventured into intercourse, he never did any bed-hopping and never wanted to.

wundergrrly told me we are sisters in sluthood, but she and I have been happily married and exclusive to our husbands for over a decade. From what she told me, she and I both love sex and need it and crave it, but only with our husbands. So you're saying, she and I are WRONG to consider our frequent need for sex with our men, as being slutty?

Maybe what we need is a standard definite for acting slutty. How do YOU define it?

As for other women not posting here, society puts such a negative spin on the word slut, I guess the silence shouldn't surprise me. Maybe it wasn't clear that I'm talking about behaving in a slutty way, not necessarily LIVING as a slut, I'm not talking about confessing that you're some strung-out crack whore who's sucking anonymous cock for enough to buy her next fix. I'm talking about needing and wanting to enjoy sex with someone you care about, and taking the initiative to make sure that happens frequently--for YOUR benefit because you need it and want it) as much as for his enjoyment.

Clearly not everyone defines slutty the way I'm thinking about it!

 

[umchick5]

Maybe if you renamed it to something with "nympho" in it hehe... Because sluts are generally believe to be women who sleep around. In that sense, you are obviously not a slut.

I love sex, often initiate it, and even post naughty pictures of myself... but I would never consider myself to be a slut. Just my 2 cents

 

[umchick5]

I should clarify my comment based on the definitions of the words (found in an online dictionary, which is linked):

Nympho - A female who is affected with nymphomania; a nymphomaniac.

Nymphomaniac - Excessive sexual desire in and behavior by a female.

Which seemed to be what you are getting at... A woman who has a high sex drive and high desire.

As opposed to a slut -
1.a. A woman considered sexually promiscuous.
b. A woman prostitute.
2. A slovenly woman; a slattern.

And if you look up slut in a theasarus (which is directly below the definition in my above link) it gets even more interesting with words like trollop, hussy, adultress, and loose woman.

Sorry if I was unclear. I wasn't looking at the term of nympho from a male's prospective... I just meant a highly sexual woman. I am one of them, I'll admit it!

 

[Crazy_Jezabel]

I have to say that I personaly believe I've been nyphomatic in the past rather than sluty. I was thinking that before I even read umchick5's response.

I just prefer the term nyphomatic because for me I also associate being a slut as a bad thing. I guess my American side is still partly in me.

I can only remember one time that I had sex where I could have been caught. I'm the type of person who likes to follow the rules (well sord of) and I try to respect other people's view point on sex and life. I figure not everyone believs you should be opened about sex, so I really don't like to take a chance that I'll be caught.

I don't even know if I told my husband about this because I actually just remembered it, but if I haven't he'll read it now. lol

When I was dating the Navy guy I took him to the bay down the street from me which is where I would always go if I wanted alone time to think. Not too many people go there and even less people go there in the winter time. It was winter time when I took him to show where I usually sit to get away from things and to think about things. For some reason I had an urge to give him a blow job since it's always been a fantasy of mine to make love by the ocean or under a waterfall. It was very out so it didn't last for very long since I was also worried that someone in a near by house might look out their window and see us.

 

[lordonlyknows]

I'm stumped how to respond to this. Only being abused turns one slutty?

No, it's not about abuse, it's more defined by the desire or willingness to have sex under numerous circumstances with different partners to excessive amounts.

So you're saying having sex behind my son's school where we could get caught, isn't slutty?

No, it isn't.

I guess sitting in the bleachers at a ball game with our hands down each other's jeans also doesn't constitute sluttiness by your definition?

No, it doesn't.

Or making love (again, I initiated it, I was just so horny and needed my husband to make love with me right then and there) in the freight-elevator lobby at a shopping mall? Two big potted palm trees hid us should a mall employee have come through that elevator lobby. So that's not slutty behavior either?

Again, no.

Does "slutty" apply ONLY to sex with a stranger you've never met before and will never see again?

No, but it can't exclude it either.

I see NO appeal to sex under those terms, just anonymous one-night stands. Is that the ONLY way you can act slutty?

No, but you can't be a slut without being intrigued by the idea.

Not every man wants one-night stands with strangers.

Most, if not every man, is at least intrigued by the idea (if not eager). Including your husband.

wundergrrly told me we are sisters in sluthood, but she and I have been happily married and exclusive to our husbands for over a decade. From what she told me, she and I both love sex and need it and crave it, but only with our husbands. So you're saying, she and I are WRONG to consider our frequent need for sex with our men, as being slutty?

Yes.

Maybe what we need is a standard definite for acting slutty. How do YOU define it?

The desire or willingness to engage in sexual acts under numerous circumstances, regardless of ones personal relationship, or lack there of, with potential partners.

A woman who will fuck or is easily persuaded into fucking any man she is attracted to under numerous and varying circumstances regardless of personal connection.

Clearly not everyone defines slutty the way I'm thinking about it!

Indeed.


Main point: Willingness to engage in sexual adventures with your husband is hardly slutty, regardless of the kink factor.

Maybe if you fucked openly in public, regardless and uncaring if people noticed or were judging you, then you might be a bit more slutty.

But the fact the you will only fuck your husband, and are uninterested by one-night stands, contradicts your claim as a slut.

Thus, you aren't. Neither is your "sister."

 

[bluebell]

Slattern

In case anyone is interested, artistgonewyld created a thread that specifically addresses the topic of being a "slut".
(He seems to have disappeared, though. Haven't seen him in a bit.)

 

[bangmywalls]

OK, I'm not a slut just cuz I like to INITIATE sex.

The topic of INITIATING sex now has its own thread:

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=512153

So let's CLOSE this thread and stop beating a dead horse, OK? Anyone who wants to talk about a woman being the one to initiate the sex, please go to this new thread.