Is phone sex cheating?

[lovetoread]

Especially if your partner doesnt know about it?

Tiger is at work,and I im'd him to ask if he thought phone sex was cheating.

He said no.

Blew my mind.

But he said while its not technically cheating,emotions take over and it could all blow up in your face.

So I asked if he meant that I could do it.

He said no.

So I asked, if it is not cheating than why not allow it?

Ahh but he was unable to answer this last question because of a meeting.

So I thought I'd ask ya'll.

If it is not cheating,then why do you (as the other in the relationship) have a hard time thinking about it,or letting it happen?

If it is cheating,why is it?

You are not touching another person.

You are not having an "affair" so to speak.

So can anyone answer this?

 

[brokenbrainwave]

honestly I think it is cheating IF you have to hide your activities.

Say it is Friday night, after 8 pm and you know your cell phone company does not charge for calls between now and 7 am Monday morning. All of the sudden *wink* *wink* you decide you want bagels for breakfast in the morning and make your case to your wife hubby gf bf whatever that you must get them NOW. So in the car you are, calling whomever as you drive to get bagels. On the way there, he/she says they are laying in bed naked extremely hard/wet. Immediately you know what you called for is going to happen. (hell you knew that anyways, but still nice to hear it). You explain to the naked horny person on the other end that you have to get some bagels and are talking to him her as you place your order for a bakers dozen. The naked horny person starts to touch themselves while your placing your order, once again reiterating how hard/wet they are, or are getting. You get distracted and order 18 onion bagels when the little clerk gives you a strange look, as you stammer to change your order. Your "friend" in your pants starts to betray you, you feel yourself getting harder/wetter. Either way you are throbbing against the fly and your partner is continuing to torment you by his/her activities. You grab your bagles, toss the money onto the counter, say fuck the change and run to your car. Fidgeting around trying to unzip your pants as you drive to a more secluded spot, your tomenter continues to plead for you to fuck them, to hammer them, to help them let you hear them cum. So there you are, stroking yourself to orgasm as he/she cums while parked in the lot of a school.....hiding your activities...in this case, yes it would be cheating but damn fun!

 

[lovetoread]

Wow...I gotta start using the cell phone more often.

 

[Gord]

well I can only speak for myself

But everyone has their own relationship " rules"

In my mind talking dirty or " phone sex" is a form of cheating. I know my other half would be upset if I ever did it. I would feel uneasy if she were having intimate conversations with a stranger or someone she knew that tutned her on.

Unless you are both up front and iboth into it then it is a small betrayal of trust and then if phone sex becomed the norm why not do he real thing .

 

[brokenbrainwave]

legal disclaimer: Not that what I posted was a true story

 

[RawHumor]

legal disclaimer: Not that what I posted was a true story

Oh yeah, I took it to be totally hypothetical!

 

[TWB]

Somehow those little holes in the phone were never big enough for it to work, so I guess it is not cheating for me.

My phone is really small, so, I don't even think it would be that great for a woman.

 

[fillmup]

Somehow those little holes in the phone were never big enough for it to work, so I guess it is not cheating for me.

My phone is really small, so, I don't even think it would be that great for a woman.

Looks like not only your phone is small, thats a mighty tiny napkin, there partner!

 

[plasticman33]

Guess it should be classified as maybe safe cheating? Sure can't catch an STD from the phone.

 

[estevie]

If you hide it from your SO, then absolutely.

 

[lovetoread]

If you hide it from your SO, then absolutely.

Thats what I thought.

If we (Tiger and I) have a talk and its decided that it ok to have it,then it wouldnt be cheating.

This is of course my humble opinion...

 

[brokenbrainwave]

If you hide it from your SO, then absolutely.

but is not hiding better than getting caught with your pants around your anlkes in the closet? I mean the look I got from her was...oppss TMI!

 

[estevie]

Re: Re: Is phone sex cheating?

Thats what I thought.

If we (Tiger and I) have a talk and its decided that it ok to have it,then it wouldnt be cheating.

This is of course my humble opinion...

I have phone sex with only one person. For me to have phone sex with someone else...just doesn't feel right. I can't do it. I wouldn't want him to have phone sex with someone else and I'm fairly certain he wouldn't like me to do it. Its just soo...intimate.

