Is this emotional pressure?

[smoothg103rd]

Say you were trying to talk a man or woman into a threesome. And you say "If you really like me, you will do this to show me how much you like me". Are you pressuring her? Or are you trying to convince her? Are you scum for trying to persuade someone? If so who deserves more of the blame? You for talking them into it? Or them for allowing you to when they have their own choice?

Be honest.

 

[Aella_]

So you want a threesome where the other guy has sex with you
while your gf. watches or waits for her turn?

 

[butters]

Say you were trying to talk a man or woman into a threesome. And you say "If you really like me, you will do this to show me how much you like me". Are you pressuring her? Or are you trying to convince her? Are you scum for trying to persuade someone? If so who deserves more of the blame? You for talking them into it? Or them for allowing you to when they have their own choice?

Be honest.

of course it's pressuring!

you can try talking someone into something by suggesting how much fun they might find it or shitlike that, but to start anything with ''if you really liked me you'd do this to prove it'' (not your exact words but the exact meaning) is emotional blackmail. simple as that. and ugly, man!

 

[smoothg103rd]

So you want a threesome where the other guy has sex with you
while your gf. watches or waits for her turn?

Fuck I look like?

 

[Vetteman]

Fuck I look like?

We don't know you never post a pic.

 

[Aella_]

Fuck I look like?

Anything But that.
I just couldn't resist, you left the window right open, with that question.

 

[smoothg103rd]

of course it's pressuring!

you can try talking someone into something by suggesting how much fun they might find it or shitlike that, but to start anything with ''if you really liked me you'd do this to prove it'' (not your exact words but the exact meaning) is emotional blackmail. simple as that. and ugly, man!

Pressuring is saying something like "do this or else.... do this or I'm leaving you" Me simply asking you to show me how much you like me isn't pressuring. I'm not saying if you don't do this, it means you doesn't like me. She still has a choice in the matter. And she can simply say no without any affect on our current relationship.

 

[smoothg103rd]

We don't know you never post a pic.

I did.

 

[Misshotndeep]

Say you were trying to talk a man or woman into a threesome. And you say "If you really like me, you will do this to show me how much you like me". Are you pressuring her? Or are you trying to convince her? Are you scum for trying to persuade someone? If so who deserves more of the blame? You for talking them into it? Or them for allowing you to when they have their own choice?

Be honest.

Honestly that is being a dick. If you care for someone then you should never use their feeling to talk them into or pressure them into doing anything. If they do it, then you are both at fault. I think the person using the affection more than the person pressured into it. Who the hell says "if you like me then" past 15 anymore. Seriously childish behavior there.

 

[MonaLittle]

If any guy ever said to me... "If you loved me, you'd do ...." I'd tell him to take a hike.

What a bunch of bullshit.

 

[toubab]

This is a dangerous subject to broach, with someone you really care about, or for them to broach it with you. From what you say, you don't really care about anyone, so seems it shouldn't be a big deal to you.

 

[pete]

of course it's pressure, not to mention cruel

put it another way: your kid says to you "dad if you love me you'll buy me this xbox"

fail

 

[Hypoxia]

Honestly that is being a dick. If you care for someone then you should never use their feeling to talk them into or pressure them into doing anything. If they do it, then you are both at fault. I think the person using the affection more than the person pressured into it. Who the hell says "if you like me then" past 15 anymore. Seriously childish behavior there.

Indeed. If <personal feelings> then <do something> is pressure. Turn it around. OP's SO says, "If you love me, you'll watch me fuck Studly, and he can do your anus, too. Oh, he's really big into A2M." How does that sound?

 

[IrezumiKiss]

If any guy ever said to me... "If you loved me, you'd do ...." I'd tell him to take a hike.

What a bunch of bullshit.

http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1xyppwBTN1r5cg2h.gif

 

[MonaLittle]

Wow!! It's like I won a grand prize on some game show. !!!!!!!!!

 

[smoothg103rd]

Honestly that is being a dick. If you care for someone then you should never use their feeling to talk them into or pressure them into doing anything. If they do it, then you are both at fault. I think the person using the affection more than the person pressured into it. Who the hell says "if you like me then" past 15 anymore. Seriously childish behavior there.

In my defense, I stated in the thread that it use to be my favorite line. I also stated that I was young and I'm still am young. Brah asked how can he get a threesome and speak on the experience. Brooke started going crazy saying I'm scum and so on and so on. I said the bitch should have enough respect for herself to not allow it to happen. Then she started saying that I am victim blaming. Like how?

And I also don't see it as emotional pressure. Majority of the women that I dealt with already knew what is was when they dealt with me. So I should get criticized for doing what they already knew would be done? That's bullshit.

 

[jezzilee]

We don't know you never post a pic.

Actually, he has.

If any guy ever said to me... "If you loved me, you'd do ...." I'd tell him to take a hike.

What a bunch of bullshit.

Agreed. He also may have to have some plastic surgery after they remove a certain appendage from his ass to have something reattached.

Say you were trying to talk a man or woman into a threesome. And you say "If you really like me, you will do this to show me how much you like me". Are you pressuring her? Or are you trying to convince her? Are you scum for trying to persuade someone? If so who deserves more of the blame? You for talking them into it? Or them for allowing you to when they have their own choice?

Be honest.

Why are you asking questions that you already know the answer to? Let's try this. Say you asked your partner to have a threesome...and she says YES I know this guy that would love to have sex with us. What would your reaction be?

This is a dangerous subject to broach, with someone you really care about, or for them to broach it with you. From what you say, you don't really care about anyone, so seems it shouldn't be a big deal to you.

Hiya toubab darlin' how are you?

 

[IrezumiKiss]

Wow!! It's like I won a grand prize on some game show. !!!!!!!!!

If you're really my friend, you'll share that grand prize with me.

 

[MonaLittle]

If you're really my friend, you'll share that grand prize with me.

Go take a hike. That's bullshit.

 

[smoothg103rd]

This is a dangerous subject to broach, with someone you really care about, or for them to broach it with you. From what you say, you don't really care about anyone, so seems it shouldn't be a big deal to you.

Understandable. If I were somebody I cared about, it would've never been done. I speaking about a occasional fuck and duck. I'm not pressuring her into doing anything she doesn't want to do.

 

[smoothg103rd]

Actually, he has.



Agreed. He also may have to have some plastic surgery after they remove a certain appendage from his ass to have something reattached.



Why are you asking questions that you already know the answer to? Let's try this. Say you asked your partner to have a threesome...and she says YES I know this guy that would love to have sex with us. What would your reaction be?



Hiya toubab darlin' how are you?

Honestly? I'll tell her to get out. For even disrespecting me like that.

 

[Misshotndeep]

To quote a earlier post. FAIL! Any one who uses the word like or love followed by "then you have to" is a horrible person. Period. Not gonna sugar coat it. It is an asshole move and a pressure situation. If a man cares for his woman then he should not ever put her in a position where she has to prove her feelings. You sure have done some really fucked up things. SMH I am not religious and you make me want to pray for you. SMH

 

[jezzilee]

Honestly? I'll tell her to get out. For even disrespecting me like that.

But it is not disrespectful for you to ask her for one?

 

[smoothg103rd]

of course it's pressure, not to mention cruel

put it another way: your kid says to you "dad if you love me you'll buy me this xbox"

fail

I would buy it. Because I would know how much the game mean to him and I will WANT to make him happy.

He didn't pressure me into it tho. Because I can simply say no. And what the fuck is he gonna do? Nothing. So it isn't no pressure.

 

[RealDonaldTrump]

This is just poor negotiating. The trick is to make her think the threesome was her idea.