Its time

[curioussub13]

Hello, i am doing something that is hard but i must do it. i lost my Mistress about a year ago. i have not been able to think about playing again. But i beleive that is what my Mistress would want. we never talked about it. She died suddenly. we played over the net and met about once or twice a year. i am married so we were discrete. i relied on her wisdom alot. i own my business and she helped me stay motivated. my Mistress was stearn but fair. and i did get spanked every time i saw Her just to let me know who was boss. Anyway, i am looking now for a new owner. i am 48, i am white 6'3" 195# and i am fit for my age. i am looking for long term.I want to be loved and owned. i live in Central Ca. and want to find some one close. My ideal owner would want me bi-curious and loves Humiliation and fem.i hope this is enough to describe what i need. i am happily married and will saty that way. My wife and i are also wanting to get into a swinger club or group we are both clean and fun. well i did it i hope well to all and i hope to be owned soon. Please if this does not interrest You please move on i am very busy and don't like to waste time. Love All!

 

[curioussub13]

Bump

i am in no hurry but i will keep bumping to stay current. Have a great weekend
Love charles

 

[curioussub13]

hello

i hope i did not throw everyone off when i wrote at the end that my wife and i want to swing. We do and i want a private Mistress. My wife and i have been married two years. i have had my previous Mistress for nine years before She died. My new wife is no where near as demented as i am YET. i am working on it. Because in the big picture hopefully my Mistress will be owning us both some day. So to sum things up. i need a Mistress. it is almost a way of life. and since i own my own business and work alone i am able to task and escape once in a while very rare but once in a while. i am waiting .You will not be sorry with Your new slave. But again i am not looking for short term. Sure i will play between owners but when i am owned it will be up to my owner then.
Love charles

 

[curioussub13]

bump

Just bumping Have a great day .will have more time tomorrow.
Love charles

 

[curioussub13]

Wow

Not a single PM i am surprized but i will keep on trying i am sure there is a Mistress just right for me.
Love charles

 

[curioussub13]

Hi

i hope evryone has a great weekend i will be busy having a Super bowl party. i am serving inch thick rib eyes to my 15 guests. i will serve them well as i should as a good sub i do not have to have a Mistress to be a good sub
Love charles

 

[curioussub13]

today

Today i get to serve my friends. i will do it proudly and i will wear panties when i do it
love charles

 

[curioussub13]

i did it

well i did it. i served my friends and wife and all had a great time. i hope everyone had a great day yesterday. i hope my future Mistress is reading what a good boy i am.
Love charles

 

[curioussub13]

Good morn

Well another week. i am sad that i have to play alone. i want to find a Mistress. i am glad that this is not happening fast those usually don't last. i know i am getting a look so i will be payient. have a great day to all
Love charles

 

[curioussub13]

getting going

Well my season has begun early. I own a janitorial company and i have been in business for almost 25 years and it is finally paying off i am busy year round. This is good and bad it is good for the bills bad for my golf game. No yhe reason i loved having a Mistress is when i am with her i am not in charge. But the rest of my life i am totally in charge. i miss the tasks and the fun She made me have while i work. i work alone sometimes and in out of the way areas. over the next 6 weeks i will be cleaning an 8,000 sq/ft home in the foothills. and i iwll be alone alot. Well must go get ready but have a great day to all

Love charles

 

[curioussub13]

Have a Great Weekend

Hi, i want to bump my thread i will be gone this weekend if i get off the first page will someone please bump me? Thanks
Love charles

 

[curioussub13]

Good Morning

well i hope Your weekend is good mine is wet. Which is good. should i post a picture or should i just be patient. i am not in a hurry i thought i would be but i am having a lot of lookers so hopefully my new keeper is among them. Have a great Sunday to alll and good-bye
Love charles

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Good morning Charles,

Honestly, I don't think the Lit personals will do you much good, the folks who use them seem to be mostly interested in cyber-fantasy online play. There are so few people interested in, or capable of, getting out from behind their computers to real-time meeting.

Consider also your target audience - Female Dominants. They are the smallest group of kinksters, and when you consider that male submissives are the largest group, you begin to see that the FemDoms have a target rich environment. THEY don't go looking for subs, they have too many to sort through coming to them!

Your best bet to get noticed is to start posting regularly in the BDSM Talk and BDSM Cafe forums. Ask intelligent questions, share your thoughts and feellings. Put a signature line in your profile refering back to this personal ad thread so when someone feels an interest they can click and visit. Have a profile that actually tells something about who and what you are beyond "married and love to have fun". THAT sounds like you're looking for a fuck buddy, not an Owner.

