Is this considered BDSM?

[M's girl]

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[graceanne]

It's not necessarily bdsm but it is fetish. Some bdsmers have a foot fetish, but it's not bdsm. To help bdsm stands for bondage/discipline, dominant/submissive, sadism/masochism.

 

[catalina_francisco]

In my vanilla days I gave a few foot jobs, though they were not painful but did achieve ejaculation. Can be fun and from what I gathered, the ones I did it with had never even had it offered before. I didn't think of it as a fetish as it was just another way of being creative for moi.

Catalina

 

[the captians wench]

In my vanilla days I gave a few foot jobs, though they were not painful but did achieve ejaculation. Can be fun and from what I gathered, the ones I did it with had never even had it offered before. I didn't think of it as a fetish as it was just another way of being creative for moi.

Catalina

Yup I used to do this too with my ex. Infact, you've seen some of those movies where the woman takes her foot and starts playing with he date under the table, yes? Did that too. Luckily he was very good at hiding his um...pleasure. *giggles*

 

[Chicklet]

not bdsm

but you know a book that i read that had a lot of info about foot play? THE JOY OF LESBIAN SEX!

i know it wouldn't really help with handling a man, but it was still interesting to read about some of the positions and ideas about playing with your partner with your foot.

 

[graceanne]

I found this in the library for you:

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=97028

 

[leeroy jenkins]

You could use it for orgasm denial. You know if he has been bad or you just say he is. Then for a reward you would let him have his release. That could fall into the bdsm foot play right??

 

[graceanne]

You could use it for orgasm denial. You know if he has been bad or you just say he is. Then for a reward you would let him have his release. That could fall into the bdsm foot play right??

It can, and is, used in bdsm, but in and of itself it's not bdsm.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Yup I used to do this too with my ex. Infact, you've seen some of those movies where the woman takes her foot and starts playing with he date under the table, yes? Did that too. Luckily he was very good at hiding his um...pleasure. *giggles*

LOL, one can be very creative if they want....I have had foot, between the arse cheeks, thighs, underarm, and between the breasts sex all to ejaculation for the guy.

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

I cannot remember seeing anything in How To, so if anyone can steer us in the right direction, that would be helpful. Thank you!

Looking at the pics, I am not sure any, but possibly the 2nd one, would work on their own for bringing about ejaculation, though I guess it might depend on how easy the guy comes and what lead up there has been. I have done it both with and without lube, and both ways worked well. What seemed to work best was placing the cock between the feet, usually in the arch if you have strong muscles there. I am lucky with having a dance history I was able to use the muscles in my feet and enough pressure to get the job done without holding and pressing the feet together with my hands, but some people need to do that to create enough stimulation. You can also place the cock between the inner sides of the feet and for most that will be easier to create the pressure needed. It shouldn't be painful, unless you particularly want it to be and then you might still be pushed to make it do. It is highly erotic and I enjoyed giving it almost as much as the recipients enjoyed getting it. Have fun experimenting.

Catalina

 

[the captians wench]

LOL, one can be very creative if they want....I have had foot, between the arse cheeks, thighs, underarm, and between the breasts sex all to ejaculation for the guy.

Catalina

Okay, you're one up on the underarm,*giggles* but I've enjoyed the others.

But then I still have lots to learn and experience.

 

[M's girl]

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[graceanne]

Thanks everyone for replying! And thanks Graceanne for the link, had not seen that one. Catalina dank je voor het delen van de ervaring (thanks for sharing your experience) and I do hope to read some more!

M's

Your welcome. Good luck with finding more information.

 

[Yasashii_Kaze]

Yup I used to do this too with my ex. Infact, you've seen some of those movies where the woman takes her foot and starts playing with he date under the table, yes? Did that too. Luckily he was very good at hiding his um...pleasure. *giggles*

I remember being in a rather small library once with a guy that I didn't know very well, but I knew liked me. We had decided to study together and were reading when I felt his shoe-less foot sliding up my skirt. I decided to return the favor. We were half giggling, half moaning, and the whole time trying to stay quiet so the librarian couldn't hear us.

 

[mslv4Her]

I remember being in a rather small library once with a guy that I didn't know very well, but I knew liked me. We had decided to study together and were reading when I felt his shoe-less foot sliding up my skirt. I decided to return the favor. We were half giggling, half moaning, and the whole time trying to stay quiet so the librarian couldn't hear us.

Now that's my kind of study buddy!

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Feet are not My thing... which is a good thing, since My baby has a foot phobia...

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Feet are not My thing... which is a good thing, since My baby has a foot phobia...

i was not going to post in this thread for that very reason...lol...but ewww..feet are nasty to me, i do not want feet touching me, nor do i want to touch anyone with my feet. though, i did surprise myself and Master when He was here, by obeying an order to kiss His foot while i was in a 'bowed' position....i was proud of myself, i feared if He asked me to do it, i would gross out and freak, but i didn't....He told me to kneel, i knelt, He told me bow, i did....He then said kiss the top of my foot, and i did! i guess you just have to understand how bad my phobia is to understand why that made me and Him both so proud. i also gave Him a foot rub...those are BIG steps for me.....anyway...enough of that,as this is not what this thread is about

 

[M's girl]

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[MasterPhoenix]

ahhhh... getting a foot rub IS My thing...

I am on My feet all day at work, and a rub at the end of the day is something wonderful.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

ahhhh... getting a foot rub IS My thing...

I am on My feet all day at work, and a rub at the end of the day is something wonderful.

blech! this is when i get thoughts of being 'ok' with a second...*grins* just kidding really, somehow, i had no signs of my phobia when You were here , except maybe when You'd touch me with Your foot in Your sleep. *shrugs*

 

[MasterPhoenix]

blech! this is when i get thoughts of being 'ok' with a second...*grins* just kidding really, somehow, i had no signs of my phobia when You were here , except maybe when You'd touch me with Your foot in Your sleep. *shrugs*

Mayeb becuase you were pleasing your Master, and it overrode your phobia

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Mayeb becuase you were pleasing your Master, and it overrode your phobia

*nods* i'm guessing that's exactly what it was..and now i'm done hijacking the thread..sorry M'sgirl for derailing your thread with our back and forth banter

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Feet are not especially my thing either, but I'm not phobic or something. And I do like a good footrub and give 'm in return, but M does not care for that too much.

We talked about this some more last night after (also) reading your replies to define what it is he is thinking about exactly. It's not so much a footjob as he wants me to rub his balls with one foot. We know that when his balls are stimulated he produces more pre-cum than otherwise and we both like that. We will have to see if this kind of stimulation (alone) will bring him to completion and realise that it takes the right mind-set also.

We have been experimenting with ball spanking (which he loves) and he's gone absolutely wild over that, but I always had to finish him off ( ) with a handjob or blowjob. I have put my (one) foot in his crotch, sort of pushing and trampling (a bit) his balls while in 69 position and he liked that so much he wants to explore this further. I'm game, and so now we wonder if other people do this too, if it has a name and if anyone has been able to orgasm that way without extra stimulation.

I am sure that there are people who can and do orgasm from that type of stimulation, although I have never tried it.