It's been a hell of a month

SeaCat

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Okay, I haven't been around to post much, and when I have popped in most of what I've seen is political, so I haven't bothered to reply. My stories are sitting in the laptop begging me to work on them, but there have been more pressing matters.

I have been in a stare down witha huricane, which thankfully missed me. I have moved, which was a pain in the ass but I survived. I am now getting hit with a triple whammy.

In work I am dealing with a racial headache. (I am the only male, not to mention the only white Aide on my unit.) I have taken over the scheduling, the making of assignments, and I am the one in charge of Emergency Preparedness on my unit. Not by choice mind you, but because no one else is willing to do these things alonge with their normal job. I am still the lowest paid Aide on the floor. Now I am being accused of being a racist and a sexist because I won't take on twice the atients of the other Aides. What makesit worse is the fact managment is afraid to back me because they know there is a lawsuit in the making.

On the home front I am dealing with looking at another storm possibly heading my way. (Frances.) As well as my wife having two lumps in her breasts. We are watching Frances nd waiting on test results. (Can you say hell for me? I work on a Cancer Unit in a larger Hospital.)

Whenever I bother to turn on the TV all I see is politicians squaking about who served where and did what. To me right now that doesn't matter shit. Yeah G.W. flew Jets, and Kerry played in the mud. So did I and a lot of other people. Who gives a royal shit? Lets talk about telling the truth. (Yeah right, and that's going to happen in the government.)

Now as for those who have been following my stories yes I am still working on the cancer survivor story. Have I gotten a bit more insight into it? Yeah, a little, but not much. Will it piss some people off? Oh yeah I'm sure it will! Do I care, nope, not a bit. Why not? Maybe it's because I have to deal with it every day. My mother has survived four rounds of cancer. My wife is staring it in the face. I have been misdiagnosed with a terminal form of it, and I work on a cancer floor. I have a slight understanding of what people go through with it.

Like I said, it's been a hell of a month.

Cat
 
Your spirit shines through, even here. Even now, when you're scared and exhausted. She'll find what she needs in you.

I can't imagine the stress of facing a cancer ward every day.

What do you do for yourself, to keep some balance in your life when you're constantly faced with so many people in so much need? Does it make it more frightening for you when there's a personal threat of cancer in your family?

Honey, I'll handle the weather situation for you. I'm on my way down to the Dominican Republic tomorrow (for a business trip that was postponed two weeks ago for Hurricane Charlie.). I'll have a talk with Hurricane Francis while I'm there; you just take care of yourself and Mrs. Seacat.

:rose:
 
You just have to believe that good will follow the bad. Hang on to what you love, cat, and keep it separate from what's bad.

My heart goes out to you.

---dr.M.
 
All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.  — Juliana of Norwich

Take care, Perdita :rose:
 
No advice or anything like that to add, other than support, and my good wishes that everything works out just fine for you and your wife.

:kiss:
 
Shit hon, suddenly my woes mean nothing.

:rose: and a {{hug}} too.

The door's always open if you ever need a shoulder.

:kiss:
 
Sea Cat,

My heart goes out to you and Frances. For some unknown reason these tough times are sent to try us, but my thoughts are with you and I'm hoping you will get through this difficult time with renewed strength and spirit.

Take care,

G_G
 
positive thoughts to you sweets. i remember being an aid a squillion years ago.. its huge work. good on ya! we need more people like that in the world.

hugs and support for you and mrs.

v~
 
Min already sent the tulips, so I'll just give you a hug.

Take care and hang in there.

:rose: :kiss: :rose:
 
Super mega hugs for you and the Mrs.

Sending as much positive energy as possible to you love, hoping all will be well for you.

Please keep us posted.:rose: :heart: :rose: :rose:
 
shereads said:
Your spirit shines through, even here. Even now, when you're scared and exhausted. She'll find what she needs in you.

I can't imagine the stress of facing a cancer ward every day.

What do you do for yourself, to keep some balance in your life when you're constantly faced with so many people in so much need? Does it make it more frightening for you when there's a personal threat of cancer in your family?

Honey, I'll handle the weather situation for you. I'm on my way down to the Dominican Republic tomorrow (for a business trip that was postponed two weeks ago for Hurricane Charlie.). I'll have a talk with Hurricane Francis while I'm there; you just take care of yourself and Mrs. Seacat.

:rose:

Dealing with the cancer ward every day isn't too bad. It would amaze most people just how upbeat most of these people and their families are. Does it make it more frightening when there is the possibility of Cancer cropping up in my family? Yes it does. Not onlydo I get to see the miracles and cures, Ialso have to deal with those wh just don't pull through for some reason. After watching that then thinking my wife may have cancer it goes straight through me.

As for the weather, well they still don't know where Francis is going, but I don't worry too much about it. It's just another piece of stress to deal with but not that big a deal to me.

Cat
 
To all of you

To all of you who have posted here, thank you from me and my wife.

You don't know how much your support means to us. When we know something more, either way, I'll let you know.

Cat
 
Great sigh of relief

We got the results of the Mamogram today. Everything appears normal. Two Cysts, no inclusions. They have scheduled a Sono for my wife because her breasts are so dense, but that's normal. The big thing was the Mamos. Now I can breath again.

It took the threat of bodily violence to get the results, it seems her now ex Doctor while a good one seems to think he doesn't need to share the information with his patients.

(Hmmmm, a touch on anearlier thread about honor and Chivalry. You can play with me, I'll just laugh at you. You play with my family/wife and there are no rules, other than I will find out/get what I need. A little bit of my code of honor there.)

Cat
 
Very happy for you and your wife!!

Nana dance for SeaCat:

:nana: :nana: :nana: :nana: :nana:
 
Great News Cat! I'm thrilled for you and your wife. And, as you so aptly indicated, sometimes there is a very good place for bodily violence, especially with those who like to play God. :D

G_G
 
Im so happy for you SeaCat, right now I sit and wait for my Mom to have an MRI to see if what they 'did' find in her breast is actually cancer or what it is. This is her second bout of the unknown. Last time it took 5 months to start treatments, this time its taken 3 months just to be told they found something they are worried about. Up here they dont do MRI's on a whim.

She got an appointment yesterday for the 17 of September, she gets the results on the 23, a day before her 59th birthday! Bitter sweet.

Since Im the only female child, I will as always take on the caregiver roll as I did the first time with both my Mom and Dad (dad was diagnosed two weeks after Mom with colon cancer the first time). Im just hoping IF this is cancer this time it isnt wide spread, not in the 'nodes and the treatments start as close to the end of October when Im done work for the season. Selfish, I guess a little, I need the money to help hubby with the bills, and dont want to leave my boss hanging.

One prayer after another thinking its only cysts, or clogged ducts helps alot.

SeaCat, I feel your pain, and can relate somewhat to what you are going through. If you need a shoulder you know where to find me!
Cealy
 
Cat,

I'm happy for the both of you.

I had the same suspense in March and it keeps you dangling on the ends of your nerves.

Hug your love.

;)
 
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