It's just me

[FriendlyBrunette]

EDIT: sorry, I'm too green to keep up for this site right now

 

[nekkid_handyman]

So...hello


Is it out there? can you be good and also "bad" and needy? is it OK to feel like sex and the erotica is important in your life and who you are (when they tell that your whole life that it shouldn't be) Or is some kind of fantasy idea?

I grew up strict, like my profile says, but it wasn’t the “girl gone wild” story people like to imagine. It really held me back. For one reason or another, I've often felt like I've been on the outside looking in, and that often makes me sad. More than I let on, actually. I can't share this with anyone. It’s one of those things I've felt I'm not supposed to talk about or even feel, so I’m kind of struggling with how to say it right here.

If you think you'd get along with a tallish gal who enjoys reading, cooking, gardening, and volunteering—and has a passion for plants, animals, and anything creative—that's me! I’m curious about matching and complementing energies and desires.

I'm open to conversation with women or men, but when it comes to sex and attraction I have that desire for men. The right man? I completely adore him.

I guess I can understand your dilemma. I struggled with suppressing my desires and fantasies and my sexuality to a point. One day, I decided it is part of what makes me who I am. Just like my hobbies and experiences and skills make me who I am.
Please let your sexuality free. I don't think you have to go public with it all or go on a crazy sexual bender, just accept it for yourself and nurture it. I think you will be happier.
For me, I am lucky to have met some great people here that have been very accepting and open to sharing that with me. I think you will be able to find that as well. But like anything in life, there will be some challenges. Just move ahead and don't give up hope.

 

[FriendlyBrunette]

is part of what makes me who I am. Just like my hobbies and experiences and skills make me who I am.
Please let your sexuality free. I don't think you have to go public with it all or go on a crazy sexual bender, just accept it for yourself and nurture it. I think you will be happier."

 

[SmokingFap]

So...hello


Is it out there? can you be good and also "bad" and needy? is it OK to feel like sex and the erotica is important in your life and who you are (when they tell that your whole life that it shouldn't be) Or is some kind of fantasy idea?

I grew up strict, like my profile says, but it wasn’t the “girl gone wild” story people like to imagine. It really held me back. For one reason or another, I've often felt like I've been on the outside looking in, and that often makes me sad. More than I let on, actually. I can't share this with anyone. It’s one of those things I've felt I'm not supposed to talk about or even feel, so I’m kind of struggling with how to say it right here.

If you think you'd get along with a tallish gal who enjoys reading, hikes/walking, water, cooking, gardening, and volunteering—and has a passion for plants, animals, and anything creative—that's me!

I’m curious about matching and complementing energies and desires.
I'm open to conversation with women or men, but when it comes to sex and attraction I have that desire for men. The right man? I completely adore him.

Hi and welcome to the pervert circus, FB. You're in the perfect place. The best thing about Lit is finding other people who share your interests and fantasies and being able to finally explore them without fear of judgment or repercussions (mostly). It's both a relief and a joy to learn that other people are just as aroused as you are by things that you were always ashamed of, or thought were unique to you. So open up, reach out, and enjoy!

 

[FriendlyBrunette]

Thank you for that.

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

That's a great post...clear and detailed and that says something about you. Good luck with your search. I am confident you'll find what you seek.

 

[cutcrystal899]

I sent a PM

CC899

 

[TDobbs0201]

Sent a PM. Hoping to hear from you

 

[penshockey1983]

So...hello


Is it out there? can you be good and also "bad" and needy? is it OK to feel like sex and the erotica is important in your life and who you are (when they tell that your whole life that it shouldn't be) Or is some kind of fantasy idea?

I grew up strict, like my profile says, but it wasn’t the “girl gone wild” story people like to imagine. It really held me back. For one reason or another, I've often felt like I've been on the outside looking in, and that often makes me sad. More than I let on, actually. I can't share this with anyone. It’s one of those things I've felt I'm not supposed to talk about or even feel, so I’m kind of struggling with how to say it right here.

It just gets more intense and curious as time goes on.

If you think you'd get along with a tallish gal who enjoys reading, hikes/walking, water, cooking, gardening, and volunteering—and has a passion for plants, animals, and anything creative—that's me!

I’m curious about matching and complementing energies and desires.
I'm open to conversation with women or men, but when it comes to sex and attraction I have that desire for men. The right man? I completely adore him.

Just sent you a message!

 

[FriendlyBrunette]

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[RickTango]

I apologize if you wrote me and its lost. There were a lot of replies, some more thoughtful then others.
I learned if you don't reply that second back, the messages get out of order and lost. I was not prepared for the new site and the vibe here. Thank you all who were kind.
I sincerely apologize if I didn't write you back, it was not on purpose.

Maybe Ill try again in the future, thank you all who were kind

I’m sure your PM gate will be flooded.

 

[cutcrystal899]

I apologize if you wrote me and its lost. There were a lot of replies, some more thoughtful then others.
I learned if you don't reply that second back, the messages get out of order and lost. I was not prepared for the new site and the vibe here. Thank you all who were kind.
I sincerely apologize if I didn't write you back, it was not on purpose.

Maybe Ill try again in the future, thank you all who were kind

I am absolutely gutted. In writing to you I could have been writing to myself. The amount of common ground was phenomenal.
And I poured myself into a beautiful reply, heart and soul.
Just about sums up my year. One dead end after another.