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[shelleb4]

Im looking for a mentor. Possibly for just me, but i would share the correspondance with my partner.
I am monogamous and therefore not interested in a new partner, i really do mean mentor, not online partner. I dont want a Domme/Dom by proxy.

Im new to bdsm, 40 female, and married to a man who'm i trust implicitally enough to have children with.

I find some elements of control exciting, but as for the slave thing, forget it.

I am probably sub? but not really sure, can be switch. My partner is probably dom, but again, can be a switch.

I would like some body with a keen mind, real life experience rather than online only. Someone who has some experience with the mind stuff too would be grate as this has got to be for me, my largest erogenous zone i posess. They could be top or bottom as both experiences are relevant here.

Is there such a person/service/facility and would this work? Has anyone else tried this? Or am i just incredibly niaive.

 

[da grunt]

Originally posted by shelleb4 ...

I think you'll find people in this particular nitch to be very curtious, honest and open. Read people's posts. Identify with one or more of the posters. Follow their posts for consistency, then send a PM to anyone of us, asking for whatever help you may need, or question you want answered. You may pick up a mentor like that, but many of us like to be sutle and descreet. Perhaps you should excercise caution should anyone rush forward to ment for you, unknown. People here will bend over backward, or forward, to help you.

 

[MissTaken]

Moved from teh BDSM forum to help shellb4 find what she is seeking.

As such, this thread begins as a mix of searching for someone as well as beginning a discussion.

Please, be sure you read this and all personal ads and respond in kind. For example, she clearly states what she wants so, please, don't offer a D/s relationship as she is seeking someone to befriend and help her explore some of her feelings and questions.

 

[shelleb4]

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Having been given - what would seem like sound advice, I think i would like to add that a female hetro sub mentor is what im looking for. That kind of nails things down a little futher still.

And would like to hear from anyone who has received mentoring, can you explain how this worked, or indeed didnt for you?