Please take this in the spirit it is intended - not as criticism, but as advice to help you find what you are looking for. You seem genuinely interested in finding someone to serve (and in something other than a mere sex toy capacity), that's a quality that I find is all to rare, and should be encouraged in submissives, both male and female.

You also may want to try finding BDSM groups in your area, or at least close enough that you can visit from time to time. Making friends and networking can be very helpful! To find local Munches, email groups, and events in your area, try:

SceneUSA - http://www.darkheart.com/sceneusa.html
Caryl's Page - http://www.drkdesyre.com/
The BDSM Events Page - http://www.thebdsmeventspage.com/ which has links to both organizations AND events.

Good Hunting!

 

[curioussub13]

Hello

Good morning all. i had a busy weekend. i had my kids for the weekend and it is always busy. but they are back with thier mom now and i can play again. in honor of that i am going to wear my red panties. i will be the only one except you that knows i hope my pantiy line show.
i hope some one is thinking of me. Have a great day to all especially my new Mistress
Love charles

 

[curioussub13]

waz up

Just wanted to say high. i can't talk but wanted to wish all a great Sunday and especially my future Mistress i know She is out there.
Love charles

 

[curioussub13]

Morning All

Good Morning, i know this may seem like a vanilla thread but it is very important to me. i am not a selfish person usually but i am in this case i am on a search and i will not quit untill it is done. The sad thing is i have to start over. it took 8 years fror my other Mistress to have me to the point of where i only saw Her when i orgasamed. This was a turn on for me to be owned. i miss it
Love charles

 

[curioussub13]

Good Morning

Good Morn all. i am sorry i have not been available lately. i have been extremely busy. my business has had a great 07' so far but at my expense. i am distracted from finding my new Mistress. and i must try and focus more but that is a catch 22. because i need to be more focused on my tasks and i need the help of a Mistress to help focus. do You see my delima. Well another thing that i have noticed is that my days are more boring. i work alone almost always and it helps to make the day more fun if i am focused on my Mistress. Sure my wife and i have fun and we are very active. But this is my secret life that i developed while i was in a bad first marriage. But how do i stop it is a part of my make up niow. So i will tredge on and keep my thoughts positive on finding my new owner. i Thank You all for listening to me and i hope i am owned soon and forever.
Love charles

 

[curioussub13]

Hello

Wow i have been so busy. But i seem to be getting every thing done. i am not real horny when i am so busy. at twenty i was always horny but now i think i am slowing a little. oh don't get me wrong i am still going strong but just a little more mature.But i am still waiting to be owned i feel more secure when i have someone to really be able to share with. i do share with my wife but i have had a Mistress and once You have a Mistress and been taught not to keep secrets then it is a bother to keep them inside. Well must go and materbate. i hope everyone has a great day
Love charles

 

[curioussub13]

i blew it

i am sorry for not keeping my thread current i have been busy but it will be that way for the next 8 months. i am still in need of an owner i am lonely but i will be patient. i will wait as long as it takes. Have a great day tomorrow. love charles

 

[curioussub13]

Still Looking

Yes i am still here i have been swamped with work this is a good thing but it effects my sex drive. i hope it rains soon so i can slow down a little
Love charles

 

[curioussub13]

Good morning

Well another week has gone by. i have had a great winter. My most prosperous ever but at a price. i have not been able to play very much too much qork. Yesterday i got to seal some grout this is always a favoriye of mine. i gey yo be on my hands and knees for about two hours. and as i would work i would drift in to fantasy. i would act like i was on my hands and knees by my mistresses order and preparing not to be a virgin i loved it. even when the house keeper would walk by i would act like i would not see her and make my butt very aceesable like my Mistress was telling me to take his dick at that very time. i beleive i would be most open then. well i must do windows today and i got a job painting for a Costco tommorow. i am busy but it will come to a slowdown soon then i'll probably jerk my clit off
love charles

 

[curioussub13]

Hello

Hello to all. This is really a bump i am busy doing window cleaning today i will spend a little more time next week i see little slow up in the future
Love charles

 

[curioussub13]

Well

Well, i thought this was going to be a littlle easier. i have had no respnce. Lets takes it up a notch. i am sure there must be an older attractive female that is over 45 that is lonely and could use as little fun once and a while. i wish to find that person in the area betweew fresno and sacramento. i wish to meet periodically. i am fun and attractive also very committed to my marriage and discreet. i have a lot to offer. i will be Your friend also. this is not something i take lightly.
Love charles

 

[curioussub13]

Bump

i think my chances for a Mistress Died
Love charles

 

[curioussub13]

So i thought

Well, i was wrong. i thought i was over needing a Mistress. But that is wrong. i will always search for my owner i will not give up untill i am kept. i must get ready for work i am here for the long haul. chow
Love charles