It doesn't thrill me

[Nimbikarana]

Is it unusual for a guy to be completely bored and unamused by porn?

 

[Eilan]

I don't know if your views are unusual or not, but I think that they're kind of refreshing.

Porn can be fun to watch, but it's not always the most accurate portrayal of average people having sex. Yeah, part of it's about the fantasy, but some people forget that porn sex isn't "real" sex. Last time I looked in the mirror, I wasn't a big-boobed fantasy women who cums through facials and sucks a cock after it's been in my ass. Similarly, most guys aren't studs with huge dicks who can cum buckets.

For what it's worth, I don't like having sex with someone who's watched a lot of porn. I'm not a blow-up doll, and I like to feel that I'm more than just a cum dumpster.

 

[phoenix1224]

It all depends.

Have you always felt this way?

Or have you just recently lost interest in it?

If it's the latter, it could be because you've become desensitised to it... Kind of like people who watch a lot of violence on TV or in movies.

 

[CURIOUS1026]

I can see how it would happen. In my case, it was becoming bored with the stories on Lit. When I first started reading them, they were a big turn on, but I guess I went a little overboard and read too many in a short period of time. After a while it became ho-hum and was just like reading a boring instruction manuel (LOL). Also, trying to find a WELL written story with no spelling and grammatical errors (one of my biggest pet peeves) got old real quick.

 

[EJFan]

Also, trying to find a WELL written story with no spelling and grammatical errors (one of my biggest pet peeves) got old real quick.

i feel ya curious... grammar is one of my pet peeves as well.

nimbi, i think it's ok to not be interested in porn... just like people are interested in sports or not. the only issue is, are you interested in SEX??? it's fine either way, but if you're not interested in sex, you may consider running for pope. there's an opening ya know.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Isn't that unusual. Some people just are not wired that way, others are more into doing than watching etc. I have always liked porn, but the Domly One has never been that interested in it unless we watch it together...... isn't a reflection on his libido though as it is as huge as mine and he has a nasty mind.

Catalina

 

[Nimbikarana]

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reposting to GB for some more traffic.

 

[Guest]

Is it unusual for a guy to be completely bored and unamused by porn?

Nope. Not everyone can get off on it. Don't think you're abnormal.

 

[silverwhisper]

actually, i think it is a little unusual, frankly. but i think the more pressing question here is whether its being unusual is a bad thing, b/c frankly, i think it's a good thing.

ed

 

[collegeguy2050]

eh some like it and some dont...