is phonesex cheating?

[Pearljwah]

ive been with my woman for 1 1/2

sex is amazing, shes beautiful, ii love her.

but i love phonesex with andom women...its hot, we all know why we love it so ill spare all the details.


but is it cheating?

 

[BALUS]

ive been with my woman for 1 1/2

sex is amazing, shes beautiful, ii love her.

but i love phonesex with andom women...its hot, we all know why we love it so ill spare all the details.


but is it cheating?

I only think it becomes cheating when the relationship becomes physical contact between the parties.
I havent had phone sex... but have used audio over yahoo... It is very exciting and there is no contact and therefore remains in the realms of a fantasy... which is hardly cheating, is it?

 

[caucajun1]

Yes, your going to..............

burn in the pitt of a firery hell for even looking at this site!!!!, just kiddin.

No, No, No, its not cheating,

Yet if your girlfriend found out would she be upset or hurt by your behavoir, would she be angry about your secrecy?

Above all else "cause no harm", and you are the only one who knows if this will cause problems.

 

[Epithumia]

I do, but only because thats the kind of relationship that my husband and I have....

to us, if you do anything in secret its wrong.
If you're hiding something... its wrong... if you have to lie, its wrong....

everything we do, we do it in the open...
I'm 'allowed' to have sex with others, phone sex, cyber sex... real sex... anal, oral... you name it. but he has to know about it.
and he can do the same thing.

if you're keeping it secret, you could be causing a rift between you and your woman...

but this is just my opinion.

 

[Gutterslut]

well, if i was your girlfriend, i would consider it cheating..
but im different, i guess.

i mean, phonesex is like cybering.. which is pretty much just fantasizing..
so technically, it isnt cheating..
as long as you dont get caught.

<33

 

[sharkbite]

I only think it becomes cheating when the relationship becomes physical contact between the parties.
I havent had phone sex... but have used audio over yahoo... It is very exciting and there is no contact and therefore remains in the realms of a fantasy... which is hardly cheating, is it?

I agree.

 

[SW_Georgia_Male]

Well I think...

It depends on the relationship. There isn't a yes or no. if you two have the kind of relationship that is not threatened by fantasy, and she is not hurt by you doing it then no, but I have found most of the women I have been involved with feel that any kind of sexual contact be it physical or not felt as if it was going outside the relationship. I think the main question is would she be ok with it if she found out you were doing it.

 

[Epithumia]

I think the main question is would she be ok with it if she found out you were doing it.

exactly, if you feel like you cant talk to her about it, and have to cover it up then the obvious answer is yes... its cheating.
(to her at least, and her opinion is the one that should matter most!)

 

[Eilan]

If you're hiding it from her because you don't want her to know about it, it's cheating. If it takes time and energy from your relationship, it's cheating. Would she be hurt if she found out?

But then, it doesn't matter what we think--it DOES matter what your SO thinks.

 

[herry456]

phone sex is good. it is gud for ur sole, dont know abt ur body. there u share each other without any inhibitions and without any touching. IMIGINATION RULES THE WORLD.