is there something wrong with me????

[nicthesook]

hi i am a 24year old aussie chick. i have been in a same sex relationship for the past 6 years.
i love my partner to bits. she is my world. sex is great and i know she loves me.

i will never leave her, but i have been getting turned on by dicks lately. i don't get turned on by the whole guy, just their dick.

i was with guys in the past and i only reached climax a few times. i am sexually drawn to women.
i just can't shake this dick thing. i don't really want to sleep with a guy. my partner and i do use a strap on.

i have spoken to my partner about this and she has suggested we watch gay porn which turned us both on.
i just don't know what to do.

 

[Girl2P4U]

as a bi woman i enjoy watching gay porn, nothing wrong with wanting to see a dick every now and then. do you have any gay male friends that you can reach out to?

 

[Shywong]

No there's nothing wrong with you. People from all walks of life are attracted to cock, gay, straight, lesbian or bisexual. Find yourself a shemale and have a nice threesome. Chicks with dicks are the best option for anyone craving penis in the abstract.

 

[nicthesook]

as a bi woman i enjoy watching gay porn, nothing wrong with wanting to see a dick every now and then. do you have any gay male friends that you can reach out to?

i don't really have any gay male friends. i do have one who lives far away from where i am. he sends pictures to us. i guess it is a bit better because my partner understands and is prepared to watch thing with me. i could never imagine sleeping with a guy but watching seems nice to me.

shemales amaze me. i can't believe how turned on my partner and i get by looking at them.

 

[RawHumor]

i don't really have any gay male friends. i do have one who lives far away from where i am. he sends pictures to us. i guess it is a bit better because my partner understands and is prepared to watch thing with me. i could never imagine sleeping with a guy but watching seems nice to me.

shemales amaze me. i can't believe how turned on my partner and i get by looking at them.

I'm a hetero guy, but I've always been told that, psychologically, there's very little connection between a toy and a real cock.

Also, there's often a disconnect between wanting a cock and wanting the guy it's attached to.

I'd say a shemale may be one way to go for you... if it could be done safely, what about the idea of a glory hole? And no, before you ask, I have no idea how/if that could be done safely - just interested in your opinion of the topic/fantasy.

 

[Etoile]

I was part of a study about lesbians who enjoy gay male porn. I don't think it was ever published, or I'd share it.

It's not uncommon at all. I may like watching hard cocks, but that doesn't mean I want to fuck a guy. I'd probably consider sex with a pre-op transwoman (shemale is a porn term), but I wouldn't fuck a guy.

When we use strap-ons, it's not about simulating sex with a penis. Strap-ons are another way for two girls to have sex. They can be objectified as a penis - I've done some silicone cock-sucking, and you better not use teeth! - but they're still just a way for me to interact with a partner.

Come to think of it, you didn't say if you're lesbian or bisexual. It may very well be that you have bisexual tendencies but you prefer women. Or you could just be a lesbian who likes dick. It's okay to be yourself; labels are helpful to identify us to others, but they don't have to identify us to ourselves...inside we're complex, and it's okay to be.

 

[Safe_Bet]

I was part of a study about lesbians who enjoy gay male porn. I don't think it was ever published, or I'd share it.

It's not uncommon at all. I may like watching hard cocks, but that doesn't mean I want to fuck a guy. I'd probably consider sex with a pre-op transwoman (shemale is a porn term), but I wouldn't fuck a guy.

When we use strap-ons, it's not about simulating sex with a penis. Strap-ons are another way for two girls to have sex. They can be objectified as a penis - I've done some silicone cock-sucking, and you better not use teeth! - but they're still just a way for me to interact with a partner.

Come to think of it, you didn't say if you're lesbian or bisexual. It may very well be that you have bisexual tendencies but you prefer women. Or you could just be a lesbian who likes dick. It's okay to be yourself; labels are helpful to identify us to others, but they don't have to identify us to ourselves...inside we're complex, and it's okay to be.

Indeed. VERY well said!

 

[Programmer Cat]

nicthecook, this might not help, but I think that sexuality is fluid. I had grown up thinking I was entirely straight, until I impulsively started playing with the other guy in a MFM scene that my wife and I had made.

Don't worry about this new craving for cocks, and don't try to shoehorn your sexuality into a neat little category.

 

[originalmegamut]

What comes across to me from what you wrote is that you're learning a new 'kink'. I'm a married straight male (and in love with my wife - as much as it sounds like you and your partner are) over in the U.S. At times I get off on cocks (and other things that aren't supposed to be usual for a straight male). My wife is supportive and we utilize these things to enhance our relationship. I in turn am willing to do the same for her.

We used to 'swing' with others years ago (threesomes and moresomes, she bi, me bi, etc....), but have been monogomous for a number of years (by accident mostly I believe - the group drifted apart over time...). We found that as long as we are honest with each other, don't do anything we're not both ready to do, we get through these changes that come up (and many have over the years).

It sounds like you're starting with good communications with your partner - so I think you're off to a great start. Keep that going with your partner and any new 'kinks' that either of you find won't cause problems.

Don't be afraid of new 'kinks' that you come across. It's natural for tastes to shift back and forth over time. Explore (safely) as you and your partner are comfortable with. if it turns out to a passing fancy, then so be it. If over time, cocks turn out to be something you want to try a real one with, face that with your partner if and when you reach that point.

Take care and make sure you and your partner stay close.

hi i am a 24year old aussie chick. i have been in a same sex relationship for the past 6 years.
i love my partner to bits. she is my world. sex is great and i know she loves me.

i will never leave her, but i have been getting turned on by dicks lately. i don't get turned on by the whole guy, just their dick.

i was with guys in the past and i only reached climax a few times. i am sexually drawn to women.
i just can't shake this dick thing. i don't really want to sleep with a guy. my partner and i do use a strap on.

i have spoken to my partner about this and she has suggested we watch gay porn which turned us both on.
i just don't know what to do.