I do have to admit, and I have told him this, that I'm curious about others. Just to see what it would be like, yannow? LOL, I'm not a good phone sex giver...I just want to listen! hehee!

 

[RawHumor]

Re: Re: Re: Is phone sex cheating?

I do have to admit, and I have told him this, that I'm curious about others. Just to see what it would be like, yannow? LOL, I'm not a good phone sex giver...I just want to listen! hehee!

How about you, me, and LTR in a 3-way call. That wouldn't really be cheating for any of us, would it?

 

[lovetoread]

I guess I should define the phone sex I do.

It involves my moaning and groaning as he fucks me with his words.

I can and have done my share of talking,but when I am uh...busy I cant seem to talk and cum at the same time.

 

[estevie]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Is phone sex cheating?

How about you, me, and LTR in a 3-way call. That wouldn't really be cheating for any of us, would it?

Well, let me ask Southern and see what he says...NOT!!! LMAO!!!

 

[brokenbrainwave]

I guess I should define the phone sex I do.

It involves my moaning and groaning as he fucks me with his words.

I can and have done my share of talking,but when I am uh...busy I cant seem to talk and cum at the same time.

LOL, so there is a time for action and a time to listen is what you are saying?

 

[RawHumor]

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Well, let me ask Southern and see what he says...NOT!!! LMAO!!!

I'm guessing that Tiger and Mrs. RH probably wouldn't approve either. But you're right, I don't have the balls to ask.

 

[brokenbrainwave]

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But you're right, I don't have the balls to ask.

smart man, I did ask, have joking half serious..needless to say she was less than pleased. Her response was "sure, go ahead, and I will get to call that amazingly great looking kid that works for you, you call him, Jason. Now do you want to hear the fantasy I have about him?"

I shut the fuck up right there

 

[RawHumor]

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smart man, I did ask, have joking half serious..needless to say she was less than pleased. Her response was "sure, go ahead, and I will get to call that amazingly great looking kid that works for you, you call him, Jason. Now do you want to hear the fantasy I have about him?"

I shut the fuck up right there

LMAO

Where do you live? We've got to get together sometime (wives too). I just can't tell my wife where I met you.

 

[intrigued]

honestly I think it is cheating IF you have to hide your activities.

Say it is Friday night, after 8 pm and you know your cell phone company does not charge for calls between now and 7 am Monday morning. All of the sudden *wink* *wink* you decide you want bagels for breakfast in the morning and make your case to your wife hubby gf bf whatever that you must get them NOW. So in the car you are, calling whomever as you drive to get bagels. On the way there, he/she says they are laying in bed naked extremely hard/wet. Immediately you know what you called for is going to happen. (hell you knew that anyways, but still nice to hear it). You explain to the naked horny person on the other end that you have to get some bagels and are talking to him her as you place your order for a bakers dozen. The naked horny person starts to touch themselves while your placing your order, once again reiterating how hard/wet they are, or are getting. You get distracted and order 18 onion bagels when the little clerk gives you a strange look, as you stammer to change your order. Your "friend" in your pants starts to betray you, you feel yourself getting harder/wetter. Either way you are throbbing against the fly and your partner is continuing to torment you by his/her activities. You grab your bagles, toss the money onto the counter, say fuck the change and run to your car. Fidgeting around trying to unzip your pants as you drive to a more secluded spot, your tomenter continues to plead for you to fuck them, to hammer them, to help them let you hear them cum. So there you are, stroking yourself to orgasm as he/she cums while parked in the lot of a school.....hiding your activities...in this case, yes it would be cheating but damn fun!

LOL.........I LOVE IT!!! *claps*

I need to keep my cell charged....why do I keep forgetting to??

 

[lovetoread]

LOL, so there is a time for action and a time to listen is what you are saying?

Yes, lol It is a good thing if you can bring yourself off to my moaning and screams.




And RH,could you imagine that pm?

_______________________________
Hey Tiger...

I was wondering if you'd let LTR have a 3 way with me and estevie?

RH
_______________________________


I dont think the spanking I'd get would be a good one.

 

[RawHumor]

I dont think the spanking I'd get would be a good one.

So you DO want me to send that PM?

 

[brokenbrainwave]

Yes, lol It is a good thing if you can bring yourself off to my moaning and screams.

LOL that has happned before

 

[lovetoread]

Heh...yea.