Is there a magic button to make men orgasm?

[swallowedme]

Hello Everyone! My lover and I have a pretty amazing sex life but... I get off much easier than he does. He has stamina and can go for A VERY LONG TIME ( I think he enjoys exhausting me lol) and by the time I'm just plain tuckered out... He has yet to come. *Sigh... *He says that rather then externalizing his sexual energy he redirects or internalizes it which feels great for him and helps him to sustain but is tricky to get out of that mind set. We laughingly thought , "wouldn't it be great if there was just one thing that was like a magic button to make sure he got off (BANG!) in an instant?" And it would also be great for when time is short and we have places to be... Any way-

What are your favorite tricks and tips to make a man orgasm in an instant?

 

[SilkyDave]

if he's willing

not all guys will be into it but if he is try massaging his prostate either with your finger or a vibrator...

 

[WCHSP]

Some people use the prostate for that.

The way you word your post suggests that some kind of hypnosis would probably work. Like, since he's basically guided into a trance state... you don't need a command to make him come, you need a command to break the trance.

 

[PlayfulBf]

button possibility

If you guys enjoy oral, try and put pressure with either your tongue or finger right below the head of his penis and massage it. The spot(for me) is right where the shaft meets the head of the penis (right below the urethra opening). Omg does this feel amazing when my girlfriend spends some time on it. If he is anywhere near cumming, that will do the trip and make it more pleasurable Try it out, couldn't hurt.

 

[littlebitshe]

Hmmm... Something I've recently discovered that my SO really enjoys is while I'm giving him oral, he LOVES for me to lick right below his balls. Some call this area the "taint". Anyways, I just pull up his balls and lick there and it drives him NUTS... pun intended

 

[PlayfulBf]

mmm

Mmm yeah that does work pretty well, forgot about that one ;p If you guys are into rough play, grab him by the penis and push all the way back into him(kinda like jerking off hand position). This makes the skin around the penis stretch back and puts alot of pressure on the tip of the penis. The pressure this puts on the head of the penis is soo intense that any oral stimulation is absolutely incredible.

 

[Mansa Musa]

Tie him down and suck him until he comes.

 

[swallowedme]

LMAO- I love the idea of tying him up! HeeeHeee the picture in my head...! He is 5'9 and 230lbs and I am a 5'ft 90lb weakling-
I will be trying out all the suggestions I heard here though I may not be able to giggle and tie my knots!
Thanks!

 

[Gil_T2]

I hope this can work for you.

Strength isn't needed to tie him up, suggest while playing wit his cock that you'd like to blindfold & tie him spread eagle to the bed & explore his body, use your hands, breasts, breath, tongue, ice then work his cock the same way adding oral & girl on top telling him how his cock feels inside you, what you want to do to him, what you want him to do, alternate riding & sucking.

 

[NakedMale]

I have tried massaging my prostrate, I managed to get quite a lot of pre0cum to flow but that was it. First time ok but I'm sure it gets better with practice

 

[ecstaticsub]

I know with my husband all I need to do is start talking dirty or telling him in detail of a favorite fantasy of his. Instant orgasm for him.

 

[littlebitshe]

I know with my husband all I need to do is start talking dirty or telling him in detail of a favorite fantasy of his. Instant orgasm for him.

Yep, this does it too!

 

[wildehafer]

Circle his scrotum with your index finger and thumb so his balls are basically against your palm and then pull down gently. You can also gently squeeze the testicles for added stimulation.

Then hold the base of his shaft tight and fuck your mouth on his knob, going as deep as you are comfortable with. As an alternate to the face fucking, stroke his shaft and apply pressure to the region just below the head on each stroke and tongue below his knob where it meets the shaft.

Practise with the amount of "testicle stretching" pressure you can apply comfortably. Guaranteed to have a big orgasm as the balls try and pull up while you're holding them down!