Is there a point where the one you love?

[Guest]

Is there a point where the one you love is just annoying, becuase s/he has gone away?

 

[Rhys]

define gone away....

 

[Liontamr]

You mean annoying in that he / she is always gone? I suppose that could get annoying, But speaking for myself it's never happened.. In fact there was a time with a past love where she got to be so annoying I was wanting her to go away.

 

[Laurel]

Is there a point where the one you love is just annoying, becuase s/he has gone away?

Yes. Happened with an ex. Absence does not always make the heart grow fonder.

 

[Svedish_Chef]

define gone away....

Rhys.

 

[red_rose]

Yes. Happened with an ex. Absence does not always make the heart grow fonder.

Absence makes the heart grow fodder.

 

[StrawberryPez]

With what is going on in my life right now...i can say that i don't believe that absense makes the heart grow fonder. I don't miss my ex at all.

 

[mistressastra]

Gone as in gone?

Gone as in there but not there? I was married 6 months before mine left me, even though he was there physically. I told him to leave me and do what he wanted but he wouldn't go. Now that he is gone, it's much better.

 

[Sillyman]

For those times you are alone, and without the hugs and kisses and special words, and are left with pulling Heinikein bottles and soiled underwear out of the couch...sometimes absence can be annoying.

 

[Rhys]

Rhys.

smart ass

 

[InnocentAngel81]

Is there a point where the one you love is just annoying, becuase s/he has gone away?

it sometimes feels like your not as important as you were led to believe

 

[Guest]

Re: Re: Is there a point where the one you love?

it sometimes feels like your not as important as you were led to believe

My sentiments exactly, InnocentAngel. Sometimes people tend to forget that the ones they claim to care deeply for read posts they have written. They claim to be sensitive and caring - that is mostly lip service, really. What they write can be so hurtful that it breaks your heart and makes you wish you had never met this person.

If they were truly how they claimed to be, they would know how the other person is feeling and would understand just how hurtful they are.

That's when you realize you weren't as special as you were led to believe - you were not important, either. That's when you realize it's time to get away before they hurt you anymore.

 

[LukkyKnight]

Re: Re: Re: Is there a point where the one you love?

clarified by Unregistered

...when you realize it's time to get away before they hurt you anymore.

Ohhh, that does make it easier to understand what you're asking.

Yes. Stronger relationships may prosper despite of separation, but I've had one founder in spite of best intentions almost entirely based on too little time in each other's company.

It was a sad time, and a loss I still regret.

 

[nasty]

I already fel that way. My boyfriend talks WAY too much about boring things, but, I don't know how to tell him. That, and, when we do things, it's only blowjobs. He said he doesn't do booty, because, it hurts. But, damn it, I'll be the judge of that.

 

[the_PM_Stalker]

I'm a-walkin thru the walls, just a shakin' my balls

Goona gitcha!