Is spontaneous bareback better than planned?

[kreemi_pi]

I've enjoyed going bare both spontaneously and when it's planned.

I love the anticipation when I know "tonight's the night" and we've communicated and agreed and we're ready. This is usually how it happens for me. That "first time" feeling us just exquisite.

On the other hand...the thrill of being with a hot, aggressive guy and losing control and letting it happen...the risk, the danger, it's wildly intoxicating and addictive. I've only done it this way a few times, but those times rank among my most memorable experiences.

What do you think?

 

[KimberlyG]

I've enjoyed going bare both spontaneously and when it's planned.

I love the anticipation when I know "tonight's the night" and we've communicated and agreed and we're ready. This is usually how it happens for me. That "first time" feeling us just exquisite.

On the other hand...the thrill of being with a hot, aggressive guy and losing control and letting it happen...the risk, the danger, it's wildly intoxicating and addictive. I've only done it this way a few times, but those times rank among my most memorable experiences.

What do you think?

For me, nothing beat spontaneous experiences. The raw passion and excitement and heat of the moment experiences.
There are no expectations, just a magical moment in time.

 

[womaneater58]

Spontaneous is always best.

 

[UtilityCurve]

I've enjoyed going bare both spontaneously and when it's planned.

I love the anticipation when I know "tonight's the night" and we've communicated and agreed and we're ready. This is usually how it happens for me. That "first time" feeling us just exquisite.

On the other hand...the thrill of being with a hot, aggressive guy and losing control and letting it happen...the risk, the danger, it's wildly intoxicating and addictive. I've only done it this way a few times, but those times rank among my most memorable experiences.

What do you think?

As a man, I'm certain it's given more thought and fantasy than men give it.

And that's really sexy to know that she's contemplating my orgasm long before I have it.

Hit-and-run is a fine reverie, but IRL, but unless she's a sex worker (where it's kinda an occupational hazard), I find hit (repeatedly)-and-stay to be sexier. A guy's gotta man up every way. And TBH, I think (hope?) women find that hot.

There are a handful of risky/unprotected sex threads here. I love 'em and I recommend them to you highly.

 

[BillyWalrus]

Hit-and-run is a fine reverie, but IRL, but unless she's a sex worker (where it's kinda an occupational hazard), I find hit (repeatedly)-and-stay to be sexier.

The voice of reason. Seldom heard on Lit.

 

[kreemi_pi]

As a man, I'm certain it's given more thought and fantasy than men give it.

And that's really sexy to know that she's contemplating my orgasm long before I have it.

Hit-and-run is a fine reverie, but IRL, but unless she's a sex worker (where it's kinda an occupational hazard), I find hit (repeatedly)-and-stay to be sexier. A guy's gotta man up every way. And TBH, I think (hope?) women find that hot.

There are a handful of risky/unprotected sex threads here. I love 'em and I recommend them to you highly.

I hear you. I didn't really mean "spontaneous" had to mean a one-night stand, and one of my spontaneous adventures turned into a relationship of a few months. Another was with a guy I was already dating, but our first time raw was not something we had talked about, I just let it happen.

 

[kreemi_pi]

Also there have been a couple times I decided in advance I would let him, but didn't tell him in advance because I wanted to surprise him.

 

[KimberlyG]

Spontaneous doesn't necessarily mean it's a stranger.
I have had spontaneous, things went farther than expected, with guys that I knew.

 

[Cate_Archer]

With one of my FWBs, we started fucking with condoms. I told him that if he got tested for STIs and he was clean, he could fuck me bare. So got the test and got a clean bill of health. It took a while for us to meet up again after that. When we finally did, he went through the usual routine and started putting on a condom. I pointed out he did not need to do that, but he decided that since he had already opened the wrapper, he would put it on. He first took me doggy and then we switched to me on top. Just after lowering myself down on him, I got a naughty idea and I asked him if he thought he would last long. He told me not to worry, he could pace himself. I told him I doubted that and lifted myself off him. Then, as he watched, I pulled the condom off and lowered myself back down. I watched his face as he entered me bare for the first time. I think I managed to move just once or twice when he started cumming.

 

[Jerry1288]

There’s a case to be made spontaneous sex that isn’t protected. I’ve been there when it happens quickly and with reckless abandon. There’s something highly erotic when you feel her hands grip you by the ass telling you where to cum in that moment as well.

 

[Jerry1288]

With one of my FWBs, we started fucking with condoms. I told him that if he got tested for STIs and he was clean, he could fuck me bare. So got the test and got a clean bill of health. It took a while for us to meet up again after that. When we finally did, he went through the usual routine and started putting on a condom. I pointed out he did not need to do that, but he decided that since he had already opened the wrapper, he would put it on. He first took me doggy and then we switched to me on top. Just after lowering myself down on him, I got a naughty idea and I asked him if he thought he would last long. He told me not to worry, he could pace himself. I told him I doubted that and lifted myself off him. Then, as he watched, I pulled the condom off and lowered myself back down. I watched his face as he entered me bare for the first time. I think I managed to move just once or twice when he started cumming.

I would’ve done the same thing. Came that immediate.

 

[Jerry1288]

With one of my FWBs, we started fucking with condoms. I told him that if he got tested for STIs and he was clean, he could fuck me bare. So got the test and got a clean bill of health. It took a while for us to meet up again after that. When we finally did, he went through the usual routine and started putting on a condom. I pointed out he did not need to do that, but he decided that since he had already opened the wrapper, he would put it on. He first took me doggy and then we switched to me on top. Just after lowering myself down on him, I got a naughty idea and I asked him if he thought he would last long. He told me not to worry, he could pace himself. I told him I doubted that and lifted myself off him. Then, as he watched, I pulled the condom off and lowered myself back down. I watched his face as he entered me bare for the first time. I think I managed to move just once or twice when he started cumming.

There’s nothing quite like have my the condom on and seeing her lift off and peel the condom off. Makes my heart beat faster every time.

 

[kreemi_pi]

There’s a case to be made spontaneous sex that isn’t protected. I’ve been there when it happens quickly and with reckless abandon. There’s something highly erotic when you feel her hands grip you by the ass telling you where to cum in that moment as well.

I feel like guys get wilder and rougher when it's bare, and I get more aroused too. It just feels more primitive and primal. It feels very natural but at the same time it's taboo and forbidden.

Yes, guys often cum faster, but so do I. Faster and more times. Plus, a guy will almost always be "up" for a second round, or even more.

One time I let a guy have me bare on a Friday night, and then a second time thst night. He woke me and took me later in the dark, and again before breakfast. We spent the rest of the weekend fucking on and off until he left late Sunday afternoon. It was glorious.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

Lots of long responses. Lets make it simple. Everything is better spontaneously

 

[UtilityCurve]

I feel like guys get wilder and rougher when it's bare, and I get more aroused too. It just feels more primitive and primal. It feels very natural but at the same time it's taboo and forbidden.

Yes, guys often cum faster, but so do I. Faster and more times. Plus, a guy will almost always be "up" for a second round, or even more.

One time I let a guy have me bare on a Friday night, and then a second time thst night. He woke me and took me later in the dark, and again before breakfast. We spent the rest of the weekend fucking on and off until he left late Sunday afternoon. It was glorious.

"Taboo and forbidden." How far we have traveled (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_condoms). Give it up for big brains: it seems our ancestors figured out a long time ago what was causing pregnancies but it was only relatively recently we got good at contraception.

So, while your counterpart 200 years ago also faced fundamentally the same dilemma (or risks), it seems like it was different: DEFINITELY not "taboo" or "forbidden."

You can understand our different behavior as a response to what is a unique sensation (one honed by evolution to be The Best). TBH, we really ARE enjoying it and exploring you more. And yeah, it shortens playtime, but I have read little but the highest praise for the feeling of being inseminated and in particular, the feeling of semen that remains after we withdraw. Again, evolution hard at work, right?

Personally, I have never asked the question. I've trusted my partners (some were one-offs but they had been friends previously ... and after) to do right by me. If she was willing to throw caution to the winds for the ultimate sensation and result, I was right there with her.

Yes, it was a charmed life in that regard. No bunny-boilers or women out of their minds with baby fever.

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

For me, nothing beat spontaneous experiences. The raw passion and excitement and heat of the moment experiences.
There are no expectations, just a magical moment in time.

So true! Nothing beats a spontaneous coupling, especially in the most unexpected places!

 

[Jerry1288]

I feel like guys get wilder and rougher when it's bare, and I get more aroused too. It just feels more primitive and primal. It feels very natural but at the same time it's taboo and forbidden.

Yes, guys often cum faster, but so do I. Faster and more times. Plus, a guy will almost always be "up" for a second round, or even more.

One time I let a guy have me bare on a Friday night, and then a second time thst night. He woke me and took me later in the dark, and again before breakfast. We spent the rest of the weekend fucking on and off until he left late Sunday afternoon. It was glorious.

It’s been a long while since I have had that experience… sigh. I hope yours was recent! I love the smell of the pillows and sheets in the morning. The smell of sweat and sex. Of course the feeling of her when she’s still wet from the last one.